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Your wedding is supposed to be the happiest day in your life. But with all the pressure for it to be perfect, stress and sleepless nights, things more often than not go sour. Blame it on the bad weather, lack of planning, mercury in retrograde, or bridesmaids… speaking of whom, that's who this post is really about.

You are probably familiar with the corner of Reddit called “Wedding Shaming” where people gather to roast failed weddings, from tacky dresses to indecent behavior. With 312k members, it’s Reddit’s destination to blow off that steam if you just returned from a wedding you’d much rather have missed.  This time, brides are sharing the worst bridesmaid stories that happened during their weddings both on the subreddit and this Ask Reddit thread.

The stories below make you wonder how important it is to choose your close friends and family members so you don’t end up with a stolen spotlight and a bad memory.

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Bridesmaid/Sil From Hell From Dear Prudence

Bridesmaid/Sil From Hell From Dear Prudence

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To find out more about what it means to be a perfect bridesmaid and how common drama during wedding preparation is, as well as how to avoid it, Bored Panda spoke with the person who knows it all: Jen Glantz, the founder of Bridesmaid for Hire and The Newlywed Card Game, a 3x best-selling author, a voice of You’re Not Getting Any Younger podcast, and the brains behind Jen & Juice coaching, digital courses, & the Pick-Me-Up newsletter.

Glantz said that while we might think there's unity and peace inside of bridal parties, they are actually filled with conflict and drama. “That's because weddings are filled with decisions, pop-up challenges, and a lot of emotions. When you bring your friends and family into that equation and ask them to stand by your side, while also giving them a to-do list of things you expect them to do during your wedding adventure, it can bring a level of intensity that didn't exist before the wedding within that relationship,” she explained.

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She Looks Absolutely Gorgeous.... Except She’s Not The Bride

She Looks Absolutely Gorgeous.... Except She’s Not The Bride

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Brides Who Had Horrible Bridesmaids, What Happened?

Brides Who Had Horrible Bridesmaids, What Happened?

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Joe Blowe
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1 year ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

How dare you even ask her to curl her hair, that is going way overboard with the demands, hahaha

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There Is A Whole Lot To Unpack Here

There Is A Whole Lot To Unpack Here

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A lot of conflicts happen because of lack of communication and expectations, Glantz argues. “So much can be avoided if the person getting married clearly states what they want from their bridal party and the people in the bridal party openly share what they are able and willing to do before the wedding process even starts.”When asked about what it takes to be the perfect bridesmaid for the bride, Glantz said it's so much like being a good friend. “Before you even say yes to being a bridesmaid, have a game plan in mind,” she said.

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Shaming My Bridesmaid For Shaming My Eating Habits

Shaming My Bridesmaid For Shaming My Eating Habits

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Fun fact: people who make negative comments on other people's eating habits are less likely to die of natural causes!

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Time To Fire The Bridesmaid

Time To Fire The Bridesmaid

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Joe Blowe
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

If the bride is already paying for everything, then there is a budget set up. The bridesmaid either chooses a pair within the price range, pays the difference in pricing or she is out of the wedding party. Just because she found a pair that she likes does not mean she can force the bride to overpay.

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Sara Wolfson
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Exactly! I was wondering why the bride didn’t just offer to pay the difference when the one bridesmaid chose expensive shoes. I personally think the bride is being almost TOO accommodating, BUT she did offer to pay for the shoes. So just pay the difference since you already promised 🤷🏻‍♀️

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

"Well, I'm very sorry you feel that way but I totally respect your choice to no longer be part of the wedding party" and then leave the ball in her court. Clearly she can't just not have shoes so either she buys them herself, sticks within your budget and lets you pay, or withdraws from the wedding party.

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1 year ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

If she withdraws, she will still end up with a free dress, since OP has apparently already bought dresses

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Carlotta Müller
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

There are bridezillas and this seemes to be a bridesmaidzilla. I do not understand. I could never choose so expensive shoes and expect someone else to buy them. She will be able to wear a cheaper pair of silver shoes for one day. I do not understand this thinking.... this greed.

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Callie Ge
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Well it’s nothing then, I would offer to give her £50 towards a pair of shoes & she pays the rest, if she still says no then ask her to return the dress to you in perfect condition, if she damages it in any way you will take her to small claims court.

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Kate Micheals
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Ok. I choose...or nothing. You save lots of money by not having to pay for the rest of her c**p too. Win for you as far as I can tell!

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Penny Kemper
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Seriously been a brides maid twice and never questioned the brides choices as it's her wedding. What is wrong with people now? It's your friend... her day... just f*****g do what she wants

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tw 72
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

She is not your friend. Re-evaluate your relationship with her.

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Alicia GriffonLady
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

If you check her facebook, she might already be bragging abut the fantastic shoes she'll be wearing to some night club. >.> What about getting her a cheap knockoff version?

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Alma Muminovic
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Lmao, then its obviously nothing buh bye b***h! Not a friend, just using you.

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tabithapaquette98
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9 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Sounds like she just wants free stuff. She can buy her own shoes. Or ask for a more reasonably priced pair!

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Gladys Hayes Southerland
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Set A limit & tell her that's it. Higher & she can make up the difference. User

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Margaret Weaver
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1 year ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Anyone that puts you over a barrel, is your enemy, not your friend.

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Kristin Bergh
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

When I was a bridesmaid in one of my close friends' wedding, she was one of the most considerate, laid back brides I've ever seen. We had to pay for our own outfits because she wasn't loaded, but she was completely reasonable about her requirements. Since we were all different ages and body shapes/weights, the only rule was that we order our dress from a specific wedding designer (which was purposely very affordable for wedding attire — my dress was $110 with tax) in a specific color, and our shoes had to be silver (she found a suggested style at Payless for only $20!). She didn't care if the dress styles were the same, only the color; what was most important to her was that we each FELT beautiful. She wanted us to choose dresses that reflected our personalities, because she said that's why she loved each of us — for who we uniquely were as people. And I gotta say... we all looked amazing in the photos with her! 😉 If only ALL brides could be as sweet as she was!

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April McLeod
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Fire her; you've paid for everything else - she wants to be the center of attention; she can do that on HER wedding day, not yours 💗

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Barbie
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I would only have 3 bridesmaids after what that bum bish pulled. No thank you!

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Chris B
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

The shoes my sister had me wear as a bridesmaid were so ugly (in my opinion only, not the other adult bridesmaid who loved them!) that I wore them once and gave them to the bride after the wedding! It's one day and as long as they don't hurt it doesn't matter.

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Libby Wyzykowski
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Diva! Return her clobber and tell her to come as a guest and she won’t have any of the headaches an worries!

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Ambry Petersen
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Let her go barefoot. Sounds like one of those friends who is just a little self entitled and expects special treatment over everyone else...I think everyone knows someone like that.

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Nicole Ford
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

How is letting them pick their own shoes dramatic? Makes no sense. I'd tell her shed be going barefoot then!

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Tarryn Louise
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Tell your friend it was nice knowing her, but feel free to f**k off.

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Marilyn Russell
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Does seem a bit excessive for a pair of shoes you will wear once. She could compromise. Split the cost.

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A Perfect Time To Propose (Bridesmaid's Friend's Wedding)

A Perfect Time To Propose (Bridesmaid's Friend's Wedding)

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Glantz’s advice is to reflect on a couple of things: “Understand how much time, money, and energy you can spend on this person's wedding adventure. Say no to things you can't afford or can't do. Be upfront and don't be scared to be honest about your expectations in the role.” Moreover, Glantz argues that “if the person getting married gets mad at you because you can't afford to take three days off work and spend $1,500 on her bachelorette party, then the friendship has bigger issues.”

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#8

With Friends Like These Who Needs Enemies 😬

With Friends Like These Who Needs Enemies 😬

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#9

My Sister Is Getting Married. This Is The Dress One Of Her Bridesmaids Bought

My Sister Is Getting Married. This Is The Dress One Of Her Bridesmaids Bought

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Brides Who Had Horrible Bridesmaids, What Happened?

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1 year ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

So either an attention seeking prat or the MOH knew the husband better than the bride thought…

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“Also, as a bridesmaid, it's important to practice some selflessness in the tough moments. Be there for the person getting married and support them. Let things go that don't really matter so you can help your friend get through the wedding. For example, if you're getting your hair done on the morning of the wedding but it's not perfect, rather than holding up the wedding timeline for you to get it re-done and bringing attention to it (which can stress the bride out), fix it privately yourself and move on,” the life coach and Bridesmaid for Hire explained.

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Drop her. A "first met" date in comparison to a wedding is like a candle to the sun. It. Is. Not. Her. Day. It is YOURS!

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Brides Who Had Horrible Bridesmaids, What Happened?

Brides Who Had Horrible Bridesmaids, What Happened?

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Olivia Lisbon
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I’m surprised there was a friendship in the first place…or did the new guy turn her into this monster? Huge red flag.

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Oh God. Found On Fb. Even Matching Pearls!

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When it comes to deciding who you want to have as a bridesmaid, Glantz suggests thinking about this: “who would you want to get stuck in an elevator with for 4 hours? Those are the people who should be your bridesmaids. Pick people who make you feel calm and loved.” She added that it’s not a good idea to pick people because you feel obligated to.

For the bride who feels very pressured to have the most perfect day in their life, Glantz reminds that no wedding is perfect, just like no day in your life is. “Instead, think about practicing ways to go with the flow, handle emotions, and rebalance expectations before your big day comes to life.”

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Brides Who Had Horrible Bridesmaids, What Happened?

Brides Who Had Horrible Bridesmaids, What Happened?

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Brides Who Had Horrible Bridesmaids, What Happened?

Brides Who Had Horrible Bridesmaids, What Happened?

I’ll try to keep this short. My supposed best friend “E” was a toxic friend but I was still in the 16yr friendship at the time of my wedding, urgh.
I didn’t want a hen do & my hubby didn’t want a stagger so we just had a wee pre-wedding party, it was just cheesey good natured fun including games and stuff. I totally understand that’s not everyone’s idea of fun but, y’know... it was our wedding. She sat apart from us all, audibly making fun of everything we did but I just ignored her because she was always nasty & insufferably ‘cool’ & I didn’t want drama when my sister had organised it & we were having fun.
“E” has stretched ear lobes so I asked her if she wouldn’t mind wearing flesh coloured plugs and earrings to match the other girls. She said yes but on the day she said she’d lost the plugs I’d bought her and had in obnoxiously large black things that really drew your eye but I’m not a maniac, these things happen & I didn’t really care that much.... until I found out she’d been making fun of how she loved throwing the plugs in the bin and that I’m such an idiot, I’d believe her. Why wouldn’t I since I’d only asked her to do it for me as a favour because I liked the earring I bought my bridesmaids, I would never demand someone change their appearance for me.
On my wedding day, she waltzed into breakfast at the venue in her pyjamas with a bucket, claiming she had a migraine and was going to be spewing all day. I knew she was faking because it’s nearly impossible to fake a full on migraine while you’re walking about talking to people & laughing. I suggested that she can go lie down in one of the bedrooms but she aggressively said “I guess I’ll just have to deal with it but I’ll need to have a bucket at the ceremony”. My sister told her that wasn’t an acceptable option and if she needed to go home that could be arranged for her but she didn’t go home nor show any further signs of a migraine. She was snippy for the whole rest of the day & made a scene on the dance floor at night by doing an unplanned choreographed dance with her new friend to a song that we used to dance to when we went out at weekends as kids. It was a kick in the teeth although I was too happy to get upset. Our friendship was never the same after that day & she ended up finishing the friendship in a storm of drama just after I had my first kid. She’s an awful person.

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I had a friend like that. Got mad at me for getting married and even worse after I had a kid because "I wasn't hanging out with her anymore." Life happens and it's not up to me to help you find your happiness.

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Brides Who Had Horrible Bridesmaids, What Happened?

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

She may have been embarrassed that she left things too late, or perhaps couldn’t afford them, but this is still a terrible way to treat people. But then why tell other people not to come? There has to be more to this…

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“In the end, you're celebrating a new step you're taking in your relationship. That's all that matters. If the flowers don't look right or a bridesmaid is causing drama, let it go, focus on the good, and have a good time. You staying present and celebrating the good will outshine what goes wrong on your wedding day,” the life coach concluded.

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Brides Who Had Horrible Bridesmaids, What Happened?

Brides Who Had Horrible Bridesmaids, What Happened?

I was pretty young when I got married, got engaged my senior year of college and got married the summer out of college. We’re in the South, so it’s not uncommon for that to happen.

Had a bridesmaid who had been a somewhat close friend. Her boyfriend (of 6 months, but they “had known each other for longer”) had not proposed to her yet, and she would consistently take her frustration about that out on me. Saying things like how they “deserve” to get married first since they knew each other longer than my now husband and I (which, I might add was false), saying nasty, damning with faint praise things to me. Insulting my body, insulting me in general, little caustic comments that would just hurt honestly. It got really out of hand. She finally stopped talking to me and would purposely leave me out of things that our friend group would do. She was a very homely type of person, and a big part of a Church crowd which made things so much worse imo. She constantly acted holier than thou and many people saw her “innocence” as kindness and assumed she was nice just because she was Churchy.

About a month or so later, I confronted her about it. I told her that I felt like our friendship was dwindling and I didn’t understand why. I told her how I felt and that if it was something I had done that I’d do my best to amend it. She flipped out saying “she wasn’t jealous but she just knew what was right and wrong”, inferring that her relationship was “better” somehow. It was absolutely mad. I asked her if she even wanted to be in the wedding at this point. She said she did, she really did and never even apologized. Looking back on this situation I should’ve never asked her in the first place. She suddenly went cold-Turkey ignoring me. I finally asked if she and I could talk and she acquiesced. I “fired” her from being a bridesmaid. I felt horrible about it. I truly did. At the same time, I couldn’t handle all the straight up bullying I was taking. I never once yelled at her, never once called her any names. She told everyone I yelled at her and called her a b***h. 😂 Even if I had, that would’ve been nothing compared to the s**t I endured from her.

My other bridesmaids were amazing and really took my side on this. She finally got engaged and married to that dude and I hope she’s happy now. Jesus she made my life miserable for a solid 6 months.

tl;dr lesson - if you choose to have bridesmaids, pick only the people you know you’ll be close to for years to come. And don’t let people bully you!

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Groom’s Sister Is Told Prior To Wedding That Her Dress Choice Is Inappropriate. Sister Replies She Will Never Speak To Her Brother Again If He Goes Through With The Wedding. She Is Uninvited From Wedding, Then Shows Up To Wedding In This Off-White Cocktail Dress.

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

change the color by pouring champagne all over her. problem solved. (have her pay for the wasted bubbly).

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Shaming Bridesmaid

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I don’t think I’d mind having a good boy at my wedding or in the pictures…but I’d definitely like to know about it in advance.

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Brides Who Had Horrible Bridesmaids, What Happened?

Brides Who Had Horrible Bridesmaids, What Happened?

I chose my sisters, which was the biggest mistake.

They fought me on every single decision when it came to the dress. Everyone they chose looked too casual or was very inappropriate for a wedding (think either a faux leather peplum dress from Guess, or a casual Wilfred dress from Aritzia). After I searched for weeks online and at stores, they finally agreed on one from Nordstrom which I had to order and take care of. They fought me on any "duties" or helping with any sort of prep. They showed up for 4 hours the day before. Argued on any placement of decorations and took off after I begged everyone to do a short rehearsal. Even though I told them I needed help. (Keep in mind they did not have to travel for the wedding, my husband and I arranged it so WE were the only ones who had to travel far). No bridal shower, no bachelorette party. They claimed they were too busy. A friend offered to throw one and they told her no, they would plan one...they never did. Two nights before the wedding, I told them I booked reservations for us and my mom at a local pub just to have something. I ended up having to cancel because they didn't want too. (My mom enabled and justified a lot of their behavior. And she wonders why I felt like they were the favourites growing up). The day of they did not help me at all get ready at all. My photographers were amazing who did everything from help me finish my hair and make up
(they even ran out to get me new lashes because mine got wrecked) and get me into my dress. And, at the reception, they made a toast...which was so awkward. It was basically about who should have been the maid of honour and basically being all about them. I remember looking out and peoples faces were just cringing. At the end I just focused on having fun the rest of the night and ignoring them.

Looking back, I should have not had them. I came pretty close to having a bridezilla moment, because I was just so fed up. All they did was go dress shopping with me once, they went out one afternoon to look for bridesmaid dresses which they didn't find any, I had too. They showed up a the hall for 4 hours to set up, and they showed up at the wedding. That was it. Anything additional I asked, I got told no. Or, any plans I tried to make to have a bit of fun before I was told no. I had a couple friends who step up big time the weeks before, and I felt so shitty because I should have asked them.

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A Mean Bridesmaid Picked It Apart Before The Bride Could See It. This Is The Only Pic I Took

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Brides Who Had Horrible Bridesmaids, What Happened?

Brides Who Had Horrible Bridesmaids, What Happened?

I chose my best friend of 16 years to be my maid of honor. Big mistake on my part as she has a strong personality, can be very controlling, and is studying to be a lawyer, so she believes she can never be wrong.

About 4 months ago, my fiancé and I were thinking it over and decided it’d be cheaper and easier to just have a backyard wedding to save some money, as we were due to spend at least $16k at our current venue. I told my MOH about it, thinking she’d be supportive, but instead she just s**t all over the idea. She called it trashy and a “glorified graduation party”.

Thinking it would do no harm I asked her mom if it’d be a possibility for us to have the wedding in her backyard. Due to liability reasons she declined. The next day my MOH confronts me and calls me a sh**ty person and selfish for going behind her back and asking her mom. They don’t have the best relationship, but they still talk every now and then and I really thought it wouldn’t be an issue. I apologized over and over to my friend, while she repeatedly told me I was stupid and didn’t know how to use my f*****g brain and didn’t know what I was doing. I finally ended the conversation by basically kicking her out of the wedding party.

We’re now getting married in 3 months on the beach in Florida, with a small set of close friends and family. Either my friend doesn’t know, or she does and hasn’t bothered to confront me about it. I’ve only spoken to her once since our fight a few months ago - to wish her a happy birthday and she was a complete d**k to me. Sad to say I lost one of my best friends over my own wedding, because I didn’t agree with her.

And she called me the selfish one...

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I do think it was weird for you to bypass her and ask her mother if you could use her backyard.

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Brides Who Had Horrible Bridesmaids, What Happened?

Brides Who Had Horrible Bridesmaids, What Happened?

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I don't see a problem with this.. What happened to the bride's family? Her parents or siblings if any? The other bridesmaid was married. Married folks always sleep with their spouses? Single friends definitely can have a sleepover with the bride. But can't be expected the same from married people if the spouse is present right there! MOH was kinda shitty by having affair with photographer, but the other bridesmaid isn't at fault.

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Brides Who Had Horrible Bridesmaids, What Happened?

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Laid Back Wedding In The Summer. The Bride Wore A Tank Top And Sarong. Her Friend Asked What Her Wedding Dress Would Be (And The Colors)

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I don't think these comments are getting the issue is the bridesmaid turned up in the same outfit in the same colours after asking about it, not what the bride wanted to wear for her wedding

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Groomsmen Plans To Propose At Bachelor/Ette Party. Group Is Split On Whether Or Not It's Okay. Comments Are All Bashing The Bride For Not Being Completely On Board. I Don't Think She's Wrong To Feel A Little Upset Though. What's Supposed To Be A Bach Party Is Going To Turn Into An Engagement Party!

Groomsmen Plans To Propose At Bachelor/Ette Party. Group Is Split On Whether Or Not It's Okay. Comments Are All Bashing The Bride For Not Being Completely On Board. I Don't Think She's Wrong To Feel A Little Upset Though. What's Supposed To Be A Bach Party Is Going To Turn Into An Engagement Party!

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

as far as I know, its considered super rude to propose at someones wedding, i'm not positive that its the same for bachelor party, but I would assume that its still considered rude, as they are drawing the attention away from the couple, on what is supposed to be their day

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Bride Needs To Find New Bridesmaids Asap

Bride Needs To Find New Bridesmaids Asap

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Linnea
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

WTAF is this person trying to say? Best I can figure, this bridesmaid decided to attend some random bachelor party at a different hotel, instead of going to her friend's bachelorette party? Is...is that it? I'm so confused.

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