Woman Shares Abortion Story After Psycho-Ex Got Her Pregnant To ‘Lock Her In’ To Show The Other Side Of Anti-Abortion Laws
The internet has been blowing up with hashtags in response to a surge of abortion bills and laws being introduced in southern and midwest states. Twitter movements such as #ShoutYourAbortion and more recently #YouKnowMe, started by T.V personality Busy Philipps, as a response to Georgia and Alabama’s restrictive abortion bills being signed into law. The goal of these hashtags is said to destigmatize the procedure and encourage women to share their stories, stories like this one from Twitter user Brie.
In a thread, the young woman shared her own personal abortion story she had when she was 17-years-old and it shows another side of possible results of hardlines laws like the one Alabama just passed. Brie explained that she had become pregnant when she was 17-years-old as the result of her boyfriend at the time, poking a hole in his condom. This practice is called ‘reproductive coercion.’ This type of sexual abuse can take many forms such as: threatening to leave unless the woman becomes pregnant, threatening to have a baby with someone else if she doesn’t comply, physically abusing a woman because she does not agree to pregnancy – and in the case of Brie – tampering with birth control to deliberately cause pregnancy.
This young woman just shared the reason behind her abortion in response to the new abortion laws and it’s going viral
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When Brie told her boyfriend that she was pregnant he admitted to poking the condom in an effort to “lock her in.” Poking holes in commons or removing them completely (also called “stealthing”) is a growing problem that the legal system hasn’t caught up to in the United States. Lawyer Alexandra Brodsky wrote a legal paper on the topic to address what she calls, ‘nonconsensual condom removal: “Ultimately, a new tort for “stealthing” is necessary both to provide victims with a more viable cause of action and to reflect better the harms wrought by nonconsensual condom removal.” Currently, there is no legal path for victims of this practice in the U.S.
As a minor Brie explained that she had to have parental consent to get the procedure, but didn’t want to tell her parents, so she went to a judge. Each state has its own laws concerning parental consent for an abortion. Some states have no laws and others require permission from an older family member. The OP was able to receive a “judicial bypass” allowing her to get an abortion without parental consent. Alabama requires parental consent but allows judicial bypass and; Georgia requires that one parent be told of the decision 24 hours before the abortion and also allows judicial bypass.
In the case of this young woman, she was able to have a non-surgical abortion, available within the first two to ten weeks of pregnancy. This process works by taking two separate pills, mifepristone, which blocks a hormone necessary for a pregnancy to grow, and misoprostol, which stimulates the uterus to cramp and bleed so that the pregnancy will leave your body (similar to a miscarriage). Following the abortion, she broke up with her boyfriend. In the tweets, she said she pulled a knife on her and cut himself. Several studies about the rates of reproductive coercion have been done, and one found that in the US, that among 71 women with a history of intimate partner violence, almost three quarters had experienced some form of reproductive control.
Eventually, he was arrested. A Global Turnaway Study shows that American women who seek and are denied an abortion are more likely to remain in violent relationships than women who are able to access a procedure.
One woman shared her own similar experience
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While ‘stealthing’ like in the U.S is not covered by the law in Canada, the country did successfully sentence a man on these grounds in 2014. The Supreme Court of Canada upheld the sexual assault conviction of a man who poked holes in his partner’s condom without knowledge or consent. In the case R v. Hutchinson, the man was sentenced to 18 months in prison.
And the OP thanked her for opening up and sharing support
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The most recent states to pass abortion bills are Alabama and Georgia. Alabama Gov. Kay Ivey signed the controversial abortion bill passed by The Alabama Senate passed the bill 25-6, that could punish doctors who perform abortions with a 99-year or lifetime prison sentence. The law does not allow exceptions for rape and incest. Georgia’s governor Brian Kemp signed a “heartbeat bill”, that bans abortion once a fetal heartbeat has been detected, which is possible as early as six weeks.
Other commenters highlighted the importance of having a support system like her friend
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While not everyone supported her position they supported access to reproductive education and birth control
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Share on FacebookI love how people say "Well you can put it up for adoption" as though there isn't an entire pregnancy / birth before that point. As though you've bought something you don't like any more and decide to stick it on ebay. No one should have to change their body permanently, and risk their health and their life if they don't want to have a baby. Abortion is safe, it's a medical procedure. If you don't want to have one, fine, but leave everyone else alone to decide what happens to their own body.
Many child get to live in foster homes for years before adopted (or turn 18 and... politely asked to leave) In my country, 10,000 kids end in adoption centers, or the streets. Relly sad.
Load More Replies...In response to the 'you could have put it up for adoption!' crowd - nope, not in this circumstance - jerkass here can contest as unless she has him prosecuted for rape, he has the right to go for custody instead. Then, if he gains custody, she's connected to him for decades. Doesn't that sound so fun?
Even rapists can get custody in some states https://www.cnn.com/2016/11/17/health/parental-rights-rapists-explainer/index.html
Load More Replies...There are no laws governing men's bodies. Think about that. All y'all who want to restrict a woman's right to body autonomy f**k right off. Corpses have more body rights than women.
We could start a campaign to have all men get vasectomies until they have entered into a contractual agreement with their partner to have a child. Or we could also make it punishable by law if they masturbate because that lonely sperm could have been a child. We should get better at regulating men's bodies so they learn to leave ours alone.
Load More Replies...This is such a sensitive subject. And I love how people have smart a$$ remarks like "This is why they have birth control". Has it ever dawned on you that it isn't always effective. I, myself, have two children that were conceived WHILE I was on the birth control shot and always got my shots on time, so there is no questions I didn't properly take it. It happens. We, as women, should have that right, that CHOICE!
Every woman in America should be stocking up on mifepristone and misoprostol just in case our rights get trampled on any more. You never know when you or a friend might need it. S**t like this happens all the time and the only reason this young lady got through it was with help from her support system. If uneducated religious psychos band together to enact nonsense laws, women should band together and just say no, we won’t obey these laws. We should help each other. I’m ordering mine now, there are several websites you can get it from.
I am so devastated as to what has happened. These abortion laws are so horrible. I am such a pro-choicer, now that I know what that is. And , what about children who get raped? What about incest? This is the STUPIDEST thing I have ever heard of, and yeah, a lot of people will hate on me for writing this but, women deserve a choice. We deserve to do whatever we want to our bodies, and even if you decide to keep him/her and put him/her up for adoption, the rapist of a father can take custody!And what about women who get pregnant and their partner says, if you don't get an abortion, I'm going to kill you, what are they supposed to do, let themselves die? And if you have to get an abortion, the only way to do it at this point is with a wire hanger in an alleyway, and if you do, you'll probably get caught, one way or another, and be put in prison for 3rd degree murder! God, this is honestly the stupidest law I have ever heard of!
This shouldn't even be an issue in this day and age! Religion should not be part of government law. How absurd
Yeah. That whole thing is a mess. Separation of church and state but let’s throw gods names all over the place and buildings. Also all men are created equal. Unless they’re not white. Also not born equal but created. Hail satan!
Load More Replies...it all boils down to 'your beliefs may not be MY beliefs.' we should ALL have the right to govern our own bodies, no matter what sex you are. every situation is NOT the same, and women should not be shamed or made to feel guilty about their decisions, regardless of what they are. period.
Great friend! I support adoption over abortion...but I understand there are situations like these that makes having abortion availability necessary. Besides rape and incest...there are also medical reasons why women can't carry. I've seen women walk the line between life and death trying to have a child. Anyone who thinks that the main reason most women have abortions is because of infidelity needs to stop watching so much TV and start looking at the statistics.
Blondhorsecrazy, you missed the entire point of Emory's response.
Load More Replies...Christian dementia is behind this logical fallacy of respecting the life of a clump of cells while depriving women, non-whites, immigrants, the poor and the imprisoned of rights. As Stephen Weinberg put it, "...the good can do good things, the evil can do evil things, but for a good person to do evil takes Religion."
It is impossible to say you will never have an abortion because you will never know until you are in that position. Many women have had abortions that could never imagine making that choice but pregnancy is still a leading cause of premature death in women, even in America, and women should not have to plead their case to a judge to have a medical procedure done. I am 30 and thinking more seriously about having kids, but I don't feel comfortable having them if I cannot be assured of access to an abortion if I need it. More and more I think less about having kids and more about being sterilized but I doubt I could find a doctor willing to sterilize a woman without children. Pisses me off so much.
yes, and the statistics for pregnant women being murdered by the father is shockingly high.
Load More Replies...I had my first kid at 14 years old, I was to far along to make any other decision but to give birth by the time I found out I was pregnant. However giving my son up for adoption was an option at the time, but I was lucky enough to have a family to help me and allow me to finish school. Even had I still been in the early stages to contemplate abortion I still would not have done it, but that is just me. I dont think it is my right or anyone elses (especially a man) to decide what any women should do and can do with her body. Many people think that the solution is to have the baby and give them up for adoption, put them in a system that is already filled with unwanted children. Foster care is not always the best solution for them either, it does not mean that it always goes wrong. But some people take in children with the wrong intentions and they suffer more in the hands of those that are paid to care for them. It is a very sad day for our country and we are continuing to go backwards.
It should absolutely be the woman’s choice, but it is important not to peddle myths about adoption. Voluntarily surrendering an infant through an agency is not putting them into the foster system. They are completely different channels.
Load More Replies...I'm glad you stood up for your teenage self with help of that friend An chose to keep your life as your own an not locked into a crazy mind trap someone set up for you. Abortion is needed for these issues. And rapes. And for women that can't afford a child in their life for financial or life issues. I support women choosing to run their bodies as they decide. People trying to force us to carry a child, but don't want to support it or the woman, or the money that comes with doctors visits before an the hospital bills and 18 or so years they cost to raise, Dont see the whole issue. Yes it's a simple procedure but it also stays with the woman all her life because of it. It's not something simple to live with. But it helps the woman live a life with a future.
There's a reason that no matter how much I may trust my partner I also take birth control. Condoms are not 100% they break expire and can be compromised by improper storage and even though he sabotaged it the op still could've gotten pregnant either way. While the relationship was no doubt abusive we as the ones who get pregnant really need to not rely on our instincts of trusting your partner and a piece of rubber there is lube that kills sperm iud's and so many combinable options for birth control that should prevent a child from being made in the first place. While it was a horrible situation I feel there is a greater need for more accessible means of birth control and the importance of not just relying on one half of the partnership using preventive measures
I have a story that came close to this one and I want to share it because it is proof that it actually happens and it is not just this one girl that it happened to. I had a boyfriend who, to him, I was the love of his life. I did not feel the same way about him. To me, he was just a nice guy and we were dating and I liked him. He told me his greatest fear was to die alone and never have kids. One time during sex he asked me if I could feel it if he came inside me. I thought about why he would ask such a thing and it occurred to me that he might have considered intentionally getting me pregnant just to get a baby and lock me in, too. Luckily that never happened. But if a guy I know can consider doing such a thing, then so can others.
Shouldn't be anyone choice the WOMENS!!! If someone got pregnant no matter the circumstances it's not yours, mine or his choice to say no you can't have an abortion!! Ultimately it's hers! The law should follow!!!
I know that some parts of the Christian faith don't agree with abortion, but just because some Christians disagree doesn't mean that all of them have the same opinion. I am a Baptist and believe that whatever you do with your child is your responsibility. Nobody should have to go through that and people should always have an option apart from some cultural cases of sex-selective abortion. I hope that after this you all continue to live your best life!
I'm 54 and the same (almost)thing happened to me. Boyfriend conveniently forgot condoms but just "had to do it anyway". Fortunately it turns out I was unable to get pregnant, so I didn't have to make that choice. I will forever protest, march and sign my name to anything that leaves the choice in the hands of the woman involved. It's just another control mechanism that conservatives use to keep the voice of dissent silent. Even more dismaying is that a woman (the governor of Alabama) signed this horrific bill in to law. We have to consider these women as much of an opponent as the men trying to control our bodies.
Oops, forgot that the incident happened when I was 18. It still resonates that someone tried to control me that much.
Load More Replies...... and many years later we watch youtube videos of all the hurt caused by it. The mother thinking of the child and the child growing up feeling rejected. Not to say anything about the rather high risk of maltreatment that is suffered by children in foster care or adoption.
Load More Replies...Hello Aria Elizabeth, many people who get abortions are married. Married women still get raped, and remember, women do not get pregnant on their own. Men are equally involved, yet they pay no price for getting a woman pregnant.
Load More Replies...Pregnancy is still one of the leading causes of premature death for women of child bearing age in America. It isn't a small thing to be pregnant and give birth, it is a really big deal and does a lot of damage to your body, can hurt you financially if you have to leave work, can be mentally harmful, and the medical expenses are incredibly high. No one encourages abortion but many discourage medical access to birth control and sex education. It is no small thing for a woman to go through a pregnancy and suggesting that women can just put the child up for adoption is not an adequate solution to the issue of unwanted pregnancy. We need to be more pro-active in prevention because pregnancy and abortions are hard and difficult conditions to be in.
Load More Replies...Baby? What baby? It wasn’t even a fetus, something you’d know if you had read the story rather than just jumped down to the comments
Load More Replies...She had no idea he was a psychopath until after that incident
Load More Replies...You need to speak to some women about their experiences.
Load More Replies...Many women get abortions because they know that continuing the pregnancy would have a negative impact on the children that they already have. Children are better off with parents who have the time and money to care for them. An unwanted pregnancy can endanger that.
Load More Replies...“Unless there taking proper contraception” she thought she was. If you had read the story you’d know she had been using condoms, but her her boyfriend went behind her back and broke the condom beforehand. She had no way of knowing that the condom wouldn’t work.
Load More Replies...Do I think 17 is too young to be sexually active? Not really. Some would argue that it’s sexually primetime. Teens are way way way hornier than adults. I don’t think teens are smart enough to have kids or even make sound decisions in most cases, but having sex isn’t a big decision is it? Everyone on earth pretty much does it. As long as you have access to birth control, education, condoms and abortions there shouldn’t be any reason to want to stop them. Teens have strong urges and it’s natural for them to act on it. What’s not a good idea is for a teen to have a baby. That’s life ruining stuff. Having sex? Totally Normal. Also tons of teens are done with high school at 17. I was done when I had just turned 17.
Load More Replies...Women are impregnated by men who pull this s**t everyday. You just don't hear about it.
Load More Replies...HOW? She didn't know he'd put a hole in the condom until he boasted about it afterwards.
Load More Replies...The guy was trying to control her...if course she should get out of that relationship
Load More Replies...They can give birth to their own children if they want kids.
Load More Replies...Did you read the part of the condom with a hole? Or do you just ignore that part? I say stupidity is punishibale by reality. There is no hell, grow up.
Load More Replies...This could happen to anyone who has trust in his/her partner, regardless of the age
Load More Replies...Yep, because ONLY the girl is to blame here. Obviously. /s
Load More Replies...I love how people say "Well you can put it up for adoption" as though there isn't an entire pregnancy / birth before that point. As though you've bought something you don't like any more and decide to stick it on ebay. No one should have to change their body permanently, and risk their health and their life if they don't want to have a baby. Abortion is safe, it's a medical procedure. If you don't want to have one, fine, but leave everyone else alone to decide what happens to their own body.
Many child get to live in foster homes for years before adopted (or turn 18 and... politely asked to leave) In my country, 10,000 kids end in adoption centers, or the streets. Relly sad.
Load More Replies...In response to the 'you could have put it up for adoption!' crowd - nope, not in this circumstance - jerkass here can contest as unless she has him prosecuted for rape, he has the right to go for custody instead. Then, if he gains custody, she's connected to him for decades. Doesn't that sound so fun?
Even rapists can get custody in some states https://www.cnn.com/2016/11/17/health/parental-rights-rapists-explainer/index.html
Load More Replies...There are no laws governing men's bodies. Think about that. All y'all who want to restrict a woman's right to body autonomy f**k right off. Corpses have more body rights than women.
We could start a campaign to have all men get vasectomies until they have entered into a contractual agreement with their partner to have a child. Or we could also make it punishable by law if they masturbate because that lonely sperm could have been a child. We should get better at regulating men's bodies so they learn to leave ours alone.
Load More Replies...This is such a sensitive subject. And I love how people have smart a$$ remarks like "This is why they have birth control". Has it ever dawned on you that it isn't always effective. I, myself, have two children that were conceived WHILE I was on the birth control shot and always got my shots on time, so there is no questions I didn't properly take it. It happens. We, as women, should have that right, that CHOICE!
Every woman in America should be stocking up on mifepristone and misoprostol just in case our rights get trampled on any more. You never know when you or a friend might need it. S**t like this happens all the time and the only reason this young lady got through it was with help from her support system. If uneducated religious psychos band together to enact nonsense laws, women should band together and just say no, we won’t obey these laws. We should help each other. I’m ordering mine now, there are several websites you can get it from.
I am so devastated as to what has happened. These abortion laws are so horrible. I am such a pro-choicer, now that I know what that is. And , what about children who get raped? What about incest? This is the STUPIDEST thing I have ever heard of, and yeah, a lot of people will hate on me for writing this but, women deserve a choice. We deserve to do whatever we want to our bodies, and even if you decide to keep him/her and put him/her up for adoption, the rapist of a father can take custody!And what about women who get pregnant and their partner says, if you don't get an abortion, I'm going to kill you, what are they supposed to do, let themselves die? And if you have to get an abortion, the only way to do it at this point is with a wire hanger in an alleyway, and if you do, you'll probably get caught, one way or another, and be put in prison for 3rd degree murder! God, this is honestly the stupidest law I have ever heard of!
This shouldn't even be an issue in this day and age! Religion should not be part of government law. How absurd
Yeah. That whole thing is a mess. Separation of church and state but let’s throw gods names all over the place and buildings. Also all men are created equal. Unless they’re not white. Also not born equal but created. Hail satan!
Load More Replies...it all boils down to 'your beliefs may not be MY beliefs.' we should ALL have the right to govern our own bodies, no matter what sex you are. every situation is NOT the same, and women should not be shamed or made to feel guilty about their decisions, regardless of what they are. period.
Great friend! I support adoption over abortion...but I understand there are situations like these that makes having abortion availability necessary. Besides rape and incest...there are also medical reasons why women can't carry. I've seen women walk the line between life and death trying to have a child. Anyone who thinks that the main reason most women have abortions is because of infidelity needs to stop watching so much TV and start looking at the statistics.
Blondhorsecrazy, you missed the entire point of Emory's response.
Load More Replies...Christian dementia is behind this logical fallacy of respecting the life of a clump of cells while depriving women, non-whites, immigrants, the poor and the imprisoned of rights. As Stephen Weinberg put it, "...the good can do good things, the evil can do evil things, but for a good person to do evil takes Religion."
It is impossible to say you will never have an abortion because you will never know until you are in that position. Many women have had abortions that could never imagine making that choice but pregnancy is still a leading cause of premature death in women, even in America, and women should not have to plead their case to a judge to have a medical procedure done. I am 30 and thinking more seriously about having kids, but I don't feel comfortable having them if I cannot be assured of access to an abortion if I need it. More and more I think less about having kids and more about being sterilized but I doubt I could find a doctor willing to sterilize a woman without children. Pisses me off so much.
yes, and the statistics for pregnant women being murdered by the father is shockingly high.
Load More Replies...I had my first kid at 14 years old, I was to far along to make any other decision but to give birth by the time I found out I was pregnant. However giving my son up for adoption was an option at the time, but I was lucky enough to have a family to help me and allow me to finish school. Even had I still been in the early stages to contemplate abortion I still would not have done it, but that is just me. I dont think it is my right or anyone elses (especially a man) to decide what any women should do and can do with her body. Many people think that the solution is to have the baby and give them up for adoption, put them in a system that is already filled with unwanted children. Foster care is not always the best solution for them either, it does not mean that it always goes wrong. But some people take in children with the wrong intentions and they suffer more in the hands of those that are paid to care for them. It is a very sad day for our country and we are continuing to go backwards.
It should absolutely be the woman’s choice, but it is important not to peddle myths about adoption. Voluntarily surrendering an infant through an agency is not putting them into the foster system. They are completely different channels.
Load More Replies...I'm glad you stood up for your teenage self with help of that friend An chose to keep your life as your own an not locked into a crazy mind trap someone set up for you. Abortion is needed for these issues. And rapes. And for women that can't afford a child in their life for financial or life issues. I support women choosing to run their bodies as they decide. People trying to force us to carry a child, but don't want to support it or the woman, or the money that comes with doctors visits before an the hospital bills and 18 or so years they cost to raise, Dont see the whole issue. Yes it's a simple procedure but it also stays with the woman all her life because of it. It's not something simple to live with. But it helps the woman live a life with a future.
There's a reason that no matter how much I may trust my partner I also take birth control. Condoms are not 100% they break expire and can be compromised by improper storage and even though he sabotaged it the op still could've gotten pregnant either way. While the relationship was no doubt abusive we as the ones who get pregnant really need to not rely on our instincts of trusting your partner and a piece of rubber there is lube that kills sperm iud's and so many combinable options for birth control that should prevent a child from being made in the first place. While it was a horrible situation I feel there is a greater need for more accessible means of birth control and the importance of not just relying on one half of the partnership using preventive measures
I have a story that came close to this one and I want to share it because it is proof that it actually happens and it is not just this one girl that it happened to. I had a boyfriend who, to him, I was the love of his life. I did not feel the same way about him. To me, he was just a nice guy and we were dating and I liked him. He told me his greatest fear was to die alone and never have kids. One time during sex he asked me if I could feel it if he came inside me. I thought about why he would ask such a thing and it occurred to me that he might have considered intentionally getting me pregnant just to get a baby and lock me in, too. Luckily that never happened. But if a guy I know can consider doing such a thing, then so can others.
Shouldn't be anyone choice the WOMENS!!! If someone got pregnant no matter the circumstances it's not yours, mine or his choice to say no you can't have an abortion!! Ultimately it's hers! The law should follow!!!
I know that some parts of the Christian faith don't agree with abortion, but just because some Christians disagree doesn't mean that all of them have the same opinion. I am a Baptist and believe that whatever you do with your child is your responsibility. Nobody should have to go through that and people should always have an option apart from some cultural cases of sex-selective abortion. I hope that after this you all continue to live your best life!
I'm 54 and the same (almost)thing happened to me. Boyfriend conveniently forgot condoms but just "had to do it anyway". Fortunately it turns out I was unable to get pregnant, so I didn't have to make that choice. I will forever protest, march and sign my name to anything that leaves the choice in the hands of the woman involved. It's just another control mechanism that conservatives use to keep the voice of dissent silent. Even more dismaying is that a woman (the governor of Alabama) signed this horrific bill in to law. We have to consider these women as much of an opponent as the men trying to control our bodies.
Oops, forgot that the incident happened when I was 18. It still resonates that someone tried to control me that much.
Load More Replies...... and many years later we watch youtube videos of all the hurt caused by it. The mother thinking of the child and the child growing up feeling rejected. Not to say anything about the rather high risk of maltreatment that is suffered by children in foster care or adoption.
Load More Replies...Hello Aria Elizabeth, many people who get abortions are married. Married women still get raped, and remember, women do not get pregnant on their own. Men are equally involved, yet they pay no price for getting a woman pregnant.
Load More Replies...Pregnancy is still one of the leading causes of premature death for women of child bearing age in America. It isn't a small thing to be pregnant and give birth, it is a really big deal and does a lot of damage to your body, can hurt you financially if you have to leave work, can be mentally harmful, and the medical expenses are incredibly high. No one encourages abortion but many discourage medical access to birth control and sex education. It is no small thing for a woman to go through a pregnancy and suggesting that women can just put the child up for adoption is not an adequate solution to the issue of unwanted pregnancy. We need to be more pro-active in prevention because pregnancy and abortions are hard and difficult conditions to be in.
Load More Replies...Baby? What baby? It wasn’t even a fetus, something you’d know if you had read the story rather than just jumped down to the comments
Load More Replies...She had no idea he was a psychopath until after that incident
Load More Replies...You need to speak to some women about their experiences.
Load More Replies...Many women get abortions because they know that continuing the pregnancy would have a negative impact on the children that they already have. Children are better off with parents who have the time and money to care for them. An unwanted pregnancy can endanger that.
Load More Replies...“Unless there taking proper contraception” she thought she was. If you had read the story you’d know she had been using condoms, but her her boyfriend went behind her back and broke the condom beforehand. She had no way of knowing that the condom wouldn’t work.
Load More Replies...Do I think 17 is too young to be sexually active? Not really. Some would argue that it’s sexually primetime. Teens are way way way hornier than adults. I don’t think teens are smart enough to have kids or even make sound decisions in most cases, but having sex isn’t a big decision is it? Everyone on earth pretty much does it. As long as you have access to birth control, education, condoms and abortions there shouldn’t be any reason to want to stop them. Teens have strong urges and it’s natural for them to act on it. What’s not a good idea is for a teen to have a baby. That’s life ruining stuff. Having sex? Totally Normal. Also tons of teens are done with high school at 17. I was done when I had just turned 17.
Load More Replies...Women are impregnated by men who pull this s**t everyday. You just don't hear about it.
Load More Replies...HOW? She didn't know he'd put a hole in the condom until he boasted about it afterwards.
Load More Replies...The guy was trying to control her...if course she should get out of that relationship
Load More Replies...They can give birth to their own children if they want kids.
Load More Replies...Did you read the part of the condom with a hole? Or do you just ignore that part? I say stupidity is punishibale by reality. There is no hell, grow up.
Load More Replies...This could happen to anyone who has trust in his/her partner, regardless of the age
Load More Replies...Yep, because ONLY the girl is to blame here. Obviously. /s
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