The Guests Were So Horrified By This Brides List Of Demands They Shared Them With The Internet
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The word ‘bridezilla‘ gets bandied about a little too easily these days, but this bizarre list of rules and demands apparently shared by a prospective wedding guest takes the meaning of the word to a new level.
The wedding list, created by a wedding coordinator and thinly disguised as a ‘finally headcount,’ has drawn widespread derision for both the offensive nature of the demands and the semi-literate way that they were presented by the wedding planner. You would think that a professional in the world of marriage would be familiar with the word sequence ‘wedding ceremony‘ by now, but not this one apparently.
I think it’s fair to say that the final headcount may just have shrunk significantly after this dictatorial wedding plans diktat, as the ‘seramony’ hardly promises to be a barrel of laughs.
Scroll down to read the barely believable bridezilla story for yourself, and let us know what you think in the comments!
This list of wedding day demands was drawn up by a bridezilla in the truest sense of the word
Image credits: JudahArt / iStock (not the actual photo)
A guest apparently shared the list, which they received from the wedding coordinator
Here’s how people reacted
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Sorry, but I don't believe this ever happened. Just someone fabricating a ridiculous story in an effort to spark the next bridezilla story to go viral. Sometimes it seems like being outraged is our new national pastime.
I think it's for real, I know people that stush!
Agreed. I've been at weddings where this lousy would have fit right in. It's nice that people think that there aren't horrible people out there, but that is the idea that's fake.
Of course I could be wrong as I am sure there are miserable people like this out there, but with this post in particular I don't see any specifics that would indicate any authenticity. Just a screen shot of an email from a phone. There's not even any indication where this came from (i.e., a user on Reddit or Imgur, etc.), just the screenshot. The details were so ridiculous that it got me questioning, which led me to look for sources within the post.
I mean, I'm sure it could be true, but I'm leaning towards fake too. The thing that really makes me question it is the staggering amount of spelling errors in it. Could a bride this obessesed with her wedding really hire a coordinator (or pretend to be one) without even a quick spellcheck?
If "it's just a screenshot" is your reasoning for it being fake, than anything on the internet is, by default, fake. Putting a Facebook logo on it wouldn't change a thing then. Be that as it may - ridiculous rules and regulations on weddings have become more and more common. A few years ago no one I knew (well enough to invite me) even hired a wedding planner (because they are not really a thing here?) and now... everything is planned to the last piece of glitter. "Only bring gifts from label xy". "Wear this." "Don't wear that." "Bring money because we want to go on a cruise". So no, I don't think this is fake.
this can happen - spent most of my wedding day watng to get the hell out of there - was never a Brizezilla - in my hired (got delivered on the train) borrowed gown that looked crap anyway
Seriously, the person who wrote this was practically illiterate
it's so fake i can smell the unicorn elves on the blue moon
I think this was probably written as a piece of satire, and if so, it's done rather well: it's funny, and often teeters on the edge of credibility.
For million % sure this is either fake, or a translation. 0% chance a real company would have that many spelling errors, nor do the all caps etc. "Everyone will toast with Remy, no acceptance"? Right. I'm calling shenanigans.
I suspect it's a parody. A bad translation would probably have been done via something like Google Translate, which would at least know how to spell "ceremony".
Sometimes?
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I have a rule - think it should be a given where possible. If you get invited to a wedding, whether family or friends, give a gift that will be equivalent to what the family have paid out to feed and entertain you. if you know it is £50 each they are paying for your enjoyment and you think it just a freebie - dont go.
NEVER. That is not EVER a rule that existed or should exist. When you give a party, you are the HOST, and you have an OBLIGATION to make your guests comfortable. Period, end of discussion. This goes for dinner parties right up to galas. Your guests DO NOT owe you anything. You owe them. ...///... Demanding or expecting a gift to "cover the costs" is rude beyond belief. If anyone ever pulled that crap on me, not only would I not go, but that would be the last they ever heard of me.
I'd RSVP with a "no f*cking way I'll be attending"
I can't decide if I' d send her your "no f*cking way I'll be attending", or if I'd go for Whitney-Blair Beals version and meticulously do all the "don't". Hopefully, I don't think I count someone like this in my family or friends.
LOL! I really though about this too- it would be so tempting to show up and do all the 'don'ts' just to see what would happen. But that 75 dollar cover charge just to get in the door- I don't think I could bear paying it to them.
Or say you're going with a plus one then don't show up lol
"want be", "seramony"? Seriously, someone with this attention to language detail should not be coordinating a wedding. The actual list is too ridiculous to receive any attention.
I have a feeling this is the bride herself pretending to be a wedding coordinator because have one is more posh.
just organise your own bloody wedding and hope your best friends turn up
the whole vocabulary is pathetic
I seriously doubt this was real.
Definitely, I really don't think I would hire a wedding coordinator who couldn't spell "ceremony" (you are literally coordinating a wedding CEREMONY). For real, just go back and proof an email that is supposed to be professional sounding before you send it out.
Sorry, but I don't believe this ever happened. Just someone fabricating a ridiculous story in an effort to spark the next bridezilla story to go viral. Sometimes it seems like being outraged is our new national pastime.
I think it's for real, I know people that stush!
Agreed. I've been at weddings where this lousy would have fit right in. It's nice that people think that there aren't horrible people out there, but that is the idea that's fake.
Of course I could be wrong as I am sure there are miserable people like this out there, but with this post in particular I don't see any specifics that would indicate any authenticity. Just a screen shot of an email from a phone. There's not even any indication where this came from (i.e., a user on Reddit or Imgur, etc.), just the screenshot. The details were so ridiculous that it got me questioning, which led me to look for sources within the post.
I mean, I'm sure it could be true, but I'm leaning towards fake too. The thing that really makes me question it is the staggering amount of spelling errors in it. Could a bride this obessesed with her wedding really hire a coordinator (or pretend to be one) without even a quick spellcheck?
If "it's just a screenshot" is your reasoning for it being fake, than anything on the internet is, by default, fake. Putting a Facebook logo on it wouldn't change a thing then. Be that as it may - ridiculous rules and regulations on weddings have become more and more common. A few years ago no one I knew (well enough to invite me) even hired a wedding planner (because they are not really a thing here?) and now... everything is planned to the last piece of glitter. "Only bring gifts from label xy". "Wear this." "Don't wear that." "Bring money because we want to go on a cruise". So no, I don't think this is fake.
this can happen - spent most of my wedding day watng to get the hell out of there - was never a Brizezilla - in my hired (got delivered on the train) borrowed gown that looked crap anyway
Seriously, the person who wrote this was practically illiterate
it's so fake i can smell the unicorn elves on the blue moon
I think this was probably written as a piece of satire, and if so, it's done rather well: it's funny, and often teeters on the edge of credibility.
For million % sure this is either fake, or a translation. 0% chance a real company would have that many spelling errors, nor do the all caps etc. "Everyone will toast with Remy, no acceptance"? Right. I'm calling shenanigans.
I suspect it's a parody. A bad translation would probably have been done via something like Google Translate, which would at least know how to spell "ceremony".
Sometimes?
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This was duplicate of my answer above. I don't post and delete.
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I have a rule - think it should be a given where possible. If you get invited to a wedding, whether family or friends, give a gift that will be equivalent to what the family have paid out to feed and entertain you. if you know it is £50 each they are paying for your enjoyment and you think it just a freebie - dont go.
NEVER. That is not EVER a rule that existed or should exist. When you give a party, you are the HOST, and you have an OBLIGATION to make your guests comfortable. Period, end of discussion. This goes for dinner parties right up to galas. Your guests DO NOT owe you anything. You owe them. ...///... Demanding or expecting a gift to "cover the costs" is rude beyond belief. If anyone ever pulled that crap on me, not only would I not go, but that would be the last they ever heard of me.
I'd RSVP with a "no f*cking way I'll be attending"
I can't decide if I' d send her your "no f*cking way I'll be attending", or if I'd go for Whitney-Blair Beals version and meticulously do all the "don't". Hopefully, I don't think I count someone like this in my family or friends.
LOL! I really though about this too- it would be so tempting to show up and do all the 'don'ts' just to see what would happen. But that 75 dollar cover charge just to get in the door- I don't think I could bear paying it to them.
Or say you're going with a plus one then don't show up lol
"want be", "seramony"? Seriously, someone with this attention to language detail should not be coordinating a wedding. The actual list is too ridiculous to receive any attention.
I have a feeling this is the bride herself pretending to be a wedding coordinator because have one is more posh.
just organise your own bloody wedding and hope your best friends turn up
the whole vocabulary is pathetic
I seriously doubt this was real.
Definitely, I really don't think I would hire a wedding coordinator who couldn't spell "ceremony" (you are literally coordinating a wedding CEREMONY). For real, just go back and proof an email that is supposed to be professional sounding before you send it out.