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“Before You Get A Puppy, Imagine Yourself 10+ Years From Now”: Woman’s Brutally Honest Post About Getting A Dog Goes Viral
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“Before You Get A Puppy, Imagine Yourself 10+ Years From Now”: Woman’s Brutally Honest Post About Getting A Dog Goes Viral

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Getting a puppy can’t be a snap decision. It’s a serious step because you’re not just getting a temporary distraction—you’re getting a lifelong friend. And it’s your responsibility to take care of it when it gets old and ill, no matter how hard and heartbreaking it might be.

Best-selling author Brittany Tarkington from East Texas shared a heart-wrenchingly bittersweet Facebook post about her dog of 12 years, Winnie. She revealed how she had to take care of Winnie as she got older, until she sadly passed away. Brittany wanted people to imagine themselves years and years from now taking care of their senior dogs when they need our help and support the most. If we can’t make that promise, we shouldn’t be getting the pet in the first place.

Brittany told Bored Panda that the main thing for people who are currently taking care of their senior dogs is to never give up. “I know it’s hard, but they give us so much in their short lives, the most selfless thing we can do in our lives is making sure they feel loved and comfortable at the end.” Scroll down for our interview with Brittany and to read her story in her own words.

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“Your face turned white, your energy dimmed, but you were wise in a way most wouldn’t understand”

Brittany shared how she was adamant about getting her own dog when she was in high school and how she met her friend Winnie. At first, Brittany’s heart was set on getting a Chihuahua. Until she found an ad in her local paper for a 6-month-old Jack Russell mix who didn’t get along with the new dog.

“I was adamant; we were going to see her. She ran straight to the car, and after a small talk, she was in my lap headed home with my mom and me. ‘Roxie or Winnie?’ I asked my mom. She replied, ‘She doesn’t look like a Roxie.’ Winnie it was. That was the first time Winnie gave us her look. I’ve seen it a million times, and it’s one I’ll wish I could see forever. Her eyes were the most expressive things on this planet. I could read every thought with that single look.”

Winnie was by Brittany’s side for 12 and a half years. A lot happened during that time: Brittany graduated from high school, rebelled, graduated college, had a baby, moved, got marries, and brought home other animals. But through everything, her life still revolved around Winnie.

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“As long as you had the attention you demanded, you were always on board whether it be sleeping all day or adventures. And I thank you for that. I never knew how much I needed someone to sleep by my bed on nights I was alone, judge me when I was dancing around the kitchen listening to pop music. Or simply have someone listen to me while I vented.”

According to Brittany, the beginning of Winnie’s life was full of energy and fun, however, her senior years were here favorite. “Your face turned white, your energy dimmed, but you were wise in a way most wouldn’t understand. It wasn’t always easy, but I would do it a million times over just to be with you. I started to wonder during this time, why people abandoned senior animals during their most precious and vulnerable times. I won’t ever be able to answer that. I just hope they stop and think.”

Winnie was Brittany’s best friend in the world

Winnie’s owner told Bored Panda that she was very thankful for the last year of her dog’s life. They spent most of that time together. “She traveled with me, went on walks with me, and went on almost every store trip I made. She was my best friend and I hope she felt the love I gave her during her last year.”

Unfortunately, not everyone is as kind and dedicated to their pets as Brittany. According to the author, some people give up on their dogs once they start getting older.

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“There are too many senior dogs in shelters. Rather, it’s because of costs or that they can’t stand to see their pets age, too many people give up on their senior dogs.”

So before you impulsively go buy or rescue that cute canine you’ve fallen in love with at first sight, you need to be prepared in advance for all of the good and bad things that will come over the dog’s lifetime. A lot of people agreed with Brittany’s message: her post got more than 52k likes, was shared over 81k times, and started a real discussion with 7.3k comments.

Brittany lives with her husband and son in Texas. She is the author of The Hazed Series, The Forever Series, The Lies We Tell, and The Autumn Leaf. You can find her books on Amazon right here.

Here’s what some people said after reading Brittany’s heart-wrenching post

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Metaniel
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I think that also important question is: are you ready to pay med bills for your furry friend no matter what? I've met lots of people at the vet office that we're looking for the cheapest alternative, swearing at dog, or cat, because they got sick or old. People are trying to get rid of "the problem", so they won't have to pay and take care of them. It's sad how many shelters are full of old doggos that need some medical treatment and lots of love. My dog got seriously sick this year, but with tons of love, meds, treatment and 1k later he's happy, full of life again and lovely. And yep, his diet is not cheap at all, but if it will make him feel better, I will buy whatever he needs

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abby smink
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I've always been willing to pay whatever bills may come, but the hard part is, some vets will not make payment arrangements, while some will. The vet I have now, while I am very happy with almost everything, they will not be flexible regarding that. Who has 3k laying around for an echo and cardiac workup? Thankfully, I had won some money at that time, and so I did, but hopefully it will not be an issue in the future. I'm more than willing to make payments whenever I can with the vet, but some just won't work with you.

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Kristin Ingersoll
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

What a strange headline! "Touching Post About Things To Consider Before Getting A Dog Goes Viral" What did that have to do with something going viral??? Also - Just had to put my old lady to sleep and it was the hardest thing I've ever done, holding her paw. Now I'm sobbing again. Which is why HEADLINES ARE IMPORTANT!!! I wouldn't have subjected myself to this right now. :(

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CB KittyValet
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

(((Hugs))) It's the hardest thing about having a pet. The heartache will lessen and you'll remember the love.

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Stille20
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Of course you can't imagine that until you have senior dog. This is a self righteous post. Like with many things., you don't know until you are there what it is like. I did crazy stuff to keep my senior dog comfy. She was healthy, but needed special meals and eye drops and could no longer do stairs or jump on the couch, but I wouldn't have imagined it 15 years prior.

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K Witmer
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I rescue senior dogs and it's devastating when they pass away. Every time I have to have my sweet dear companions put to rest it kills me. The suffering is worse. I've had two die from cancer it's awful. I have one now that can't see or hear. She always has to be touching me. I don't mind. I work from home even before the pandemic so I don't leave her. She goes w me to the bathroom. She also depends on the younger dogs. I'll be devastated again soon but I love them and I'm able to care for them

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FloC
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It seems that Brittany's dog was a lucky one to spend her life with such a loving human.

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Mohammad Ammar
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

But people learn these things as they grow with their pet.once its part of your family cleaning up after it feels more like a responsibility than a chore.

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K. LNU
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I think she's pointing out that people need to consider this. To get a pet, should be for the life of said pet. Not just until they are an inconvenience. And there are so many people that do not consider a pet "part of the family." As a volunteer at a no-kill shelter, I see a lot of dogs that are dropped off due to being "too old."

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Shadow
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

My fur baby, Mr. Magoo (14 years), was diagnosed with Hyperaldosteronism this summer, prognosis is 1 month to a year. I have to give him 2 types of medication, the first is a potassium supplement 3 times a day, the other is a half pill of spironolactone twice a day. This will continue until the end of his life. Initial emergency vet bill was $1300, every three months he needs another blood test $120, the meds: $55 and $13 for a months supply. I didn't hesitate at the cost, I don't even care. Magoo is a member of my family and while it's going to be hard when the time comes to say goodbye, he has lived a full and healthy live and is greatly loved.

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Diana W
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I 1,000% agree if they aren't family then don't take them. I miss getting up to care for my 18yo old yorkie. It's been almost 8 years and we still talk about our baby every day. Both in her prime and when she needed us the most.

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Rebecca O'Donnell
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I am so sorry for everybody who has had to go through the heartbreak of losing a fur baby. Hopefully, the knowledge that there are some people, my husband and I, that adopt only senior and special needs dogs, usually black, will be some good news for today.

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lara
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Buck died from Lupus, he was not diagnosed until the day before he died, we had been to several different vets. None of them recognized Lupus. Lady died of lung cancer. Years before she had lumps on her stomach. The vet removed them, I said, what did the pathologist say? The vet said "oh, didn't send them to the pathologist, if they come back it's cancer, if not, not cancer". They came back about five years later as lung cancer and it wasn't until she died and we did the path that we discovered why the cancer didn't show up on x-rays, it consisted of tiny thumb sized flat tumors all through her lungs. Then there was Alex, Molly and Mandy whom the frucking Chinesed k8illed with their poisoned dog food. I checked their dog food, Alpo canned, only Mandy got a whole can, the other two licked her bowl. It wasn't until about six weeks after the initial warnings that Alpo said "oh, yeah, the gluten we are using came from China, but too late, all three had liver and kidney cancer. A

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lara
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Then there was Major, he died of a broken heart about a year after Mandy. Then there was Sugar, she died of liver cancer, Pepper, Major and Sugar's daughter died of Angiosarcoma, she was on the operating table to have a small lump removed. She went into heart failure while she was receiving the anesthetic. Post showed a huge tumor in her heart that had ruptured. Then there was Maddie, intestinal cancer, NOT diagnosed until the post, despite having gone to several vets, then Katie, a rescue with heartworms, she lived exactly one year after treatment, then Cassidy, he lived one week after they brought him to me, he had parvo, he was six weeks old, I never got to hold him because he was so contagious, he was at the hospital and I would visit him twice a day, it was only 30 miles away, but it felt like a million. There was Lil Bit who died or oral melanoma, she lived one year to the day after she was diagnosed, took her to A&M they gave her three months, took her to a specialist, who

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Mina Sommerville
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I also keep my pets home as long as I can in their last weeks and days. We carried our 16 year old Bristol in and out from his cage--he finally sat in his beloved backyard and died in the cool grass. Our next Corgi Duncan also passed away in the back yard after I had helped him out a few minutes earlier. Diana died in my arms. We had one cat put down because she could no longer eat or drink. As pet parents, we know when to hospice our pets at home or take them to the vet....

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Kryogen
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Questions to ask yourself before getting a pet : - Do you like animals ? If not, get a child !

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Missy Moo Moo
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

My girl is getting very old and I will definitely be there to help her. I love her to bits! Xxx

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Deborah Rubin
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9 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

My Eowyn is my service dog. She's a purebred pomeranian, 14 years in August. I was actively suicidal after my last pom service dog at ony 7 years old. Due to undiagnosed high blood pressure (now under control) she, in 2018, had multiple hemoragic strokes. She now has hypertension, vascular brain disease, epilepsy (controlled by med), damaged kidneys (special food), sensitive tummy (2 meds), luxated patellas (med) allergies (med), and cataracts. Due to circumstances not my fault, I am now low income. A large portion of my income goes to Eowyn. Do I mind? No, of course not. I took her into my life, it's my place to give her the best life possible. My concern is not having the money in case of emergency. Having an animal - needing an animal - is a responsibility, whether it's a horse or dog or gerbil. If you can't deal with this, get a stuffie.

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Chris DiFonso
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

A dog would sacrifice his/her life to protect a person, without any hesitation. The least a human could do in return is take care of the dog's physical and mental health in return. I have a dog. She is a rescue, and I do not own her. In my opinion, people don't own pets; rather, the people are caregivers.

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Rosemary
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

My beloved girl had her first seizure on 1 April 2011. At 1am on 1 April 2015 my wonderful vet came round to give her peace. She was just six years and three months old. During those four terrible years she cost a fortune in medication and blood tests but I would have gone without food for her. She was my heart dog. Six weeks later another pup was born - unwanted and brought home by me as an unweaned three-week old scrap of just 450gm who eeped for a bottle every couple of hours day and night. My girl sent her to me. I know she did.

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K. LNU
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

As a volunteer at an animal shelter, I really have to keep my eyes closed when it comes to people "surrendering" their dog/cat - because they are: not trainable, not "good with kids" or the ultimate insult, "too old." I really want to yell at them, "DO THE RESEARCH BEFORE YOU GET A PET. AND IF YOU CAN'T HANDLE THEM GETTING OLD... PLEASE DO NOT GO OUT AND GET ANOTHER!!" *ok. getting off the soap box now.

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Oof Me
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I want to get a dog or cat, but it's really sad when I imagine the dog or cat dying one day, and could do nothing to do to help them.

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Tina Hansen
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I can't fathom the decision I have to make soon. Probably sooner than I would like it to be. But I will do it. Hating every thought of it. But I will always do what is best for my senior boy. No matter how much even the thought kills me.

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Pauline Bennett
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Brittany is oh so right! I did this with most of my fur babies. It is so hard to see them go get their wings. But the good times out weighthe bad. I'm sorry for your loss.

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abby smink
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

When we were thinking about getting a dog, I was kinda reluctant, as much as I love dogs and wanted one, because I knew one day, I'd have to see them take their last breaths. We've now had my boy Waddy for 15 years, and he seems to be mostly in good health, and while I know it won't always be that way, I wouldn't trade any second with him for the world.

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Maria Emerson
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Thank you, Brittany! I grew up with 2 Dalmatians. We had them for over 10 years when my parents divorced and due to the financial situation we could not go to a place that would allow dogs. We Dad interviewed many people and had multiple requirements (needed to have kids to play with, a place to sleep indoors, be willing to take care of the skin issue one of them had, etc.) before choosing their new family. I have always wondered and hoped they were well taken care of as they got older and sad that I wasn't there like they were there for us for 10+ years. Now, as the pawrent of 2 rescues (2 yrs and 6 yrs), I can't imagine not being the one to take care of them when they need me the most. I am fully prepared and willing to take care of them to whatever extent needed. They are truly family and just like I wouldn't abandon my parents when they get older, I won't do that with my fur babies either (including making the toughest decision ever). I am lucky my partner feels the same.

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XianJaguar
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

From the article: "It’s a serious step because you’re not just getting a temporary distraction—you’re getting a lifelong friend." Wow. I get the sentiment, but the choice of words is kinda gloomy. I hope we humans live for longer than 10 - 20 years! Along those lines, because dogs don't live as long as humans, know that one day, your heart will be broken. Still worth it!

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Katrina B.
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

No pet every goes peacefully on their own. I hate when people say this. Dying without medical intervention is horrible, painful, and no pet should have suffer. If they can't breath without you making sure they are, it's time to euthanize them.

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Asswipe
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Never have I been so heartbroken when my boy had to be euthanized because of cancer and bitter about how the vets in nearby station said that the small bump in his gums is nothing malign even when it grew larger. It happened 10 years ago and it still makes me almost cry. I miss my little guy

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Helen
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I could've never fathom that decision... which came so suddenly.... and yet I would go through all that beautiful time together again without a second thought.

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Fairsher
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

After having to let go of many of my furbabies I have come to realize that I need that type of love in my live. No matter how hard and how many times I said never again, I cannot take the pain I get another rescue a few months later. Like I said, I NEED their love in my life!!

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Ruth Beaty
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

My oldest "baby" is 12 this year, and showing it. Gray hair, aging joints with necessary pain meds, thyroid pills now, at least we match, lol. I've had her since she was 9 weeks old and I'll have her to the end. My biggest grief is the ones I couldn't do that with, I still cry about them at night.

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Clever Dog
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

You would do anything for family, if you dont think an animal can be family dont do it.

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bill marsano
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Brittany has given us common sense that borders on wisdom. Now let us all spare a thought for the pets that have been adopted --more or less on a whim--by people who thought they'd be a help during the lockdown. And when it's over? An awful lot of them will be dumped. Some have been dumped already because having a pet involves actual work, actual costs, actual responsibilities. Pets are not toys!

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Debbie
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

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Bunny Wood
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

We nursed our kelpie through Cancer until the end came. Held his head in my hands and told him what a good dog he was as the vet put him to sleep. Cried all night

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Chris Watson
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

One ad on the radio, urges people to adopt a pet during Covid. And they have! Big mistake. What's going to happen to that dog when you return to work? Will you be prepared to deal with their anxiety of being suddenly alone? Have you crate trained the dog? Or will you returned to a chewed up home? Bad advice to get a pet now, for YOUR current boredom!!

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Kim Lorton
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Love, is eternal and a dogs love, a pets love, is a forever only the soul can understand...

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Grumble O'Pug
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

If there is love, there is support for the geriatric dog. I know people who do wheelchairs, expressing urine, etc.

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Kathrin Bextermöller
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

"If you can't handle end of life, don't do it" .... really? show me anyone who can handle that...

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Kathryn Baylis
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I believe she means, if you can’t handle end of life to the point where you dump your senior pet at a shelter or just out of town, then don’t get a pet in the first place.

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SandraG_lak
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Absolutely agree! That is what is mostly preventing me from getting a pet - their passing away. Plus, I too will be aging and in my 50s-60s if my pet were to live 10+ years.

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Metaniel
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I think that also important question is: are you ready to pay med bills for your furry friend no matter what? I've met lots of people at the vet office that we're looking for the cheapest alternative, swearing at dog, or cat, because they got sick or old. People are trying to get rid of "the problem", so they won't have to pay and take care of them. It's sad how many shelters are full of old doggos that need some medical treatment and lots of love. My dog got seriously sick this year, but with tons of love, meds, treatment and 1k later he's happy, full of life again and lovely. And yep, his diet is not cheap at all, but if it will make him feel better, I will buy whatever he needs

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abby smink
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I've always been willing to pay whatever bills may come, but the hard part is, some vets will not make payment arrangements, while some will. The vet I have now, while I am very happy with almost everything, they will not be flexible regarding that. Who has 3k laying around for an echo and cardiac workup? Thankfully, I had won some money at that time, and so I did, but hopefully it will not be an issue in the future. I'm more than willing to make payments whenever I can with the vet, but some just won't work with you.

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Kristin Ingersoll
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

What a strange headline! "Touching Post About Things To Consider Before Getting A Dog Goes Viral" What did that have to do with something going viral??? Also - Just had to put my old lady to sleep and it was the hardest thing I've ever done, holding her paw. Now I'm sobbing again. Which is why HEADLINES ARE IMPORTANT!!! I wouldn't have subjected myself to this right now. :(

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CB KittyValet
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

(((Hugs))) It's the hardest thing about having a pet. The heartache will lessen and you'll remember the love.

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Stille20
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Of course you can't imagine that until you have senior dog. This is a self righteous post. Like with many things., you don't know until you are there what it is like. I did crazy stuff to keep my senior dog comfy. She was healthy, but needed special meals and eye drops and could no longer do stairs or jump on the couch, but I wouldn't have imagined it 15 years prior.

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K Witmer
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I rescue senior dogs and it's devastating when they pass away. Every time I have to have my sweet dear companions put to rest it kills me. The suffering is worse. I've had two die from cancer it's awful. I have one now that can't see or hear. She always has to be touching me. I don't mind. I work from home even before the pandemic so I don't leave her. She goes w me to the bathroom. She also depends on the younger dogs. I'll be devastated again soon but I love them and I'm able to care for them

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FloC
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It seems that Brittany's dog was a lucky one to spend her life with such a loving human.

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Mohammad Ammar
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

But people learn these things as they grow with their pet.once its part of your family cleaning up after it feels more like a responsibility than a chore.

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K. LNU
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I think she's pointing out that people need to consider this. To get a pet, should be for the life of said pet. Not just until they are an inconvenience. And there are so many people that do not consider a pet "part of the family." As a volunteer at a no-kill shelter, I see a lot of dogs that are dropped off due to being "too old."

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Shadow
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

My fur baby, Mr. Magoo (14 years), was diagnosed with Hyperaldosteronism this summer, prognosis is 1 month to a year. I have to give him 2 types of medication, the first is a potassium supplement 3 times a day, the other is a half pill of spironolactone twice a day. This will continue until the end of his life. Initial emergency vet bill was $1300, every three months he needs another blood test $120, the meds: $55 and $13 for a months supply. I didn't hesitate at the cost, I don't even care. Magoo is a member of my family and while it's going to be hard when the time comes to say goodbye, he has lived a full and healthy live and is greatly loved.

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Diana W
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I 1,000% agree if they aren't family then don't take them. I miss getting up to care for my 18yo old yorkie. It's been almost 8 years and we still talk about our baby every day. Both in her prime and when she needed us the most.

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Rebecca O'Donnell
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I am so sorry for everybody who has had to go through the heartbreak of losing a fur baby. Hopefully, the knowledge that there are some people, my husband and I, that adopt only senior and special needs dogs, usually black, will be some good news for today.

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lara
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Buck died from Lupus, he was not diagnosed until the day before he died, we had been to several different vets. None of them recognized Lupus. Lady died of lung cancer. Years before she had lumps on her stomach. The vet removed them, I said, what did the pathologist say? The vet said "oh, didn't send them to the pathologist, if they come back it's cancer, if not, not cancer". They came back about five years later as lung cancer and it wasn't until she died and we did the path that we discovered why the cancer didn't show up on x-rays, it consisted of tiny thumb sized flat tumors all through her lungs. Then there was Alex, Molly and Mandy whom the frucking Chinesed k8illed with their poisoned dog food. I checked their dog food, Alpo canned, only Mandy got a whole can, the other two licked her bowl. It wasn't until about six weeks after the initial warnings that Alpo said "oh, yeah, the gluten we are using came from China, but too late, all three had liver and kidney cancer. A

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lara
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Then there was Major, he died of a broken heart about a year after Mandy. Then there was Sugar, she died of liver cancer, Pepper, Major and Sugar's daughter died of Angiosarcoma, she was on the operating table to have a small lump removed. She went into heart failure while she was receiving the anesthetic. Post showed a huge tumor in her heart that had ruptured. Then there was Maddie, intestinal cancer, NOT diagnosed until the post, despite having gone to several vets, then Katie, a rescue with heartworms, she lived exactly one year after treatment, then Cassidy, he lived one week after they brought him to me, he had parvo, he was six weeks old, I never got to hold him because he was so contagious, he was at the hospital and I would visit him twice a day, it was only 30 miles away, but it felt like a million. There was Lil Bit who died or oral melanoma, she lived one year to the day after she was diagnosed, took her to A&M they gave her three months, took her to a specialist, who

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Mina Sommerville
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I also keep my pets home as long as I can in their last weeks and days. We carried our 16 year old Bristol in and out from his cage--he finally sat in his beloved backyard and died in the cool grass. Our next Corgi Duncan also passed away in the back yard after I had helped him out a few minutes earlier. Diana died in my arms. We had one cat put down because she could no longer eat or drink. As pet parents, we know when to hospice our pets at home or take them to the vet....

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Kryogen
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Questions to ask yourself before getting a pet : - Do you like animals ? If not, get a child !

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Missy Moo Moo
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

My girl is getting very old and I will definitely be there to help her. I love her to bits! Xxx

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Deborah Rubin
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9 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

My Eowyn is my service dog. She's a purebred pomeranian, 14 years in August. I was actively suicidal after my last pom service dog at ony 7 years old. Due to undiagnosed high blood pressure (now under control) she, in 2018, had multiple hemoragic strokes. She now has hypertension, vascular brain disease, epilepsy (controlled by med), damaged kidneys (special food), sensitive tummy (2 meds), luxated patellas (med) allergies (med), and cataracts. Due to circumstances not my fault, I am now low income. A large portion of my income goes to Eowyn. Do I mind? No, of course not. I took her into my life, it's my place to give her the best life possible. My concern is not having the money in case of emergency. Having an animal - needing an animal - is a responsibility, whether it's a horse or dog or gerbil. If you can't deal with this, get a stuffie.

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Chris DiFonso
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

A dog would sacrifice his/her life to protect a person, without any hesitation. The least a human could do in return is take care of the dog's physical and mental health in return. I have a dog. She is a rescue, and I do not own her. In my opinion, people don't own pets; rather, the people are caregivers.

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Rosemary
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

My beloved girl had her first seizure on 1 April 2011. At 1am on 1 April 2015 my wonderful vet came round to give her peace. She was just six years and three months old. During those four terrible years she cost a fortune in medication and blood tests but I would have gone without food for her. She was my heart dog. Six weeks later another pup was born - unwanted and brought home by me as an unweaned three-week old scrap of just 450gm who eeped for a bottle every couple of hours day and night. My girl sent her to me. I know she did.

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K. LNU
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

As a volunteer at an animal shelter, I really have to keep my eyes closed when it comes to people "surrendering" their dog/cat - because they are: not trainable, not "good with kids" or the ultimate insult, "too old." I really want to yell at them, "DO THE RESEARCH BEFORE YOU GET A PET. AND IF YOU CAN'T HANDLE THEM GETTING OLD... PLEASE DO NOT GO OUT AND GET ANOTHER!!" *ok. getting off the soap box now.

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Oof Me
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I want to get a dog or cat, but it's really sad when I imagine the dog or cat dying one day, and could do nothing to do to help them.

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Tina Hansen
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I can't fathom the decision I have to make soon. Probably sooner than I would like it to be. But I will do it. Hating every thought of it. But I will always do what is best for my senior boy. No matter how much even the thought kills me.

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Pauline Bennett
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Brittany is oh so right! I did this with most of my fur babies. It is so hard to see them go get their wings. But the good times out weighthe bad. I'm sorry for your loss.

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abby smink
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

When we were thinking about getting a dog, I was kinda reluctant, as much as I love dogs and wanted one, because I knew one day, I'd have to see them take their last breaths. We've now had my boy Waddy for 15 years, and he seems to be mostly in good health, and while I know it won't always be that way, I wouldn't trade any second with him for the world.

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Maria Emerson
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Thank you, Brittany! I grew up with 2 Dalmatians. We had them for over 10 years when my parents divorced and due to the financial situation we could not go to a place that would allow dogs. We Dad interviewed many people and had multiple requirements (needed to have kids to play with, a place to sleep indoors, be willing to take care of the skin issue one of them had, etc.) before choosing their new family. I have always wondered and hoped they were well taken care of as they got older and sad that I wasn't there like they were there for us for 10+ years. Now, as the pawrent of 2 rescues (2 yrs and 6 yrs), I can't imagine not being the one to take care of them when they need me the most. I am fully prepared and willing to take care of them to whatever extent needed. They are truly family and just like I wouldn't abandon my parents when they get older, I won't do that with my fur babies either (including making the toughest decision ever). I am lucky my partner feels the same.

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XianJaguar
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

From the article: "It’s a serious step because you’re not just getting a temporary distraction—you’re getting a lifelong friend." Wow. I get the sentiment, but the choice of words is kinda gloomy. I hope we humans live for longer than 10 - 20 years! Along those lines, because dogs don't live as long as humans, know that one day, your heart will be broken. Still worth it!

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Katrina B.
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

No pet every goes peacefully on their own. I hate when people say this. Dying without medical intervention is horrible, painful, and no pet should have suffer. If they can't breath without you making sure they are, it's time to euthanize them.

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Asswipe
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Never have I been so heartbroken when my boy had to be euthanized because of cancer and bitter about how the vets in nearby station said that the small bump in his gums is nothing malign even when it grew larger. It happened 10 years ago and it still makes me almost cry. I miss my little guy

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Helen
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I could've never fathom that decision... which came so suddenly.... and yet I would go through all that beautiful time together again without a second thought.

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Fairsher
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

After having to let go of many of my furbabies I have come to realize that I need that type of love in my live. No matter how hard and how many times I said never again, I cannot take the pain I get another rescue a few months later. Like I said, I NEED their love in my life!!

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Ruth Beaty
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

My oldest "baby" is 12 this year, and showing it. Gray hair, aging joints with necessary pain meds, thyroid pills now, at least we match, lol. I've had her since she was 9 weeks old and I'll have her to the end. My biggest grief is the ones I couldn't do that with, I still cry about them at night.

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Clever Dog
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

You would do anything for family, if you dont think an animal can be family dont do it.

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bill marsano
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Brittany has given us common sense that borders on wisdom. Now let us all spare a thought for the pets that have been adopted --more or less on a whim--by people who thought they'd be a help during the lockdown. And when it's over? An awful lot of them will be dumped. Some have been dumped already because having a pet involves actual work, actual costs, actual responsibilities. Pets are not toys!

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Debbie
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

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Bunny Wood
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

We nursed our kelpie through Cancer until the end came. Held his head in my hands and told him what a good dog he was as the vet put him to sleep. Cried all night

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Chris Watson
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

One ad on the radio, urges people to adopt a pet during Covid. And they have! Big mistake. What's going to happen to that dog when you return to work? Will you be prepared to deal with their anxiety of being suddenly alone? Have you crate trained the dog? Or will you returned to a chewed up home? Bad advice to get a pet now, for YOUR current boredom!!

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Kim Lorton
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Love, is eternal and a dogs love, a pets love, is a forever only the soul can understand...

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Grumble O'Pug
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

If there is love, there is support for the geriatric dog. I know people who do wheelchairs, expressing urine, etc.

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Kathrin Bextermöller
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

"If you can't handle end of life, don't do it" .... really? show me anyone who can handle that...

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Kathryn Baylis
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I believe she means, if you can’t handle end of life to the point where you dump your senior pet at a shelter or just out of town, then don’t get a pet in the first place.

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SandraG_lak
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Absolutely agree! That is what is mostly preventing me from getting a pet - their passing away. Plus, I too will be aging and in my 50s-60s if my pet were to live 10+ years.

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