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Black People Asked White People About Things They Don’t Understand About Them And Actually Received Frank Answers
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Black People Asked White People About Things They Don’t Understand About Them And Actually Received Frank Answers

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A few years back, when social media was in its infancy and people were thinking about its potential to change the world, we imagined all the ways that it would help to bring us together. Easy and instant communication with people from all over the planet would surely break down the artificial borders constructed between us, and lead to greater cultural exchange, mutual understanding and a shared humanity that could help us to solve the bigger global problems that affect us all.

Sadly, it hasn’t quite worked out that way. Sure, there are some great examples of social media being a force for the common good, but ultimately we are a tribal species, and we seem to prefer segregating ourselves into smaller and ever more niche groups in the virtual as well as the physical world.

So what happens then? Well, our tribal loyalties become entrenched, and we feel increasingly empowered by our ‘in’ group. Instead of reaching out to share and learn from others, we shout at each other from behind the safety of our screens and spread fake news that only supports our own narrow political aims. You only have to look at the polarized societies of the U.S and the UK to see the evidence of this.

But what can be done? Well, we can start by finding better ways to communicate with people beyond our own circles. Sometimes all it takes is for someone to start the conversation, which the Facebook page “Afrocentric Films Collaborative” did recently when it posted: “OK black people, ask white people one question you always wanted to know.”

Now, anybody that regularly reads through comments sections will know that this could be a recipe for disaster. But not this time! Humor is a universal ice-breaker, and people here are funny, respectful and good-natured, showing the rest of us how to constructively approach topics of race and cultural difference.

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Instead of quickly descending into a shitshow of abuse and insults, as this kind of thread often does, there are tons of laughs as people are able to poke fun at themselves, acknowledge historical injustices while learning a lot about each other at the same time. We need more of this!

Sadly, Afrocentric Films Collaborative, which promotes positive African Diaspora images, news, cinema, music and fashion, has received some negative reactions to sharing the post. “That post was created by us a year ago and we decided to share it a few days ago with no intentions of it taking off,” they explained to Bored Panda. “We were curious and wanted to get a great and honest dialogue between Black people (people of color) and white people.”

“Unfortunately, since that post, we have received an influx of white racism and ignorance on other posts. We want to create dialogue, but not at the expense of our peace of mind or giving up our authentic voice to Black people, and to all people love and respect. We have contemplated removing that post if people don’t understand that we created it to create a bridge, and not to invite hateful people.”

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“Sadly, with the good comes the bad. We have always had socially aware white fans and they know how we get down. We have been targeted by another group that has not been seasoned and have little clue, but everything happens for a reason and hopefully, through scrolling through our post, they will perhaps learn something.”

A sad ending, but as they suggest, there is much to learn from this wholesome thread. Keep scrolling to check it for yourself, and let us know what you think in the comments.

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CrunChewy McSandybutt
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

As a white American I'd like to know which one of you put raisins in the potato salad and ruined our reputation amongst all POC?

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PeachesEDM
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

As a Canadian, I am very happy to report that I have NEVER seen raisins in potato salad.

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Mewton’s Third Paw
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

To a person who isn’t white or black, this is so stupid because white people and black people act and live so similarly. They are the only ones who see the differences. But as a Persian person, you all just act “American” to me. Black and white people are way wayyyy more alike than different.

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Omar A
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

That brings up a whole new thread, Ask an American. I'm a military BRAT, raised in Germany. It was easy to identify an American when we left the base.

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Master Markus
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I don't understand the washcloths thing. I've never seen nor heard of white people not using them, nor have I really run into anyone of any race that just... talks about their bathing habits like that.

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Ohio Hands
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Same here, I've never heard of any one group of people not using washcloths, I'm white and we use them as well as does any other white person I know. This one was a complete mystery to me.

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FatBaby
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I really wanted the person with the Elsa profile picture to say "Because, the cold never bothered me anyway"....now im sad

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Random Panda
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I appreciate this is all humorous, but even as stereotypes these seem very strange, I can't say I find any of these common. But then again there isn't one single "white culture" anyway.

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Viviane Katz
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4 years ago

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Lois Matelan
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

As a Cajun, I strongly reject any allegations regarding lack of spice, or lack of cousins. Not all white people . . .

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Jessica butts
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5 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

are Cajuns usually catholic? I feel like as far as white people go, Catholics are little more family oriented than WASPs, at least in my Irish/Italian catholic family we were, and I talk about my cousins a lot.

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PeachesEDM
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

The fake smile is 100% accurate. I have resting b**** face, so I have to actively alter my face to make it look like I'm not mad at the person I'm passing. But it's tiring, you know? So, the half smile is my compromise. "I acknowledge you are sharing a space with me, are entitled to have a fair share of said space, but I don't want to interact."

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Master Markus
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Yeah, I'm white but I don't do it to a specific race of people, just anyone who I notice looking at me for an extended period of time.

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Viviane Katz
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I'm glad to see some good-natured exchanges. The questions can be as revealing as the answers.

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Nomadus Aureus
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I can totally relate to the spices thing. A British colleague offered to help with cooking and he put ONE bloody pinch of salt into a pot that was being prepared for a group of ten. I couldn't for the life of me convince him otherwise...

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Valerie Lessard
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

which "white people". it's like saying "ask asians", to whom are you referring? the whole of europe? europeans of america? colonialists only?

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Valerie Lessard
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

russians as far as i know are white and are incredibly family orientated people

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Martha Meyer
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I'm arriving at one conclusion: American race relations are WEIRD! Washcloths, bean casseroles. This white European is flabbergasted!

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Cat
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

To be fair, I'm also a little confused about the whole raisins in the salad thing..

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Wietse Pot
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

About the spices: Spice trade 101. - Don't get high on your own supply. - Don' t sell to your own people

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Harleen
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It's sad that it's seen as NOT ok to ask these questions, even if the person is your friend. I wouldn't see it as racist - just honest curiosity.

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diane a
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Not so much these days but in the past I would imagine black people asking "Why do you white folks spend so much time, trouble and money on trying to get darker skin"?

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R L
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

They still do ask that- white people want darker skin and black people walk around with umbrellas in the sun to stop them from getting darker skin. With skin cancer the way it is, umbrellas are a good idea for protection regardless of skin colour.

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Laura Martin
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Love posts like this one. It's human nature to wonder about people different than ourselves. What a great way to get the questions out & bravo to all the honest & funny answers! I know as little girl I would have loved to be a able to ask boys questions...

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Stephanie Chapman
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I bet people who brought spices from other lands didn't even get any recipes. So, you might have a wonderful spice but don't really know how to use it, plus it was very expensive to get, and the next thing you know people are stuffing cloves in an orange for décor/potpourri.

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Chris Lehr
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I thought that was pretty good. We should do one for white people asking black people questions, we know the terrible past but it would awesome to know the present, good and bad. I feel sometimes I'm afraid to ask a black person a question in case I offend.

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cc
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

you can ask me something. I don't love fried chicken though (if your question is chicken-related).

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Beth Clay
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

In response to your statement; “Unfortunately, since that post, we have received an influx of white racism and ignorance on other posts. We want to create dialogue, but not at the expense of our peace of mind or giving up our authentic voice to Black people, and to all people love and respect. We have contemplated removing that post if people don’t understand that we created it to create a bridge, and not to invite hateful people.” Hateful people do not seem to require invitations they show up and spew their hate no matter what. The fact that there were so many, literally thousands of comments on the original post suggest that most people are open to an honest and friendly dialog.

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Jus
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I live in Europe and can't relate. You've only made me learn I know almost nothing about American habits in general. Washcloth?! I used sponge, maybe, and never for my private parts! I use a lot of spices but I also know traditional people who only cook with salt and pepper, and I mean lots of salt! Only athletes wear shorts in winter here. Most of the questions are valid in America only...

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THEPS
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I liked this post and I wish they would do it again. I love the questions and answers.

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Ashley Wright
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Me, too. Nice to have an open, friendly dialogue between whites and blacks about the most mundane things.

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Crouching_Penn_Hidden_Teller@yahoo.com
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I'm white and I can't relate to this at all. I love spices and use lots of them in my cooking. (and Sean needs to knock off this "our women" $h!+. NOBODY OWNS ME.) I only watched House Hunters one time because I was over at a friend's house and she waned to watch it and it was one of the most boring shows I've ever seen in my life. I've never even SEEN that damn green bean casserole anywhere outside of a TV commercial. I will sincerely smile at people to be friendly, I'm not being fake. I don't happen to live near my family but I do talk about them. And I don't wear shorts in the summer, let alone the winter. If you saw my legs you would know why.

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Leanne Parker
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

As a white Australian ................ although our family members reside in different States and Territories, yeah we are all still very family orientated. Unfortunately due to different career paths and job opportunities etc most families have little or no choice to be able to remain "close knit". I have lots of brothers and sisters, children, grand kids, nieces, nephews, cousins, aunts and uncles. We often hit the road visiting the rellies and keeping in touch. Love our family reunions. Next family reunion is May 2020 at an outback "swimming hole" named 'MATARANKA' in the NORTHERN TERRITORY. Saltie country!

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Luke Gibson
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I'm obviously not very British, I add spice to everything, even a ham and cheese sandwich, has half ounce of black pepper and two tablespoons of cajun.

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DeadStillPretty
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

As a white person, I too would like to know why white people wear shorts in winter. I went to school in upstate NY, the weather was absurd. In late March one year, it was 88 degrees one day then there was a blizzard the next. I would see white people, mostly guys, in shorts and flipflops on campus as if mentally screaming "NO! It was warm yesterday and I refuse to admit that it has changed!"

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Stephanie Bladyak
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I don't use a washcloth because I use a scrungee! I thought most people did...I also like to use spices I put lawrys and Tabasco on almost everything...garlic too.

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KCN
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I totally use a washcloth. The rest of my family doesn't. (Shrug my shoulders.)

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Mike Parks
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

i always use a washcloth and let anyone within earshot where and how i used it (not always truthful about where, but it keeps them from using it too

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Ashley Wright
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Regarding washcloths: I❤️them. Single use only. They’re not meant to be shared.

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Jace
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

“Single use and then washing them in the laundry”, not burning them or throwing them away, of course :-D

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Cecile Encarnacion
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I think this was or is a brilliant idea to get everyone in on the conversation. We all need to be heard. Washcloths freak me out too. I bring my own to the shower, salt (I think ) brings out the flavor of whatever you add it too. I live in a mixed family and we celebrate our uniqueness. We encourage the kid's to be their OWN, to have & express their OWN ides and gifts. As long as we have the patience to REALLY listen we can't go wrong. And, when I smile it is ALWAYS genuine!

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Jennifer Corry
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I love talking about my cousins. Very surprised some white girl said we're not family oriented, it's simply not true.

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NoName
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Shut your TVs and reality b******t and the horseshit, fear mongering news off. This is how people really are. Just be human. While differences can be confusing, they can also be uniting. And amusing :) what's life without laughter?

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Jimmy Coleman
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I dig Afrocentric Films Collaborative because the peeps are frank, honest , and real. Not all people are bigoted, racist. or ignorant, but they are out there. Big difference in cultures. Half my fam is black. We love each other as family should. Friendship matters. When anyone makes a bigoted statement publicly, we never know whos watching, and what we miss out on. Great Posting!

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DeadStillPretty
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

As a white American I also want to know why white people wear shorts in winter. Where I went to school in upstate NY the weather was absurd. At the end of March one year, it was 88 degrees one day and there was a blizzard the next. I'd see white people all over campus, mostly guys, in shorts and flipflops on the way to class, as if mentally screaming "NO! It was warm yesterday and now I refuse to admit that it has changed!" I know someone who wears flipflops in the *snow*

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Alexandra Marsh
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Need to expose more skin to sunlight in the winter. Helps with vitamin D production. My sister wears shorts all year round. I think she is nuts! But she feels perfectly comfortable. She grew up in the era, in her early life, where girls wire dressesto school ever day. Maybe it doesn't seem any different to her.

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Kayla Crocker
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

All right where's the thread about white people asking a black person a question they have always wanted to know cause I've got a few 😂😂

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Ashley Wright
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

😂😂 Me, too. Here’s mine: why do some of you dye your hair blond? It’s better natural.

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R Tate Dancer
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Sometimes a question is just a question. Someone needs to quit getting their panties in a w**.

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Liz Mosby
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I love green bean casserole.. lol.. Btw, the whole sharing a washcloth? No ma'am.. that's just your family.. I have always used them, but there was guest washcloths and daily use ones for sure.. The fake smile thing... At least here in Texas, everyone does it to everyone.. It's considered rude to look at someone, have eye contact and not give at least a half a*s smile.. Same as opening/holding the door open for the person behind you, etc.. It's not a thing whites do to other races, we give each other creepy smile face too. LoL.

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Lily Mae Kitty
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I don't get the washcloth thing. I thought everyone used them, regardless of race...and that many of us have switched to those puffs b/c they are so nice with shower gel...although I am 57 now and my skin is getting dry so use a softer puff b/c too much exfoliation was rough on my skin. My dad didn't use a washcloth but he was around during the depression and WWII and I guess they weren't that popular yet then.

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Maggie
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

These are all american blacks and whites... other people exist outside America...ya know? And yes, we use aloooooooooot of spices. Jesus... Bulgarian here.

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Ashley Wright
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

If I walk past a black person, I acknowledge as I would a white person. With a smile. Regarding cousins, they’re completely an overrated relative. You don’t think the Kennedy cousins bicker?

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Liz Maggioli
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

i'm from Boston ma and i have never seen a raisin in potato salad. If it's in there then it crawled in.

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Erin
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I have several cousins and I talk about them all of the time.

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Langa “The Prestige Group”
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

God please, a few more- why do white girls like wearing pata pata shoes and get red toes? It might be relevant to whites in Africa. Why do you climb in bed with shoes on or wash shoes in a kitchen sink, also why do you like walking on the dirty floor on barefoot and get black dirty feet???

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Rob Chapman
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

If this was reversed it would be considered racist. Post: "Ok, white people. Ask black people one question you've always wanted to know". The OP would be kicked off Twitter, suspended from Facebook, and probably fired form their job.

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Katchen
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Twitter harbors a lot of racists. Not sure why you think they’d be kicked off.

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Neil Samuels
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

In all honesty, I'd like to see something like this BOTH ways. The more we know about each other, the more we find out just how alike we really are. This is how hate is put to rest.

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Lou Claveau
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This should be an entire Facebook Group! I have questions. I have friends of all races. I get this look on my face and they all roll their eyes and say, “Whar don’t you understand now. And for God’s sake just ask!”

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SirWriteALot
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Good stuff. If you can remember that we're all different and there's stereotypes all over then we can all get along. Do we not bleed when we are pricked?

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Erika Drewke
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

As a non-american the casserolething was helpful. I would love to read more of this and that it would evolve into a safespace to ask questions you cant ask face-to-face because what if it hurts someone

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borklaser
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

The only one I can relate to is the salt, it's not a hatred of spices, though! I learned to cook from my very southern grandma, a small dash of salt, then about 5 tablespoons of pepper, preferably in several different varieties.

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Heather Radley-Arner
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I have always wanted to ask questions but white people say noooo. That would be wrong, dont do it. I'm like why?? Loved it.

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Master Markus
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

The lack of spices thing is a weird stereotype that never reached my immediate family. Maybe in part because my dad did some culinary school. It's mostly an issue with the older generations (like people who would be in their 70s or so now), especially in Britain, who just like... weren't used to spices are were afraid to try new things.

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HighNMightyBigshot
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1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Towards the end and the comment by Terrance Wilbert, — except white people tend to create stereotypes that get Black people killed, not getting a job, being accused of crimes and many other situations that have no foundation in fact.

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Joyce Blodgett
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Cousins? Haven't seen even one of mine in more than 16 years. Some live much too far away---I hate to travel, and do it only for the Feast of Tabernacles once a year---and most I've never met. I have cousins, I suppose, whom I haven't seen since I was about 5 years old, I have cousins who have children older than mine if my two had lived, and I have zero idea how many cousins I have, who are which side (my Mom or my Dad), and I don't intend to find out. Mom and Dad died 16+ years ago without filling in the gaps, and I'm not interested in finding anyone myself. The end. And, no, no raisins were ever put into any of our family's potato salads (BLEECCCHH!!!!)

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OHIOWAndering_Around
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I love spices. I probably have 25 and they're on such a regular rotation they're on my grocery list every week I go through them so fast. I much prefer flavorful food to my mom's blandass cooking, but in her defence my dad has always had hellacious heartburn and she definitely prefers spicy because her dad grew up in the Southwest. He cooked just as much as my grandma did since they both worked. My grandma refused to be dependent on her husband for money even in that day and age. We're talking 50s and 60s. My grandma was hella independent and terrified my mom so bad one day when she just decided to drive eight hours to see my uncle in Minnesota in the middle of winter. I smile at most people because it's habit from customer service. I might even say hello. It's strange since I do have social anxiety, but that smile and hello when someone makes eye contact is so engrained I can't help myself.

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OHIOWAndering_Around
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

We didn't see family because my mom was a narcissist with a superiority complex and she hates my dad's family who drinks and knows how to have fun. We don't have fun when we get together as a family because my mom hates noise, it isn't dignified, and "what if people saw how you were acting." I always assumed everyone used a washcloth because we always did.

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Hannah Walters
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

If your reading this I hope you have a great day and know. “For God so loved the world that he gave his one and only Son, that whoever believes in him shall not perish but have eternal life.” ‭‭John‬ ‭3:16‬ ‭NIV

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Paul Lewis
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I want to know who ruined a great bowl of chili by putting red kidney beans in it? THERE ARE NO BEANS IN REAL TEXAS CHILI!!

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Daniel Monaco
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Honestly, I'm Italian and I talk about my cousins all the time but like that's...it. That's the only White ethnic group that has cousins. The rest of us could give a s**t, to be frank.

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Nora Dauser
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I loved this. Let’s do more. I want to ask black people stuff too. How do they braid short hair like that. Do you really like chitons? Why is it so hot in your house?

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Michele Yates
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This was TOO FUNNY AS WELL AS ENLIGHTENING! l enjoyed this very much!

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janice brooks
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

this is very nice. I who would like to know why people of color, men and women think big butts are attractive.

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Tammy Wilkinson
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I’d love to see the original post and read all the answers. This is brilliant!

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未周 陸
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Simple Honest [Positive] Communication is the Key to MANY Serious Issues in today's society Anywhere & Everywhere!

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Samhhain Cat
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

If you want to know about the spice thing, look up the history of minced meat pies. It's not normal but there sure were a shitton of spices in there!

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Gemma Lees
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Who the heck doesn't use flannels (wash cloths)?! I'm a Romany Gypsy, is this an 'us' thing?

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Ann
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Everyone uses them. They're not flannel anyway, they're terry cloth so you might be talking about something else. The confusion is that black people keep the same washcloth in the shower for a week to wash with. Wash EVERYTHING with. White people use washcloths to wash their faces and then throw them in to be washed after just one use and we usually don't use them in the shower, we use shower puffs or something like that.

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Dana Sellers Steele
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I’m from the northeast. As soon as the temperature rises above fifty degree, no matter who you are, it’s shorts and flip flops time.

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Andrew
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

who is frank and why is he giving black people his answers

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guy greej
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Why hasn't the reverse been done yet. Been waiting two weeks now come on internet

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Robert Pacl
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I try to smile, most of the time, first to convince passersby that I'm not a problem and second I don't have problems, not really. Mark Twain said it best. " Most of my problems never happened ". In all my travels, 10 countries and 47 states, I have found the same kind of people I find at home. Once you take off the cultural overlay, which I'm sorry to say I think is responsible for most of the world's ills, you find the same basic concerns as everyone else. Unfortunately, most people buy into their heritage without question, never realizing that there's trash there too. I've thrown out most of what I was raised with so, if you don't like what I think, blame me. But, I'm very reluctant to judge or blame so if you want to talk about problems, shoot.

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camena
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

we need one of these for asian ppl... one of the most steriotyped people. btw im asian.

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Erika Reynolds
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Love it! And I like the question of why we don't talk about our coursins - lololol - mine are just not fun. And they're weird, and they're kind of nerdy.

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Danielle Arnold
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4 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

They really arent racist questions though. If they asked something really rude then you get negative answers. Same with a white person asking rude questions or a hispanic asking rude questions. Thats not just a one race issue, all races would be like that. Well id imagine.

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okpkpkp
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Wait. I remember way back to when I lived in the Army barracks. All of the black GIs used white washcloths. And all of the white GIs used their hands. My folks never taught me about washcloths.

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Bob Russick
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I saw this thread a couple of days too late. I really wanted to participate.

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Alex Gal
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

No washcloth in my shower, but a communal loofah. It lives right next to the soap, not that difficult to wash other people off of it. Everything in my household follows the guiding principle of less waste/clutter, more togetherness/familiarity. We're quite happy.

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Bill
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

People in the south ruin potato salad by dumping pickle juice in it

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Ann
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Um, no? That's how it's supposed to be made? I'm not from the south and potato salad has potatoes, boiled eggs, mayonnaise (or miracle whip), dill pickles (though some use gross sweet pickles), yellow mustard and a splash of pickle juice. Delicious.

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Jace
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

As a Caucasian, I don’t understand why so many other Caucasians are reportedly NOT using [a full supply of] washcloths for showering. How else do you people wash your bodies?

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Barbara Kayton
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Love this. We need more respectful, honest questions, so we can all better understand our own stereotyping, and better understand each other.

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MissDemeanour
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I am white & I LOVE chilli, the hotter the better. These are just dumb stereotypes.

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Robin Schaaf
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Are you a Kewpie lover. I have over 1000 kewpie dolls. I love that you use it instead of a picture of you.

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Carrie Hoover
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I actually got the chance and got to do this in person. It was cool and fun. :-)

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AuntieCreed
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This needs to be a subreddit. Like r/AskWhitePeopleAnything

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Grace Wiebe
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This is cool. I'm white & I have friends of many races. We can all just get along if we accept that people are different & it's a good thing.

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Christine Cameron-Dow
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

To the best of my knowledge this question was first posed in 2017 by a South African with the Fb name of Joburger. It actually evoked a massive response and was very well taken, with some hilarious questions asked and very good natured answers. I don't know if Afrocentric copied him or he copied Afrocentric, but it was very much a hit in South Africa.

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Christine Cameron-Dow
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I'd like to know when this surfaced. The first thread, with this exact theme and these exact words, that I'm aware of was created on Fb by a young man with the user name of Joburger. He is a young white South African, currently living in the UK, and it evoked a massive response. So, my question is, has Afrocentric copied him, or did he copy Afrocentric? https://l.facebook.com/l.php?u=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.traveller24.com%2FMyTravels%2Fsouth-africans-take-a-dig-at-stereotypes-as-racial-qa-goes-viral-20171031%3Ffbclid%3DIwAR0DE4N_sLAuxlfTjcMl-4hKYcuZRDbbakrFwtLcPPGQzY6M3dCqb8PXFyo&h=AT3ess1PQiyG2xzcEsdvk_RIthV5Dj8yOeSL7-SdLmCuEbcN0t1CiO_KkUJv-U0Llavmu5A4HVdFi32q4z0XG_KF63Ya9bihoP8OFbhjyQSiA0PITWNb-k9FM673V9tFKb4pc2fDLYFRftoh_9KwzUH1n5aCF6B9IviYDm8NohLCA2_vUKbIcgDylkQdIIwOsQkyVtfoMVNTu9e84bTV_lG1UkwSDklsjx2HRj1j_npWH_xr88YowgjaLWGbk3wY5ijFHoTY-LUTgEDjo5rpmlOlY9cCqBWp_M79im3oZD_3Wqrdae9vMQxpLR5IMg8eLFokKHPAP-3mRnyZbCxgh3nyjKhW--gMri9saAITPcbGKMZQb-nuQHLLMCOYwRvMCQwyzbP0xLsoAnUTbXaMcoPocB69XH_F

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Jane Alexander
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Nasiru Abdalla Whiteside asks about 'A pinch of salt' First Nasiru, do you mean as in a recipe or as in 'take what that person says with a pinch of salt'? If the later, it means that person may or may not be telling it like it is. Does anyone know the origin of that phrase?

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DotC
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Also, I talk about my cousins A LOT. Cousins are the best! Ok, some are terrible and makin our family look bad.

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DotC
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

None of these things apply to ethnic white people (Southern Europeans and a lot of Eastern Europeans). Italians use spices, and those of us with acne bring our own washcloth everywhere because our acne meds bleach other people's stuff. My sweetie is German-French from Michigan. I call her Baloney Clan (see White Wolf Vampire LARP books) because they are ALL about mayo, yellow mustard, grinding baloney into a paste (ok, its good w pickles but Im not happy about it) and eating "red hots" (pretty much tubed baloney with a little red pepper).

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Lydia Pagano
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Please do more like this one! This was so wholesome and fun and I loved reading the comments and questions and answers!

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zef rose
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This is brilliant and beautiful! Let us please have more of these forums! This is the way to counter big brother's efforts to divide us further and further by the groups we belong to. One on one genuine conversation bypasses fear and suspicion. #PeaceOneOnOne

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Julien Hu
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

We should do the same here, in France. Not only with black people ^^'

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Gracie Mae
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Oh how I wish this was a longer article! Had a friend at work once (she's black, I'm white)--we were close enough that we did this ALL.THE.TIME! It was great having someone to ask questions about the differences in our races & not be judged. I miss that!

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Nizar Kilani
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This is so strange! As if white people are from one planet and blacks are from another and they just met and here they are trying to get to know each other! The end result of publishing this kind of thing is widening the gap between the races, putting an emphasis on the differences and giving theses differences more importance than what they should have. This is what an alien encounter will look like.

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Thomas Mackerley
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Yes, more of this not racist chatter is amusing, but why not the other way? Because white people would be “racist” for asking such things

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Ruth Peterson
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

If like to ask white people - why don't most white people have blinds or covering on their windows? How can you sit in the house knowing that people on the street can see you? How can you walk around in your undies with no coverings in the windows.

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Kayla Crocker
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

All right so where's the thread about questions white people want to ask black people I've got a few 😂😂

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Adam Cantor
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Would the conversations be so peaceful if we let white people ask black people about all the things we've been dying to know? I feel like "why do black people like fried chicken and grape drink"? would stir a lot more pots than black people asking about raisins in potato salad. #amiright?

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smash17
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Well, maybe if it wasn't a stupid question. Couldn't you think of better examples? Really, fried chicken and grape drink?! (People will say anything, I suppose, to make a point.)

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Berit
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I am so bored with this. Why is it always about black people? Why is there so few voices pointing out the racism against the American natives? The outrages conditions many of them still live in. Cos we are only talking about the American society here, are we? I'm sure black Africans would ask white Africans different things, or white tourists. And the black Vietnamese left behind by their American fathers in the late sixties would most likely have a whole lot of different questions,too. So, while these questions are somewhat amuzing and give an insight of what picture some people have of whities, is utterly shallow.

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Leah Helbig
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I think i might be black because I don't understand any of these references I use multiple spices I make curry chicken from scratch i use wash rags and i have 27 first cousin that I talk to daily and my family is very close knit dont get it at all

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Christina Sersif
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I'm white, but according to the people in this "questionnaire" I should have been born something else. I season my food and am a great cook. All the white people I eat with and know also do the same. I also like hot sauce on fried chicken and pizza as hot sauce is a great condiment. I mean I can laugh at stereotypes too because some of them tend to be true and most of them silly, but these are just dumb stereotypes. I didn't even finish reading because it was so cringeworthy.

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debrina blackmoon
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

i would like to see one about asking Native Americans(like me)...that should get some laughs too.

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Kevin Camp
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Looking at all of the food questions... I would say that those are all aimed at white northerners. White folks form the South love that spicy food.

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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

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JerryWayne A
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

You need to know...most of these answers are blowing hot air right up your collective ebony butts.

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Ashley Wright
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I’d like to know why blacks lay out in the sun. I don’t get that.

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Alfie Alfie
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I’s like to know why white people stare at Native Americans, and not in a good way!

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Laura McKnight
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Well, I'm known to look at Natives a bit more. Primarily because I don't see them often in my area. As for staring, I really hope I don't do that.

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JerryWayne A
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Clearly, half or more of the answers were sarcastic and condescending. Of course, most of the questions were just shallow (seriously? you can't logically discern why someone would smile at a stranger on the street?) I think all that has been accomplished, here, is to expose some passive racial bias and stereotyping.

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Elizabeth Gardner
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

WHAT!!!!! after how many hundreds of years NOW you are asking? you could not have asked any of this sooner.??? To me this is like trying find a black person in a dark room or a white person in a blizzard. But I have to say I got a damn good laugh keep it up!

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Melissa Nunya
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Less funny and more insulting. Had the questions been reversed folks would be offended.

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Andrea Wooten
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

A lot of white woman have rhythm, but white guys??? Is there a private song in your head when you dance?

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moeless
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Let's flip the script. Why ya'll name your kids some unpronounceable string of letters? I understand wanting to stand out but why you never change the LAST name? The one some think of as their ancestors' owners' name? THAT is the one I would change!

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Langa “The Prestige Group”
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

In African language, it actually is meaningful i.e my name is Langa, means Sun but someone from English roots would find it unpronounceable. As for surname Arg!! tell me about it, society says its a taboo because surname identifies with where you exactly come from- ancestral lineage.

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F**k this is pathetic. It's exactly this sort of s**t that perpetuates racism. The constant observations of "differences". How the Hell are you going to achieve the fantasy that all races are the same and equal with this sort of s**t going on? And it IS a fantasy. Apparently different breeds of dogs, horses, birds etc are more adept at some things than others but that apparently does not apply to different races/breeds of humans. If it was NOT true, we'd have poodles running races with greyhounds and and draft horses doing steeple chases. Thanks Political correctness. Keep up the good work of perpetuating fantasies. I now await the inevitable socially brainwashed morons to screech "RACIST" at me for merely being truthful and logical. For the record, I have nothing against any "race" Every race has it's own good and bad qualities. Fact. Deal with it. ... it's only f****d up ideologies like political correctness that I hate.

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Viviane Katz
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I'm able to laugh at myself, but I realize that some white people are very sensitive about their skin colour, advantages, and cultural differences. As a white person, I have the luxury of pretending race is irrelevant. As a human, I have a duty to acknowledge that race matters. If a black person wants to discuss it (not everyone does), I'm open to it. I can learn a lot from others.

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the days of PC have changed the rules . Humor has no place regarding topics like this today. Although some still try to take this path, and it's always one way.

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Uwe Theiss
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Personal Computers have given us this opportunity! I don't understand what your talking about.

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I hate to say this, but as a white individual. We were not the ones to ruin spices. We were not the ones to sell people into slavery. I hate the fact that people what to blame white people for slavery. When they need to blame Spain, Italy and other European Countries. Why not as them what they did wrong?

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The 5 minutes I will never get back because they got wasted reading this.

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Or how about, “Why don’t you smoke weed? JOIN US!”

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CrunChewy McSandybutt
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

As a white American I'd like to know which one of you put raisins in the potato salad and ruined our reputation amongst all POC?

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PeachesEDM
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

As a Canadian, I am very happy to report that I have NEVER seen raisins in potato salad.

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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

To a person who isn’t white or black, this is so stupid because white people and black people act and live so similarly. They are the only ones who see the differences. But as a Persian person, you all just act “American” to me. Black and white people are way wayyyy more alike than different.

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Omar A
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

That brings up a whole new thread, Ask an American. I'm a military BRAT, raised in Germany. It was easy to identify an American when we left the base.

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Master Markus
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I don't understand the washcloths thing. I've never seen nor heard of white people not using them, nor have I really run into anyone of any race that just... talks about their bathing habits like that.

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Ohio Hands
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Same here, I've never heard of any one group of people not using washcloths, I'm white and we use them as well as does any other white person I know. This one was a complete mystery to me.

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FatBaby
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I really wanted the person with the Elsa profile picture to say "Because, the cold never bothered me anyway"....now im sad

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Random Panda
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I appreciate this is all humorous, but even as stereotypes these seem very strange, I can't say I find any of these common. But then again there isn't one single "white culture" anyway.

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Lois Matelan
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

As a Cajun, I strongly reject any allegations regarding lack of spice, or lack of cousins. Not all white people . . .

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Jessica butts
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5 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

are Cajuns usually catholic? I feel like as far as white people go, Catholics are little more family oriented than WASPs, at least in my Irish/Italian catholic family we were, and I talk about my cousins a lot.

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PeachesEDM
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

The fake smile is 100% accurate. I have resting b**** face, so I have to actively alter my face to make it look like I'm not mad at the person I'm passing. But it's tiring, you know? So, the half smile is my compromise. "I acknowledge you are sharing a space with me, are entitled to have a fair share of said space, but I don't want to interact."

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Master Markus
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Yeah, I'm white but I don't do it to a specific race of people, just anyone who I notice looking at me for an extended period of time.

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Viviane Katz
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I'm glad to see some good-natured exchanges. The questions can be as revealing as the answers.

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Nomadus Aureus
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I can totally relate to the spices thing. A British colleague offered to help with cooking and he put ONE bloody pinch of salt into a pot that was being prepared for a group of ten. I couldn't for the life of me convince him otherwise...

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Valerie Lessard
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

which "white people". it's like saying "ask asians", to whom are you referring? the whole of europe? europeans of america? colonialists only?

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Valerie Lessard
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

russians as far as i know are white and are incredibly family orientated people

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Martha Meyer
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I'm arriving at one conclusion: American race relations are WEIRD! Washcloths, bean casseroles. This white European is flabbergasted!

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Cat
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

To be fair, I'm also a little confused about the whole raisins in the salad thing..

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Wietse Pot
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

About the spices: Spice trade 101. - Don't get high on your own supply. - Don' t sell to your own people

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Harleen
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It's sad that it's seen as NOT ok to ask these questions, even if the person is your friend. I wouldn't see it as racist - just honest curiosity.

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diane a
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Not so much these days but in the past I would imagine black people asking "Why do you white folks spend so much time, trouble and money on trying to get darker skin"?

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R L
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

They still do ask that- white people want darker skin and black people walk around with umbrellas in the sun to stop them from getting darker skin. With skin cancer the way it is, umbrellas are a good idea for protection regardless of skin colour.

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Laura Martin
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Love posts like this one. It's human nature to wonder about people different than ourselves. What a great way to get the questions out & bravo to all the honest & funny answers! I know as little girl I would have loved to be a able to ask boys questions...

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Stephanie Chapman
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I bet people who brought spices from other lands didn't even get any recipes. So, you might have a wonderful spice but don't really know how to use it, plus it was very expensive to get, and the next thing you know people are stuffing cloves in an orange for décor/potpourri.

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Chris Lehr
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I thought that was pretty good. We should do one for white people asking black people questions, we know the terrible past but it would awesome to know the present, good and bad. I feel sometimes I'm afraid to ask a black person a question in case I offend.

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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

you can ask me something. I don't love fried chicken though (if your question is chicken-related).

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Beth Clay
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

In response to your statement; “Unfortunately, since that post, we have received an influx of white racism and ignorance on other posts. We want to create dialogue, but not at the expense of our peace of mind or giving up our authentic voice to Black people, and to all people love and respect. We have contemplated removing that post if people don’t understand that we created it to create a bridge, and not to invite hateful people.” Hateful people do not seem to require invitations they show up and spew their hate no matter what. The fact that there were so many, literally thousands of comments on the original post suggest that most people are open to an honest and friendly dialog.

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Jus
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I live in Europe and can't relate. You've only made me learn I know almost nothing about American habits in general. Washcloth?! I used sponge, maybe, and never for my private parts! I use a lot of spices but I also know traditional people who only cook with salt and pepper, and I mean lots of salt! Only athletes wear shorts in winter here. Most of the questions are valid in America only...

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THEPS
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I liked this post and I wish they would do it again. I love the questions and answers.

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Ashley Wright
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Me, too. Nice to have an open, friendly dialogue between whites and blacks about the most mundane things.

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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I'm white and I can't relate to this at all. I love spices and use lots of them in my cooking. (and Sean needs to knock off this "our women" $h!+. NOBODY OWNS ME.) I only watched House Hunters one time because I was over at a friend's house and she waned to watch it and it was one of the most boring shows I've ever seen in my life. I've never even SEEN that damn green bean casserole anywhere outside of a TV commercial. I will sincerely smile at people to be friendly, I'm not being fake. I don't happen to live near my family but I do talk about them. And I don't wear shorts in the summer, let alone the winter. If you saw my legs you would know why.

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Leanne Parker
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

As a white Australian ................ although our family members reside in different States and Territories, yeah we are all still very family orientated. Unfortunately due to different career paths and job opportunities etc most families have little or no choice to be able to remain "close knit". I have lots of brothers and sisters, children, grand kids, nieces, nephews, cousins, aunts and uncles. We often hit the road visiting the rellies and keeping in touch. Love our family reunions. Next family reunion is May 2020 at an outback "swimming hole" named 'MATARANKA' in the NORTHERN TERRITORY. Saltie country!

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Luke Gibson
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I'm obviously not very British, I add spice to everything, even a ham and cheese sandwich, has half ounce of black pepper and two tablespoons of cajun.

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DeadStillPretty
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

As a white person, I too would like to know why white people wear shorts in winter. I went to school in upstate NY, the weather was absurd. In late March one year, it was 88 degrees one day then there was a blizzard the next. I would see white people, mostly guys, in shorts and flipflops on campus as if mentally screaming "NO! It was warm yesterday and I refuse to admit that it has changed!"

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Stephanie Bladyak
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I don't use a washcloth because I use a scrungee! I thought most people did...I also like to use spices I put lawrys and Tabasco on almost everything...garlic too.

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KCN
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I totally use a washcloth. The rest of my family doesn't. (Shrug my shoulders.)

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Mike Parks
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

i always use a washcloth and let anyone within earshot where and how i used it (not always truthful about where, but it keeps them from using it too

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Ashley Wright
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Regarding washcloths: I❤️them. Single use only. They’re not meant to be shared.

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Jace
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

“Single use and then washing them in the laundry”, not burning them or throwing them away, of course :-D

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Cecile Encarnacion
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I think this was or is a brilliant idea to get everyone in on the conversation. We all need to be heard. Washcloths freak me out too. I bring my own to the shower, salt (I think ) brings out the flavor of whatever you add it too. I live in a mixed family and we celebrate our uniqueness. We encourage the kid's to be their OWN, to have & express their OWN ides and gifts. As long as we have the patience to REALLY listen we can't go wrong. And, when I smile it is ALWAYS genuine!

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Jennifer Corry
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I love talking about my cousins. Very surprised some white girl said we're not family oriented, it's simply not true.

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NoName
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Shut your TVs and reality b******t and the horseshit, fear mongering news off. This is how people really are. Just be human. While differences can be confusing, they can also be uniting. And amusing :) what's life without laughter?

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Jimmy Coleman
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I dig Afrocentric Films Collaborative because the peeps are frank, honest , and real. Not all people are bigoted, racist. or ignorant, but they are out there. Big difference in cultures. Half my fam is black. We love each other as family should. Friendship matters. When anyone makes a bigoted statement publicly, we never know whos watching, and what we miss out on. Great Posting!

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DeadStillPretty
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

As a white American I also want to know why white people wear shorts in winter. Where I went to school in upstate NY the weather was absurd. At the end of March one year, it was 88 degrees one day and there was a blizzard the next. I'd see white people all over campus, mostly guys, in shorts and flipflops on the way to class, as if mentally screaming "NO! It was warm yesterday and now I refuse to admit that it has changed!" I know someone who wears flipflops in the *snow*

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Alexandra Marsh
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Need to expose more skin to sunlight in the winter. Helps with vitamin D production. My sister wears shorts all year round. I think she is nuts! But she feels perfectly comfortable. She grew up in the era, in her early life, where girls wire dressesto school ever day. Maybe it doesn't seem any different to her.

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Kayla Crocker
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

All right where's the thread about white people asking a black person a question they have always wanted to know cause I've got a few 😂😂

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Ashley Wright
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

😂😂 Me, too. Here’s mine: why do some of you dye your hair blond? It’s better natural.

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R Tate Dancer
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Sometimes a question is just a question. Someone needs to quit getting their panties in a w**.

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Liz Mosby
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I love green bean casserole.. lol.. Btw, the whole sharing a washcloth? No ma'am.. that's just your family.. I have always used them, but there was guest washcloths and daily use ones for sure.. The fake smile thing... At least here in Texas, everyone does it to everyone.. It's considered rude to look at someone, have eye contact and not give at least a half a*s smile.. Same as opening/holding the door open for the person behind you, etc.. It's not a thing whites do to other races, we give each other creepy smile face too. LoL.

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Lily Mae Kitty
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I don't get the washcloth thing. I thought everyone used them, regardless of race...and that many of us have switched to those puffs b/c they are so nice with shower gel...although I am 57 now and my skin is getting dry so use a softer puff b/c too much exfoliation was rough on my skin. My dad didn't use a washcloth but he was around during the depression and WWII and I guess they weren't that popular yet then.

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Maggie
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

These are all american blacks and whites... other people exist outside America...ya know? And yes, we use aloooooooooot of spices. Jesus... Bulgarian here.

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Ashley Wright
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

If I walk past a black person, I acknowledge as I would a white person. With a smile. Regarding cousins, they’re completely an overrated relative. You don’t think the Kennedy cousins bicker?

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Liz Maggioli
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

i'm from Boston ma and i have never seen a raisin in potato salad. If it's in there then it crawled in.

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Erin
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I have several cousins and I talk about them all of the time.

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Langa “The Prestige Group”
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

God please, a few more- why do white girls like wearing pata pata shoes and get red toes? It might be relevant to whites in Africa. Why do you climb in bed with shoes on or wash shoes in a kitchen sink, also why do you like walking on the dirty floor on barefoot and get black dirty feet???

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Rob Chapman
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

If this was reversed it would be considered racist. Post: "Ok, white people. Ask black people one question you've always wanted to know". The OP would be kicked off Twitter, suspended from Facebook, and probably fired form their job.

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Katchen
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Twitter harbors a lot of racists. Not sure why you think they’d be kicked off.

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Neil Samuels
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

In all honesty, I'd like to see something like this BOTH ways. The more we know about each other, the more we find out just how alike we really are. This is how hate is put to rest.

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Lou Claveau
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This should be an entire Facebook Group! I have questions. I have friends of all races. I get this look on my face and they all roll their eyes and say, “Whar don’t you understand now. And for God’s sake just ask!”

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SirWriteALot
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Good stuff. If you can remember that we're all different and there's stereotypes all over then we can all get along. Do we not bleed when we are pricked?

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Erika Drewke
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

As a non-american the casserolething was helpful. I would love to read more of this and that it would evolve into a safespace to ask questions you cant ask face-to-face because what if it hurts someone

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borklaser
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

The only one I can relate to is the salt, it's not a hatred of spices, though! I learned to cook from my very southern grandma, a small dash of salt, then about 5 tablespoons of pepper, preferably in several different varieties.

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Heather Radley-Arner
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I have always wanted to ask questions but white people say noooo. That would be wrong, dont do it. I'm like why?? Loved it.

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Master Markus
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

The lack of spices thing is a weird stereotype that never reached my immediate family. Maybe in part because my dad did some culinary school. It's mostly an issue with the older generations (like people who would be in their 70s or so now), especially in Britain, who just like... weren't used to spices are were afraid to try new things.

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HighNMightyBigshot
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1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Towards the end and the comment by Terrance Wilbert, — except white people tend to create stereotypes that get Black people killed, not getting a job, being accused of crimes and many other situations that have no foundation in fact.

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Joyce Blodgett
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Cousins? Haven't seen even one of mine in more than 16 years. Some live much too far away---I hate to travel, and do it only for the Feast of Tabernacles once a year---and most I've never met. I have cousins, I suppose, whom I haven't seen since I was about 5 years old, I have cousins who have children older than mine if my two had lived, and I have zero idea how many cousins I have, who are which side (my Mom or my Dad), and I don't intend to find out. Mom and Dad died 16+ years ago without filling in the gaps, and I'm not interested in finding anyone myself. The end. And, no, no raisins were ever put into any of our family's potato salads (BLEECCCHH!!!!)

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OHIOWAndering_Around
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I love spices. I probably have 25 and they're on such a regular rotation they're on my grocery list every week I go through them so fast. I much prefer flavorful food to my mom's blandass cooking, but in her defence my dad has always had hellacious heartburn and she definitely prefers spicy because her dad grew up in the Southwest. He cooked just as much as my grandma did since they both worked. My grandma refused to be dependent on her husband for money even in that day and age. We're talking 50s and 60s. My grandma was hella independent and terrified my mom so bad one day when she just decided to drive eight hours to see my uncle in Minnesota in the middle of winter. I smile at most people because it's habit from customer service. I might even say hello. It's strange since I do have social anxiety, but that smile and hello when someone makes eye contact is so engrained I can't help myself.

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OHIOWAndering_Around
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

We didn't see family because my mom was a narcissist with a superiority complex and she hates my dad's family who drinks and knows how to have fun. We don't have fun when we get together as a family because my mom hates noise, it isn't dignified, and "what if people saw how you were acting." I always assumed everyone used a washcloth because we always did.

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Hannah Walters
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

If your reading this I hope you have a great day and know. “For God so loved the world that he gave his one and only Son, that whoever believes in him shall not perish but have eternal life.” ‭‭John‬ ‭3:16‬ ‭NIV

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Paul Lewis
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I want to know who ruined a great bowl of chili by putting red kidney beans in it? THERE ARE NO BEANS IN REAL TEXAS CHILI!!

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Daniel Monaco
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Honestly, I'm Italian and I talk about my cousins all the time but like that's...it. That's the only White ethnic group that has cousins. The rest of us could give a s**t, to be frank.

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Nora Dauser
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I loved this. Let’s do more. I want to ask black people stuff too. How do they braid short hair like that. Do you really like chitons? Why is it so hot in your house?

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Michele Yates
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This was TOO FUNNY AS WELL AS ENLIGHTENING! l enjoyed this very much!

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janice brooks
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

this is very nice. I who would like to know why people of color, men and women think big butts are attractive.

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Tammy Wilkinson
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I’d love to see the original post and read all the answers. This is brilliant!

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未周 陸
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Simple Honest [Positive] Communication is the Key to MANY Serious Issues in today's society Anywhere & Everywhere!

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Samhhain Cat
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

If you want to know about the spice thing, look up the history of minced meat pies. It's not normal but there sure were a shitton of spices in there!

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Gemma Lees
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Who the heck doesn't use flannels (wash cloths)?! I'm a Romany Gypsy, is this an 'us' thing?

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Ann
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Everyone uses them. They're not flannel anyway, they're terry cloth so you might be talking about something else. The confusion is that black people keep the same washcloth in the shower for a week to wash with. Wash EVERYTHING with. White people use washcloths to wash their faces and then throw them in to be washed after just one use and we usually don't use them in the shower, we use shower puffs or something like that.

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Dana Sellers Steele
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I’m from the northeast. As soon as the temperature rises above fifty degree, no matter who you are, it’s shorts and flip flops time.

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Andrew
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

who is frank and why is he giving black people his answers

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guy greej
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Why hasn't the reverse been done yet. Been waiting two weeks now come on internet

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Robert Pacl
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I try to smile, most of the time, first to convince passersby that I'm not a problem and second I don't have problems, not really. Mark Twain said it best. " Most of my problems never happened ". In all my travels, 10 countries and 47 states, I have found the same kind of people I find at home. Once you take off the cultural overlay, which I'm sorry to say I think is responsible for most of the world's ills, you find the same basic concerns as everyone else. Unfortunately, most people buy into their heritage without question, never realizing that there's trash there too. I've thrown out most of what I was raised with so, if you don't like what I think, blame me. But, I'm very reluctant to judge or blame so if you want to talk about problems, shoot.

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camena
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

we need one of these for asian ppl... one of the most steriotyped people. btw im asian.

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Erika Reynolds
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Love it! And I like the question of why we don't talk about our coursins - lololol - mine are just not fun. And they're weird, and they're kind of nerdy.

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Danielle Arnold
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4 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

They really arent racist questions though. If they asked something really rude then you get negative answers. Same with a white person asking rude questions or a hispanic asking rude questions. Thats not just a one race issue, all races would be like that. Well id imagine.

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okpkpkp
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Wait. I remember way back to when I lived in the Army barracks. All of the black GIs used white washcloths. And all of the white GIs used their hands. My folks never taught me about washcloths.

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Bob Russick
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I saw this thread a couple of days too late. I really wanted to participate.

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Alex Gal
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

No washcloth in my shower, but a communal loofah. It lives right next to the soap, not that difficult to wash other people off of it. Everything in my household follows the guiding principle of less waste/clutter, more togetherness/familiarity. We're quite happy.

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Bill
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

People in the south ruin potato salad by dumping pickle juice in it

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Ann
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Um, no? That's how it's supposed to be made? I'm not from the south and potato salad has potatoes, boiled eggs, mayonnaise (or miracle whip), dill pickles (though some use gross sweet pickles), yellow mustard and a splash of pickle juice. Delicious.

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Jace
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

As a Caucasian, I don’t understand why so many other Caucasians are reportedly NOT using [a full supply of] washcloths for showering. How else do you people wash your bodies?

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Barbara Kayton
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Love this. We need more respectful, honest questions, so we can all better understand our own stereotyping, and better understand each other.

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MissDemeanour
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I am white & I LOVE chilli, the hotter the better. These are just dumb stereotypes.

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Robin Schaaf
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Are you a Kewpie lover. I have over 1000 kewpie dolls. I love that you use it instead of a picture of you.

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Carrie Hoover
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I actually got the chance and got to do this in person. It was cool and fun. :-)

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AuntieCreed
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This needs to be a subreddit. Like r/AskWhitePeopleAnything

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Grace Wiebe
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This is cool. I'm white & I have friends of many races. We can all just get along if we accept that people are different & it's a good thing.

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Christine Cameron-Dow
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

To the best of my knowledge this question was first posed in 2017 by a South African with the Fb name of Joburger. It actually evoked a massive response and was very well taken, with some hilarious questions asked and very good natured answers. I don't know if Afrocentric copied him or he copied Afrocentric, but it was very much a hit in South Africa.

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Christine Cameron-Dow
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I'd like to know when this surfaced. The first thread, with this exact theme and these exact words, that I'm aware of was created on Fb by a young man with the user name of Joburger. He is a young white South African, currently living in the UK, and it evoked a massive response. So, my question is, has Afrocentric copied him, or did he copy Afrocentric? https://l.facebook.com/l.php?u=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.traveller24.com%2FMyTravels%2Fsouth-africans-take-a-dig-at-stereotypes-as-racial-qa-goes-viral-20171031%3Ffbclid%3DIwAR0DE4N_sLAuxlfTjcMl-4hKYcuZRDbbakrFwtLcPPGQzY6M3dCqb8PXFyo&h=AT3ess1PQiyG2xzcEsdvk_RIthV5Dj8yOeSL7-SdLmCuEbcN0t1CiO_KkUJv-U0Llavmu5A4HVdFi32q4z0XG_KF63Ya9bihoP8OFbhjyQSiA0PITWNb-k9FM673V9tFKb4pc2fDLYFRftoh_9KwzUH1n5aCF6B9IviYDm8NohLCA2_vUKbIcgDylkQdIIwOsQkyVtfoMVNTu9e84bTV_lG1UkwSDklsjx2HRj1j_npWH_xr88YowgjaLWGbk3wY5ijFHoTY-LUTgEDjo5rpmlOlY9cCqBWp_M79im3oZD_3Wqrdae9vMQxpLR5IMg8eLFokKHPAP-3mRnyZbCxgh3nyjKhW--gMri9saAITPcbGKMZQb-nuQHLLMCOYwRvMCQwyzbP0xLsoAnUTbXaMcoPocB69XH_F

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Jane Alexander
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Nasiru Abdalla Whiteside asks about 'A pinch of salt' First Nasiru, do you mean as in a recipe or as in 'take what that person says with a pinch of salt'? If the later, it means that person may or may not be telling it like it is. Does anyone know the origin of that phrase?

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DotC
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Also, I talk about my cousins A LOT. Cousins are the best! Ok, some are terrible and makin our family look bad.

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DotC
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

None of these things apply to ethnic white people (Southern Europeans and a lot of Eastern Europeans). Italians use spices, and those of us with acne bring our own washcloth everywhere because our acne meds bleach other people's stuff. My sweetie is German-French from Michigan. I call her Baloney Clan (see White Wolf Vampire LARP books) because they are ALL about mayo, yellow mustard, grinding baloney into a paste (ok, its good w pickles but Im not happy about it) and eating "red hots" (pretty much tubed baloney with a little red pepper).

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Lydia Pagano
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Please do more like this one! This was so wholesome and fun and I loved reading the comments and questions and answers!

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zef rose
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This is brilliant and beautiful! Let us please have more of these forums! This is the way to counter big brother's efforts to divide us further and further by the groups we belong to. One on one genuine conversation bypasses fear and suspicion. #PeaceOneOnOne

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Julien Hu
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

We should do the same here, in France. Not only with black people ^^'

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Gracie Mae
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Oh how I wish this was a longer article! Had a friend at work once (she's black, I'm white)--we were close enough that we did this ALL.THE.TIME! It was great having someone to ask questions about the differences in our races & not be judged. I miss that!

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Nizar Kilani
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This is so strange! As if white people are from one planet and blacks are from another and they just met and here they are trying to get to know each other! The end result of publishing this kind of thing is widening the gap between the races, putting an emphasis on the differences and giving theses differences more importance than what they should have. This is what an alien encounter will look like.

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Thomas Mackerley
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Yes, more of this not racist chatter is amusing, but why not the other way? Because white people would be “racist” for asking such things

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Ruth Peterson
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

If like to ask white people - why don't most white people have blinds or covering on their windows? How can you sit in the house knowing that people on the street can see you? How can you walk around in your undies with no coverings in the windows.

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Kayla Crocker
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

All right so where's the thread about questions white people want to ask black people I've got a few 😂😂

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Adam Cantor
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Would the conversations be so peaceful if we let white people ask black people about all the things we've been dying to know? I feel like "why do black people like fried chicken and grape drink"? would stir a lot more pots than black people asking about raisins in potato salad. #amiright?

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smash17
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Well, maybe if it wasn't a stupid question. Couldn't you think of better examples? Really, fried chicken and grape drink?! (People will say anything, I suppose, to make a point.)

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Berit
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I am so bored with this. Why is it always about black people? Why is there so few voices pointing out the racism against the American natives? The outrages conditions many of them still live in. Cos we are only talking about the American society here, are we? I'm sure black Africans would ask white Africans different things, or white tourists. And the black Vietnamese left behind by their American fathers in the late sixties would most likely have a whole lot of different questions,too. So, while these questions are somewhat amuzing and give an insight of what picture some people have of whities, is utterly shallow.

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Leah Helbig
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I think i might be black because I don't understand any of these references I use multiple spices I make curry chicken from scratch i use wash rags and i have 27 first cousin that I talk to daily and my family is very close knit dont get it at all

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Christina Sersif
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I'm white, but according to the people in this "questionnaire" I should have been born something else. I season my food and am a great cook. All the white people I eat with and know also do the same. I also like hot sauce on fried chicken and pizza as hot sauce is a great condiment. I mean I can laugh at stereotypes too because some of them tend to be true and most of them silly, but these are just dumb stereotypes. I didn't even finish reading because it was so cringeworthy.

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debrina blackmoon
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

i would like to see one about asking Native Americans(like me)...that should get some laughs too.

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Kevin Camp
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Looking at all of the food questions... I would say that those are all aimed at white northerners. White folks form the South love that spicy food.

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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

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JerryWayne A
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

You need to know...most of these answers are blowing hot air right up your collective ebony butts.

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Ashley Wright
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I’d like to know why blacks lay out in the sun. I don’t get that.

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Alfie Alfie
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I’s like to know why white people stare at Native Americans, and not in a good way!

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Laura McKnight
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Well, I'm known to look at Natives a bit more. Primarily because I don't see them often in my area. As for staring, I really hope I don't do that.

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JerryWayne A
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Clearly, half or more of the answers were sarcastic and condescending. Of course, most of the questions were just shallow (seriously? you can't logically discern why someone would smile at a stranger on the street?) I think all that has been accomplished, here, is to expose some passive racial bias and stereotyping.

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Elizabeth Gardner
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

WHAT!!!!! after how many hundreds of years NOW you are asking? you could not have asked any of this sooner.??? To me this is like trying find a black person in a dark room or a white person in a blizzard. But I have to say I got a damn good laugh keep it up!

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Melissa Nunya
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Less funny and more insulting. Had the questions been reversed folks would be offended.

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Andrea Wooten
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

A lot of white woman have rhythm, but white guys??? Is there a private song in your head when you dance?

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moeless
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Let's flip the script. Why ya'll name your kids some unpronounceable string of letters? I understand wanting to stand out but why you never change the LAST name? The one some think of as their ancestors' owners' name? THAT is the one I would change!

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Langa “The Prestige Group”
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

In African language, it actually is meaningful i.e my name is Langa, means Sun but someone from English roots would find it unpronounceable. As for surname Arg!! tell me about it, society says its a taboo because surname identifies with where you exactly come from- ancestral lineage.

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F**k this is pathetic. It's exactly this sort of s**t that perpetuates racism. The constant observations of "differences". How the Hell are you going to achieve the fantasy that all races are the same and equal with this sort of s**t going on? And it IS a fantasy. Apparently different breeds of dogs, horses, birds etc are more adept at some things than others but that apparently does not apply to different races/breeds of humans. If it was NOT true, we'd have poodles running races with greyhounds and and draft horses doing steeple chases. Thanks Political correctness. Keep up the good work of perpetuating fantasies. I now await the inevitable socially brainwashed morons to screech "RACIST" at me for merely being truthful and logical. For the record, I have nothing against any "race" Every race has it's own good and bad qualities. Fact. Deal with it. ... it's only f****d up ideologies like political correctness that I hate.

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Viviane Katz
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I'm able to laugh at myself, but I realize that some white people are very sensitive about their skin colour, advantages, and cultural differences. As a white person, I have the luxury of pretending race is irrelevant. As a human, I have a duty to acknowledge that race matters. If a black person wants to discuss it (not everyone does), I'm open to it. I can learn a lot from others.

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the days of PC have changed the rules . Humor has no place regarding topics like this today. Although some still try to take this path, and it's always one way.

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Uwe Theiss
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Personal Computers have given us this opportunity! I don't understand what your talking about.

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I hate to say this, but as a white individual. We were not the ones to ruin spices. We were not the ones to sell people into slavery. I hate the fact that people what to blame white people for slavery. When they need to blame Spain, Italy and other European Countries. Why not as them what they did wrong?

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The 5 minutes I will never get back because they got wasted reading this.

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Or how about, “Why don’t you smoke weed? JOIN US!”

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