30 Times Brides Rightfully Called Out Their Bridesmaids For Ruining Their Weddings

I’ve never visibly and audibly gasped at a bored panda post as much as i just did, jesus christ help me. what a psychopath. and the parents!! ‘she’s just edgy’ wtf! did they laugh?? that’s f*****g disgusting

I can’t even find any way to explain why a person would do such a thing. I’ve tried. The only explanation I can create is she must be suffering mentally. That’s actually horrific, honestly.

Being edgy ≠ being an a*****e.

Sister obviously did not think much less care that she would hurt feelings by her supposed "prank". Not funny. Especially that her only response was "it's not like it's her actual sister". I mean this is rises way beyond bullying to cruelty and the fact she doesn't see that is a huge red flag. Her family justifying her behavior is ridiculous. She has somehow gotten everyone but op convinced she did nothing wrong. As it's been said, I think she legit may have some mental health issues that make her feel this was warranted but I don't care how much you don't like someone you don't do this. TL/DR: Sister is AH, OP is NTA.

I'm always blown away by how often the parents or extended family take the side of the a*****e in these stories. I don't get how shitty your parents have to be to tell YOU to get over it. If I were her father I would tell her she should skip this wedding as a sign of respect and contrition for the horrible, despicable, unempathetic piece of s**t thing she did.

I wish the faces were not blotted out. I need to see who I’m hating on.

I did go to a wedding where the bride wore pink and her bridesmaids wore white. Her choice.

Again, white should be only for the bride. Some women have entirely too big ego!

I will have bouncers at my wedding to make sure no one arrives with something I told them not to, I read too much mad sh*t here already

I've never been involved in a wedding where the bride didn't choose the outfits the bridesmaids would be wearing. Is this a different custom somewhere? I've heard of other random guests breaking the biggest unwritten wedding rule and wearing white though.

Well, she didn't want to attend from the beginning and she has looked for excuses the whole time.

Girl, you gained so much by losing her!

She is jealous.

It had to be jealousy

That friend was likely never really your friend. I had a "friend" who called the Saturday before my wedding saying she couldn't make it. I said, "it's ok, it's next Saturday". I knew then that she wouldn't be there. She didn't come. All of this after saying she couldn't be in the wedding because she couldn't afford it. I later found out that she and her mother talked terribly about my mother and I behind our backs (our mothers were friends from childhood). She hated me so much in fact that when her grandmother (who was like my own grandmother) passed, she waited a week after the funeral to leave a message with my mother (not me) to tell me I'd missed it

Florida: Land of WTF's?????

Of course, Florida! 🤣

Only in Florida 🙄

OH boy

So - for all of you totally dissing Florida - that state has the most lenient public record laws of any other state - hence the constant stories. Trust me - this c**p is happening in your vackyard as well.

Is it even fysically possible to eat so much in one day that you won't fit your clothes anymore? What a bizarre remark!

If your dress fits before the donut, it will still fit after. Throw a bucket of cold water over her

Bridesmaid "concern" shows how absolutely ignorant people are regarding how food and the body interact and why the diet industry continues to make billions of dollars per year.

Funny thing, many women I’ve spoken to over the years ( I’m almost 60) have told me that their MOH or one of the Bridesmaids have acted like Divas on the wedding day, throwing tantrums making unreasonable demands, forcing changes they had no right to make & generally making it about themselves & not the bride. One woman who had been coerced into having her fiancés sister as a BM regretted it so badly when the Bridesmaid in question make such a song & dance about her hair, making the stylist change it 3 times that there was no time left to do the brides hair so she had to do it herself.

Some people focus too much on appearance. My Mom's friend visited recently and criticized me telling my daughter to eat the bread on her ham sandwich. Just because she does not like bread does not mean she should encourage someone else's child not to eat. Talk about over stepping your boundaries. Sounds like your bridesmaid was also overstepping hers.