The world isn’t all sunshine, rainbows, and cuddly pandas. Neither is it as scary and on the verge of collapse as some news channels might tell you. Either way, we think that most of you might agree that our safety and the safety of our loved ones should be our top priority.
We shouldn’t live in fear that something bad is bound to happen when we least expect it, however at the same time, we can’t be naive and think that accidents don’t happen or that bad people don’t exist. So we shouldn’t scoff when someone shares some advice on how to stay safe.
Redditor u/directinLA asked people to open up about the safety tips they think absolutely everyone should know, and they were more than happy to share their pearls of wisdom. From the fundamentally basic to the surprisingly genius, you’ll find their best safety tips below. Scroll down and make sure you have a notepad, dear Pandas.
Bored Panda reached out to the author of the thread, redditor u/directinLA, to get their opinion on safety, as well as which tips they personally found to be the most important.
"Among the many replies I got, I think one from u/CharlieMike12 was most helpful. Not to take away from all the other responses, but as a firefighter the tips shared were relevant to everyday safety, and I think that is the epitome of a safety tip that is useful to know," u/directinLA said.
"As far as most poignant responses, u/LamarB said, 'It is better to correct an unsafe friend than to bury one.' We all have to look out for each other regardless of our differences. Everyone is living a life that is meaningful to someone. So if any of these tips actually save a life, I can retire my account successfully!" they stressed how important community is in helping keep each other safe. Scroll down for our full interview.
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For women especially. If someone is making you uncomfortable or just giving off weird/creepy vibes, you never should worry about being "rude." You don't have to be nice/polite, your safety comes first.
Bored Panda was interested in getting u/directinLA's opinion on the role that local communities play in helping keep people safe. Here's what they had to say: "I believe community is a very important thing, as we all live in our own respective bubbles. We rely on each other to keep each other safe daily, whether it be driving a car, crossing a street, trusting our children in a school system, or even wearing a mask. Without our communities, what are we?" they mused.
"Community is so important because it gives us all a sort of tribe to be able to lean on when things become tough sometimes. Whether it be from family, friends, or even kind strangers, we all rely on help because ultimately we are doing our part to try to lead a fulfilling life."
One for knowing what to do when encountering bears:
When it’s brown, lie down. Brown bears are pretty aggressive. The first thing to do is put your arms above your head and stand as firm as possible to make yourself look big. When the brown bear is still coming to you, don’t run! Lie down, curled in a ball with you backpack still on; it’ll protect you. The bear will paw you, see that you’re no longer food and move along.
If it’s black, fight back. Black bears are less aggressive and can easily be fought back. Just like with brown bears, make yourself look as big as you possibly can. It’ll see you as a threat and move away.
If it’s white, say goodnight. Polar bears are the biggest species of bears on earth. If you’re running away from one, throw your pack to the side; polar bears have a short attention span and will go to the parcel you threw to the side. If that doesn’t work, and the polar bear is still gaining on you, there’s unfortunately nothing left but to accept Christ as your Lord and Savior because it’ll un-alive you in minutes.
Firefighter here;
Sleep with your doors shut at night (helps prevent fire spread/smoke inhalation)
Be able to crawl, blindfolded, out of every room in your house.
Make sure everyone in your home knows what to do in the event of a fire. Where to meet afterwards, etc.
If you have kids, explain to them that firefighters may look ‘scary’ in full turnout gear, but they can not be afraid of us.
Friendly reminder while I have your attention; check the batteries in your smoke detector. They truly are life savers.
The author of the thread also opened up about what inspired them to ask the question on r/AskReddit. "Being on Reddit, you see lots of videos of people getting injured, whether it be comically or seriously. I've seen my fair share of trampoline-related injury videos to want to put out the message that they are not a safe thing to play with, and could be rather dangerous. Then I wondered what other safety gems exist in life, so I created a prompt that could best be answered by people from all walks of life," they told Bored Panda.
"When you make these questions it's usually meant as a little bit of an exercise in boredom since you have an idea in your head and want to see what other people think about that topic. In this case, I figured it could be useful. Never do you imagine these things taking off the way they do. It got to the point where I was getting more replies than I had time to read them, so I had to turn off notifications!"
Very recently, Bored Panda spoke to psychologist and wellbeing consultant Lee Chambers from the UK about our need for safety and resilience to traumatic experiences.
"As human beings, we have a desire for certainty and routine that keeps us feeling safe and able to plan what lies ahead in an organized manner. When unpredictable situations or accidents impact us, it can be traumatic, and we will likely feel a sense of disappointment, frustration, and loss," he told us.
If you ever find yourself in possession of a firearm:
1. All guns are loaded, even if you just unloaded it.
2. Do not point the gun at anything you’re not willing to shoot kill/destroy.
3. Do not put your finger on the trigger unless you are trying to fire the weapon at that moment.
Don't merge back in front of a semi truck until you can see where its steer (front) tires meet the pavement, then keep going.
Truckers don't leave big gaps in front of themselves in traffic out of the kindness of their hearts. They do it because trucks are hard to stop even with powerful air brakes, and the kinetic energy in an 80,000 truck/load combo traveling at 65mph would turn you into a fine pink mist if they hit you.
WAY too many drivers don't know how to act around semis, at their mortal peril.
Source: am trucker
"It is important however that we embrace the fact that the world can be unpredictable and uncertain, and become more tolerant of this being a reality,” the psychologist told Bored Panda.
“Understanding that things are sometimes out of our control helps us to accept that not everything goes to plan, and accept when things happen to us that are negative. This acceptance allows us to embrace the change and difference, and manage our expectations so we can become more resilient to the ups and downs that all our lives lead."
Worked in a machine shop. I was told the top three rules were these: 1) Know where the emergency stop button is on every machine. 2) If you wouldn't touch it with your penis, don't touch it with your finger. 3) If something falls, let it hit the floor (don't try to catch anything falling).
That falling rule was so hard for me to stop, I played soccer a lot so whenever things fall I try to catch it.
As a life long Floridian, I see this all the time here, and else where in the news. In the event of a disaster, stay the [hell] away from downed power lines!! Don’t walk along the street with them, don’t drive your car over them, don’t take selfies with them. They’re thunder noodles and have been known to kill.
According to the expert, we can grow from our struggles, but this requires acceptance and taking ownership.
"Post-traumatic growth isn't always simple to explain or utilize, but often the adversity we face can create a precedent for what we can overcome, help us to see what we need to be grateful for, and give us an understanding of the support we do have. A big part of opening the door to grow from our struggles is finding acceptance and taking ownership over what you can control and finding healthy ways to express the negative emotion that comes with challenges that test us," he said.
When walking down the street with a one-shoulder bag, keep it on the building side of your body — not the side on which people pass you. It makes the bag harder to slash/snatch.
If asked for the time on the street, don't check your phone. Check your watch, but do so by lifting your wrist to within your field of view - don't look down at your wrist. If you don't have a watch, then say you don't know the time.
Be cautious if a person asks you to look at something, like "that car behind you".
Collectively these tips will help avoid some basic mugging tricks.
Don't say, 'Someone call an ambulance.' Do it yourself, or directly tell one person to do it.
Don't move someone injured unless there is an imminent danger to the victim.
Puncture wounds, the puncture object acts as a cork, leave it in until medics arrive and let them deal with it.
Learn cpr for adults and children, the same goes for choking techniques like heimlich.
If you are the passenger, never put your feet on the dash. With or without airbags, don’t do it. Level 1 trauma hospital worker here. Seen a fatality of a passenger who had their legs on the dash during the collision. It literally shoved their (broken) leg back into them and their own leg bone (shard) pierced their chest cavity and heart.
Image of X-RAY from a person with feet on the dash in a SIMPLE collision.
Just image a hard one... pies-salpi...153270.jpg 
"Using journaling and talking about how I felt played a significant part in my recovery when I had to learn to walk again, and gave me the space to grow to become mentally stronger as a result. It is also important to reflect on all the hurdles you've overcome, so you can see what skills and lessons you've learned to apply in the future, and adversity often helps us to see what really matters, and gets us closer to knowing our values and purpose,” Lee said.
Wear safety glasses when working. Wear safety gloves when working. Wear safety boots when working. Do not make excuses — one mistake can cost you your finger, eye, toe.
“It is better to correct an unsafe friend than to bury one”
Be gross if you’re being kidnapped. Men don’t like gross girls. Force yourself to throw up, rip your hair out, pee yourself or defecate. Try to fight back and scratch as hard as you can. Leaving physical evidence everywhere at the very least helps identify your body and get him prosecuted for the crime. Not to be morbid but. If it looks like you’re about to die then make sure you leave as much evidence as you possibly can.
I probably wouldn't need to force myself to do most of those things.
Turn your music down. I promise you will not like tinnitus.
Just want to add though that this is not the only way to get tinnitus, just the most common. Seemingly unrelated injury, stress, and illness can also cause it. Stating because so many people are vile k*bheads to people who say they have tinnitus
As someone who works in music in a variety of roles, I protected my hearing fastidiously, and was often made fun of by friends for always having/wearing earplugs when we went out. And then I got a wicked cold and bam, tinnitus.
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As a tinnitus sufferer, I can wholeheartedly assure you - you will definitely not like tinnitus. And for those who don't have it, 'enjoy the silence', I would pay big money to be able to experience silence again.
agree - i don't ever bring it up so anyone else with it won't start ^hearing^ it also. it's nice when i forget about it.
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Can't upvote this enough. If you like rock concerts, there is a type of earplug that will let you hear the music clearly but not let the damaging waves in. They're called "Eargasm". Went to a FFDP, Shinedown, Bad Wolves and Starset concert in Nashville. I love these earplugs.
Being punched around the head repeatedly throughout your childhood also causes tinnitus. I was lucky though, a woman I know had an abusive father who beat her so badly as a child she went permanently deaf by age 3.
Having been in bands from teens to 50s, and having worked in a quite loud industrial environment, use earplugs if at all possible. Tinnitus is maddening.
Tinnitus DOES suck. Mine came from the side of my head smacking into the window in a rollover accident.
If you have to go to that loud concert, get a cool looking pair of hearing protection ear muffs and stick the band's logo on them. You'll look like you've got some sweet headphones while protecting your hearing.
Many reasons for tinnitus. I got mine from not covering my ears in cold weather. Started suddenly, lasting for decades.
A floor fan and playlists with sounds that won't catch your attention help to get to sleep. Help. Not totally mask.
I don't. It's my 24/7/365 I've had it so long that I rarely notice them anymore.
And wear earplugs at a rock concert! The first concert I went to in my late teens was The Who and it damaged my eardrums. Now I'm 68 and can't hear in a crowd, have to have the TV turned up high, and (now, out of necessity) have to crank up the music in the car so loud that it can be heard from the next lane. Protect those eardrums!
turn your music down so you can hear potentially harmful things coming up on you- muggers, trucks out of control etc
The worst part is how it just comes and goes like a fire alarm that only you can hear. I didnt really listen to music loudly, I was present when something exploded.
Oh, I just wish I had been given the option of being partly deaf... I had my adenoids removed as a kid and it seemed to have caused tinnitus. And my hearing is still absolute garbage. But I can listen to music loud without worry, lol! I mean, I failed the hearing test in school anyway, after all that crap. Tinnitus is horrible. My boyfriend took years to truly understand that I need a fan on if I don't have any other noise to focus on. It's like having a static channel on a high pitched frequency constantly going in your head. I thought in high school I was slowly going crazy. Until I put all the pieces together.
Unless you're deaf or hard of hearing and you experience music mostly through vibration
I've had tinnitus since about age 14. Didn't listen to loud music (until later in college, which probably made it worse), Didn't hang out in noisy environments. No idea how I got it. It's much worse at night when there is less background noise to mask it.
I've had tinnitus since I was about 15. Did not listen to loud music. Did not stay in noisy environments. Have no idea how I got it. Thought I was going insane back then. At night it's particularly bad because there is less background noise.
Speaking as someone with tinnitus, I've had it since I was a kid but I'm sure the many concerts I attended (with no ear protection) as a teenager did not help the condition. Now it's far worse than it was when I was younger. Forget that stupid phrase "if it's too loud, you're too old!" I'd rather be old and have my hearing than be young and have massive hearing loss thanks to my own stupidity!
Someone I work with listens to loud music. I have to scream at her for her to hear me.
That's a fact. There's no way to even explain the constant sound of electronic feedback screaming at me 100% of the time that interferes with music, TV, movies, conversations with loved ones, birds chirping, and literally everything else I want to hear. It's truly maddening.
I wouldn't wish this on anyone. It drives me insane. Mine comes from a sinus infection
My mom has had tinnitus since she was young. They still don't know what's causing it 🤷🏼♀️
One of the few times I would have my music fairly loud was when I would get a migraine while on public transit. It sounds odd to listen to loud music with a migraine but it would help. No matter what sounds were going to hurt. But having something that was a very consistent volume was less painful than sudden bursts of loud noises. On the bus and train, especially near where I lived, there was always someone who would start yelling or kids/babies that would scream. Each volume spike felt like a gunshot to the head.
I struggle with this myself because I really like to hear my music in my ears I want to feel it The only way to do that to have it loud in my ears I'm working on it though. Thanks for the info I will take head to it.
My husband has Tinnitus from not wearing ear plugs while working construction. And I have it from not wearing ear protection while firing guns. Wear your ear protection!!!!!
I have an autoimmune disorder called Meniere's Syndrome that causes a constant whooshing sound in my left ear and chronic vertigo. It's bad enough having it in one ear; it can happen to both ears. People who are unfortunate enough to get it in both ears have been known to commit suicide because the noise can be so utterly overwhelming, not to mention how debilitating the vertigo is.
I'm 40yrs & I'm 40% deaf in my right ear and 60% deaf in my left ear. Just got hearing aids. Concerts/shows was absolutely the cause.
I have slight tinnitus, but I think its caused by mixture of things.. music festivals, driving loud vehicles, shooting guns with bad ear protection, using loud tools.. luckily if I have background noise then my brain usually some way "blocks" the ringing, but instantly after I think about it like reading this the ringing becomes pretty loud.
Nor will you like hearing loss. Hearing aids don't restore your hearing, they only amplify sound. Cheap ones amplify everything. Seriously, you will be very sad that you didn't listen to warnings when you still had your hearing.
If you start feeling tempted to turn the volume up, take a 10 minute break instead. When you put your earphones back on, it will sound louder.
When I got Tinnitus, life suddenly changed and has never been the same.
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The buses are more louder, especially those screechy fareboxes.
Wish the people playing music on external car speakers would turn it down
Got it through a burst Aneurysm and major brain surgery. Loud music makes it dissapear
Around any body of water:
- Feet first first time - never dive unless you know how deep the water is.
- Drowning looks like climbing a ladder, and it's silent.
- If you get into a dangerous current swim perpendicular to it.
- If you're in water over your head, or in a dangerous current, flip, float, and follow.
In these cold times. Don’t drive wearing anything you couldn’t walk a half mile in.
NEVER mix cleaning products.
And NEVER EVER store cleaning products, or garage products, in "re-purposed" food packages. You don't want to her someone say "urgh, this lemonade tastes weird". (at least not for the reason it being nail polish remover)
The really bad people who want to do really bad things look for weakness. They test and probe.
It's awful that the best we can hope for is that we avoid what some other person might be victimized with. But that's nature.
Pay attention to your surroundings. Watch to see if anyone is watching you. Any stranger that offers you something or has a question that doesn't feel right, that's the moment to keep yourself vigilant. Don't put on a false front, but don't be weak. Have good body posture. Speak clearly. Use short simple statements, and be rude if you have to. No thanks, I'm good, or firmer if you think it's necessary.
Don't let anyone stop you from walking.
No is a full sentence.
If they get physical, f**k, if they even touch you, scream and yell and don't let them get you away from the public area, away from light and people. We often have the impulse to not make a scene- f**k that. Make the biggest fuss you've ever made.
Learn to listen to your instincts and intuition. They aren't always right, so you should evaluate them, and then proceed.
I still feel bad for that on person in Monastir back then. Maybe he just tries to sell us overpriced bracelet to make a living. But on the other hand, never ever touch strangers without their permission.
Never plug in space heaters to power strips! ALWAYS plug them directly into wall outlets. This is one of the most common fire starters in home fires.
if your being followed (Car or walking) dont go home, rather head toward the nearest police station and park/sit there for a bit.
also craigslist deals can be done in police parking lots, it can be a bit awkward asking someone to meet there to sell you their old ps4 but if they are honest then they will have no reason not to.
Uniforms (especially of high function, such as doctors, fireman, army...) can trick your mind. Just because someone wear one doesn't mean they are kind and safe, and can't hurt you. Even if it's a real one or during work hour/on duty.
Oh I have a really good one. In the event of a disaster, such as earthquake or flood, The drinking water system frequently becomes contaminated.
Therefore you need to shut off the intake valve to your water heater.
Then your water heater becomes an emergency drinking water tank.
When boiling a pot of water, turn the handle inwards towards the center of the stove / counter. That way somebody (especially a kid) won’t come by and knock it over or grab it and pull it over on themselves.
Never take a sleeping pill and a laxative at the same time.
Sharp tools are safer and easier to control than dull ones. This goes for basically anything with a blade, whether it’s a saw blade, utility knife, chisel, or simple kitchen knife. You’re more likely to slip, lose control, or kickback with a dull blade.
Sharp knives don't slip off food. Keep your fingers in proper cutting positions
If you have been on the fence for a while about being too cold to continue, in a backcountry situation, you are already too cold. Immediately make emergency efforts to get warm. Being hypothermic severely clouds your judgement.
If you get bitten by an animal that you even think is rabid get vaccinated RIGHT AWAY.
Rabies is a brutal way to go out and if you miss your window there’s not much nothing that can be done.
This one I'd change a little bit, to if you get bitten or scratched by animal you can't prove doesn't have rabies (can't catch it or don't want to kill it) just get a vaccine (unless it's a neighbor's dog/cat with fully up to date vaccinations). And be aware that for example hedgehogs use their saliva against parasites by spreading it on their spikes, which mean that if you grab it (take it away from road for example) you can already get infected. Luckily it's rare in parts of the world, but it's way better to take the vaccine than to go out with rabies. Except for anti vaxers I guess...
Walk against traffic so you can see what’s coming, not with your back to it!
But if you walk on a road that has curves, I'd advise to walk on the side of the road that has traffic coming from behind you; a driver going into a curve will see you too late if you're walking against traffic (becasue they can't see around a curve). Someone coming from behind you will have to slow down until you pass the curve. At least, I'm convinced this is the case :')
Do NOT put objects in the driver's foot space. Even things as small as a tennis ball. It's very unsafe for the driver.
You're more likely to be attacked in a transitional space. Going into and out of buildings, cars, and especially between the two. You let your guard down because you're thinking about what you're going to do when you get there, not what you're doing right now, and not what's going on around you. Stay alert, stay safe.
F.A.S.T. For strokes.
F = Face Drooping – Does one side of the face droop or is it numb? Ask the person to smile. Is the person's smile uneven?
A = Arm Weakness – Is one arm weak or numb? Ask the person to raise both arms. Does one arm drift downward?
S = Speech Difficulty – Is speech slurred?
T = Time to call 911
Check and clean out the lint collector in your dryer regularly.
Just clean it out every time you use it. Make it a habit. Then it's a no-brainer.
There's a principal in safety called Heinrich's Pyramid, and while the precise numbers are open for debate, the general principal is that after a certain number of unsafe acts you will have a serious injury or fatality. This is typically used for workplace safety, but the point is, every time you decide that you don't need that piece of safety equipment, or you can skip that one step even though the book says to do it, you're ticking down the clock until a serious accident happens. In Heinrich's original, he posited that for each serious accident (major injury/fatality), there would be about 30 accidents with minor injury, and 300 unsafe acts. So eliminate those minor unsafe acts, shortcuts etc, and significantly reduce or eliminate the corresponding number of serious accidents.
No matter how cute the wild animal is...don't approach it! It's NOT worth it!
Please leave wild animals alone. Forget the f*****g selfie and just stand back and simply look at them. If you HAVE to take a picture, stand back at a safe distance and use your zoom function. Also, don’t try to be a hero and “save” a baby wild animal. You do not know what the hell you’re doing—-and may be doing way more harm than good. If you see a baby animal in obvious distress, call the park rangers if in a national park, or whatever relevant professionals apply. Then wait for them. Try to keep predators at bay if you can until the pros arrive, especially if the baby is from an endangered species, but don’t risk your life trying to keep a bear or mountain lion at bay. It may be distressing, but Nature can sometimes be cruel to the small and weak.
If you have a skin mole that has blurry edges, isn't symmetrical, is a weird shade of red, weeps fluids, or acts like an open wound that won't heal, you might have skin cancer. Go to a doctor IMMEDIATELY. Melanoma kills fast.
If your child goes missing in your home, first check any spots that would be dangerous for them to be (near water heaters, sump pumps etc…) then check their common hiding spots.
My daughter went missing in our home when she was still just on all fours. I eventually found her sound asleep on the floor, in the far corner under her crib, rolled up in her blankie. She wanted her nap, so she took it on herself to get it. To this day I wish I had had a camera.
If you're confronted, it's far better to run away if at all possible rather than try to fight your attacker. Even if you think you are a badass.
And it's always better to avoid it / move out of the way, and not be macho and stand your ground. You can't fight someone high on drugs for example. They will not feel a lot of pain even if you hit them in head first, on the other side, they won't stop once you get in confrontation, it's not like they won't jump on your head when you're laying on the ground.
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One I read recently: honest people are generally happy to provide verification and eager to build trust. It's dishonest people who get resentful and offended: "What, don't you trust me?" and "Why are you so suspicious?"
You just described my abusive ex-husband to a T. His second and third wives said the same thing that I just did after putting up with him for a time.
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A lot of trouble in life can be avoided by simply thinking for a moment before making decisions. Much of these are common sense that everyone would agree with, but still, people make rash decisions that cost them.
Too many people just aren't "aware" (as I like to put it) and go through life on auto pilot.
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Another good one: Don't eat wild plants or fungi unless you are prepared to die if you are wrong about the identification. There are things that look like carrots, onions, and edible berries and mushrooms that can kill you with a **very** small dose. And don't go by photos in little "edible plant" guidebooks. They will show you edible plants, not the dozens of potentially lethal look-alikes.
If you think you might have to eat plants to survive, get a field guide to edible plants in your region. There is a process to test plants to see if it's edible. Do not do this with fungus. Mushrooms can kill you very quickly and there's no good way to test.
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There are two main rules I follow when I'm driving in winter conditions. The first is when I hit ice and start to slid I always tell myself "hands off, feet off." That means I take my hands off the steering wheel and my feet off any pedals. It's only for a split second but it stops you from overcorrecting or slamming on your breaks and fully losing control. It gives your brain a moment to think logically and safely handle the situation. The other one is the winter proverb "it's better to be driving too slowly and wishing you were going faster than to be going too fast and wishing you could go slower."
There's a Gavin De Becker book, "The gift of fear", that talks about trusting your gut. Also "Protecting the gift" about protecting your kids. Great read, highly recommend.
Having spent over 20 years as a zookeeper, I immediately noticed the posts about animals. If you have to go around the back of a horse (if you are already next to them), pass as close as you can to their backside. That way if they kick, there won't have as much momentum. With the advice about approaching wild animals, keep your distance. If the animal starts backing up, you have invaded it's " escape bubble" an animal that feels like it has no escape may panic and flatten you to get away (or charge- I think that we all remember the lady in Yellowstone who was VERY lucky to have only lost her pants) Also, I know that the prairie dogs are adorable, but don't try to feed them. They are technically rodents, and when rodents bite, they mean serious business. I have been bitten by rodents at work over the years (not prairie dogs), but it can go through the acreage leather work glove- very ouchy!
I'm nearly 70, have spinal arthritis, walk with the assistance of a cane, have had two serious/major injuries that pretty much wrecked my entire right side, and am overweight (due to not being able to get out and exercise). While I live alone, and drive my car without difficulty, do all my own errands without help, I know the one weapon I always have at hand, should anyone be stupid enough to come for the fat old woman, is my quad cane. It's very strong, and I'm not afraid to pick it up with both hands and swing it hard, as if I want to get a homerun. I might die in the fight, but I won't go down without one! Of course, I do practice safety constantly, including doing all my errands in daylight hours, having my fully charged phone on me at all times, parking where I can see everything around me, and within site of at least the entrance of whatever building I'm going into. Also, I never, ever shop or go out at night unless I have an adult male whom I trust with me.
There are a lot of people who have no idea what's going on around them.
Trust your gut. If something feels off it is. Don't be scared to just run
Most of these tips are hardly useful more likr common sense which i guess isn't all that common
So much of it isn't. Like, you'd like to think "don't touch wild animals" is obvious. It's not. Some people are really sheltered and dumb. And a lot just don't think, such as thinking to be more alert when in transitional spaces or to do basic things to prevent muggings.
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One I read recently: honest people are generally happy to provide verification and eager to build trust. It's dishonest people who get resentful and offended: "What, don't you trust me?" and "Why are you so suspicious?"
You just described my abusive ex-husband to a T. His second and third wives said the same thing that I just did after putting up with him for a time.
Load More Replies... A lot of trouble in life can be avoided by simply thinking for a moment before making decisions. Much of these are common sense that everyone would agree with, but still, people make rash decisions that cost them.
Too many people just aren't "aware" (as I like to put it) and go through life on auto pilot.
Load More Replies... Another good one: Don't eat wild plants or fungi unless you are prepared to die if you are wrong about the identification. There are things that look like carrots, onions, and edible berries and mushrooms that can kill you with a **very** small dose. And don't go by photos in little "edible plant" guidebooks. They will show you edible plants, not the dozens of potentially lethal look-alikes.
If you think you might have to eat plants to survive, get a field guide to edible plants in your region. There is a process to test plants to see if it's edible. Do not do this with fungus. Mushrooms can kill you very quickly and there's no good way to test.
Load More Replies... There are two main rules I follow when I'm driving in winter conditions. The first is when I hit ice and start to slid I always tell myself "hands off, feet off." That means I take my hands off the steering wheel and my feet off any pedals. It's only for a split second but it stops you from overcorrecting or slamming on your breaks and fully losing control. It gives your brain a moment to think logically and safely handle the situation. The other one is the winter proverb "it's better to be driving too slowly and wishing you were going faster than to be going too fast and wishing you could go slower."
There's a Gavin De Becker book, "The gift of fear", that talks about trusting your gut. Also "Protecting the gift" about protecting your kids. Great read, highly recommend.
Having spent over 20 years as a zookeeper, I immediately noticed the posts about animals. If you have to go around the back of a horse (if you are already next to them), pass as close as you can to their backside. That way if they kick, there won't have as much momentum. With the advice about approaching wild animals, keep your distance. If the animal starts backing up, you have invaded it's " escape bubble" an animal that feels like it has no escape may panic and flatten you to get away (or charge- I think that we all remember the lady in Yellowstone who was VERY lucky to have only lost her pants) Also, I know that the prairie dogs are adorable, but don't try to feed them. They are technically rodents, and when rodents bite, they mean serious business. I have been bitten by rodents at work over the years (not prairie dogs), but it can go through the acreage leather work glove- very ouchy!
I'm nearly 70, have spinal arthritis, walk with the assistance of a cane, have had two serious/major injuries that pretty much wrecked my entire right side, and am overweight (due to not being able to get out and exercise). While I live alone, and drive my car without difficulty, do all my own errands without help, I know the one weapon I always have at hand, should anyone be stupid enough to come for the fat old woman, is my quad cane. It's very strong, and I'm not afraid to pick it up with both hands and swing it hard, as if I want to get a homerun. I might die in the fight, but I won't go down without one! Of course, I do practice safety constantly, including doing all my errands in daylight hours, having my fully charged phone on me at all times, parking where I can see everything around me, and within site of at least the entrance of whatever building I'm going into. Also, I never, ever shop or go out at night unless I have an adult male whom I trust with me.
There are a lot of people who have no idea what's going on around them.
Trust your gut. If something feels off it is. Don't be scared to just run
Most of these tips are hardly useful more likr common sense which i guess isn't all that common
So much of it isn't. Like, you'd like to think "don't touch wild animals" is obvious. It's not. Some people are really sheltered and dumb. And a lot just don't think, such as thinking to be more alert when in transitional spaces or to do basic things to prevent muggings.
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