The universe hates us equally. (I hope.) Even the people who see the glass half-full have bad days. But sometimes it's easy to forget that. Our own problems seem the biggest. So what do you say we give ourselves a healthy reminder?
Those who have been around our website for long enough might remember that Bored Panda has a soft spot for life's unlucky moments. But not to kick someone while they're down, of course. Rather, to gain perspective and reassure ourselves that nobody has conspired against us and it's completely normal to lose it every once in a while.
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His Face Says It All
My Dad Left His Window Down In His Truck While He Stepped Away For A Few Minutes And A Feral Cat Got In And Ate All Of His Tacos
As you can see (and know), mistakes happen and things don't work out as they should. But former clinical psychologist and researcher turned writer Alice Boyes, Ph.D., thinks we can learn to roll with the punches.
"Don't expect life to go smoothly," Boyes wrote in Psychology Today. "If we reserve a hotel room, we expect it will be available when we arrive. We expect clean water to come out of the tap. We expect that if we buy a product and it's faulty or not as described, we'll be able to return it. We expect the product we order will be the product that arrives and not some other random item."
"But the more you think of discomfort (of all kinds) as something to be expected periodically, the easier it can be to handle when it arises," she explained. "It's helpful to think of these experiences as universal rather than personalizing them."
Just Trying To Ride A Bike Near A Nesting Magpie
For A Month, I Thought I Lost My Wedding Ring On A Cross Country Road Trip. Finally, I Gave Up Ever Seeing It Again When We Realized It Was Under My Husband's Deodorant
I called gas stations, pawn shops, searched lost and found posts.
Just Bought Our Dream Home Less Than 2 Months Ago. Tonight I Watched It Burn To The Ground In A Massive Wildfire
"We often criticize ourselves that we should be able to handle blips, frustrations, disappointments, sadness, etc., better. You might think, 'Other people wouldn't be rocked by this. Other people would take this in stride.' Self-compassion skills should help a great deal if you're doing this type of criticism," Boyes said.
Also, try to understand what pushes your buttons. It can be really helpful to identify that not every piece of bad news or every inconvenience rattles you greatly, but just specific types.
Got Off The Train At The Wrong Station. Now I'm In The Middle Of Nowhere Without Food, It's Raining, It's Cold, I'm Hungry And Next Train Is In 7 Hours
Many many years ago, when I was studying in England, I went to Nottingham to visit a friend of mine for the weekend. When it was time to return to Coventry, I went to the bus station and they announced the departure for "Covent Green" in London. It was late, I was tired and I misheard. Guess who won a free trip to London! (which was twice the distance from Coventry :/)
Puppy Accidentally Ate A Bee. Everything Turned Out Fine
Here Is My Favorite Picture Of My Grandma. She Was Having A Hard Time With The Mixer
However, don't attempt to predict further bad news. "When unexpected issues come up, don't automatically [assume] they'll be difficult to address," Boyes said. "Don't expect a string of bad luck, e.g., 'bad luck comes in threes.'"
And as cliché as it sounds, problems can be opportunities. So when you end up in one, ask what you can learn from it. "Consider your strengths. Cars might be foreign to me, but in general, getting things done and not getting ripped off are strengths for me," Boyes said. "You can also consider your weaknesses. I'm not great at asking for help because I'm socially anxious. This was an opportunity to overcome that and ask my neighbor for help (although, to be honest, it was my spouse who asked)."
Yes, bad news sucks. But we still have to cope with it.
First Time Trying To Grow Carrots From Seeds. 6 Months Later
Learn From My Mistakes
yes both me and my uncle have done this and had the bruising 😣
Welp. There Goes Her New Bed
That Smile Though
Guess It's Toast For Breakfast Today
A Moose Broke Through A Window And Entered A School In Saskatoon Today
4 Days After Moving To Chicago
My Commute Is 45 Minutes. Just Pulled Up To The Office, Reached For My Bags And
This Flooded Parking Garage, Containing Roughly 150 Cars
Student Handed This In Today
I had to write a letter stating that my oldest son's project will not be in on due date because the day before his little brother assumed that it is an unfinished art project which he can finish on his brother's behalf....
Walked To Work In A Thunderstorm, But My Boss Forgot To Tell Me We All Have Today Off
It's Always A Pleasure To Realize That Your Coworkers Don't Know How To Close A Box Properly. Right When You're Ready To Go Home
Now you kick it on the ground and leave the mess for the one that didn't close it properly.
How Does This Happen?
Just Got Stung By A Wasp And I Have A Job Interview Later Today… Can’t Even Talk Right
6 College Bros And One Brain Cell Between All Of Us
Doordashed Food And In The 5 Minutes It Took Me To Get To The Door, The Neighbor's Cat Ate Through The Box And Stole Some Chicken
Family Vacation To The Grand Canyon. What A View
Are You Kidding Me?
He Picked A Bad Day To Block The Fire Hydrant
I Heard Gunshots Outside Right Before Heading To Work, I Waited About 10 Minutes Before I Went Out To My Car And Found This. Glad I Wasn’t In The Car
My Grandma’s Lunch At Her New Senior Living Residence That’s $3k A Month. Wtf Is This?
Residents can’t go to the dining room to eat because they don’t have enough staff so it’s deliveries only.
I would shout that place down OMFG. Then grab granny and take her out to lunch (if possible) or order some food .... This is so wrong.
If they’re delivering food to each room because of staffing issues, that’s a HUGE red flag. Elderly people, especially those in care facilities, are at a big risk of choking. They should not be eating alone!!
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The kicker is that dyed singular cauliflower or whatever it is. What an insult!
You don't have to accept this. Threaten them with a court case and public exposure.
Unfortunately empty threats like this do not work. A lot of people can't afford a lawyer. These places know this and that's why they get away with it. Sad stuff for people who don't have a lot of money.
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Every single one of these places; retirement homes and nursing homes needs to be heavily investigated. They all do this and it's awful!
I agree. My mom was in a place like this for her end stage COPD, along with hospice care for comfort. On three separate occasions, I found the buzzer to ring a nurse had been disabled.
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I've been an RN for 12 years, and I can tell you that's been what I've witnessed in every nursing home I've ever worked in. It's sad, and it's like no one seems to care.
The chef needs to have a "come to Jesus" meeting with the food service staff.
Would it, are you sure? Even if correct there are controls and checks on these places, always being closed down.
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That is the saddest piece of broccoli I have ever seen. I mean the whole meal is just sad. A styrofoam plate of disappointment.
If this is the US, they may have also charged an absolutely shocking amount as a non-refundable move-in fee along with the thousands in monthly rent. These places simply need more oversight.
This is what happens when care is run for profit. I'm so sorry you have to go through this. I'm not sure what country you are in. In the UK CQC are the governing body of all care homes, you can send them evidence of your concerns and voice your concerns to them. They hold the power to impose changes and even close care homes down. It would be worth looking into these options. Hope thar helps.
Something about "slippery pot pie" makes me really uncomfortable lol
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$750 per week includes nursing staff and 24/7 assistance. Rent, cleaning, meals and laundry. Medication on top.
Move her right away, after this lackadaisical on serving food, can you imagine what they’re doing concerning her health care!
That is straight-up evil. Use the money to build an addition for her in your home and show some respect to your mother!
Yeah, most senior living/assistance centers are bullshit anyway. My grandma doesn't even have the strength to walk to the bathroom or get food for herself but they still say she's good to live on her own. I only wish we could just pay to get her into a facility but it doesn't work like that here.
Restricted diet? I'm diabetic, food options don't always look great unless I prepare my own meals.
Think they need a Royal Commission into Aged Care or similar like Australia just under went.
Send to your local newspaper and tv station. They love stories like this and can often help.
In New Zealand we have Age Concern and Advocates for Seniors. Any complaints..,they look into it and act on your behalf.
I’m not sure when this was posted,- but PLEASE punch those lunch fukkers in the throat,- absolutely no excuse for this to be on anyone’s lunch,- paying to live, homeless,- or a stray cat,, Not Acceptable,,,
I have seen worse. They serve meat that was so tough it could not be cut.
A lot of those assisted living places are basically just scams. Not all though, from what I here.
I would take it to the Manager/Owner of this place and force them to eat that.. then put it on youtube.
is that cauliflower (brocolli) f*****g BLUE?! nvm the portion of what looks like something already eaten. jesus f*****g christ, I swear prisoners get treated better than the elderly these days...
Same as Canada, the ones that are retirement homes that look like hotels would charge more than 3grand,
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I Wore A Mesh Hat On A 30 Mile Hike. Feeling Like Aang Today
So I Had A Sneezing Fit While Driving Yesterday
Well
So Finally After A Year I Was Able To Get A Ps5. My Dog Was Excited Too
I Got Stuck Behind A Draw Bridge Today. And So Did An Ambulance
Both Things Happened To Me Today
This Kid Dropping Pizza
Just Took This Little Guy A Bath 20 Minutes Ago
First Halloween In My New Neighborhood And Didn’t Get A Single Trick Or Treater
the trick or treaters loss cuz they didn't get candy. nice decors btw
Toddler Learned How To Use The Microwave
Apparently Someone Has Been Munching My Donuts And It Was Supposed To Be For My Kids After Work
Owner Used The Wrong Shampoo (It's Hair Dye)
Why would you shampoo so close to the dog's eyes? Why wouldn't you stop the moment you see it's blue dye? That dog is perfectly coloured all over: I suggest this was intentional.
Thanks To Windows, I Never Saw My Card Again
My Back Veranda After The Neighbour Next Door, With Which I Share A Septic System, Flushed Paper Towels Down Their Toilet
Someone Parked Underground With Their Sunroof Open And A Pipe Burst Above Them
Yesterday I Asked A Homeless Man With A Sign "Hungry, Anything Helps" If He Wanted A Freshly Baked, Warm Bagel. Today At The Same Intersection Something Caught My Eye
At the time he was super thankful and nice, and I felt great about it as I drove off.
Most corner-dwelling sign holders are not homeless or desperate. Some of the ones in my city work in teams of two to six people, standing at all points of egress from a freeway or a business. They can make between $2000-$4000 a day from begging.
Woke Up Last Night To A Huge Crashing Sound Only To Find My Only Car Outside Completely Totaled By A Pos Driver. Nobody Else On The Road, 1 Am
Technically they are liable, but you will likely have to sue to get them to pay out. Its likely such a moron does not have insurance.
Some Non-Municipal Company Started Digging Up My And My Neighbor's Lawn With No Disclosure To Put Some Internet Service In, Broke All The Sprinkler Systems
Here in Ohio, US, you call 811 (or www.call811.com) a week or 2 before digging, they will send people out to mark all of underground stuff. Many companies won’t dig unless your yard is marked or that you can prove that they were out & didn’t find anything. And it’s free.
Someone Drilled A Hole In My Gas Tank. They Got Away With Roughly $12 Worth Of Fuel
I Was Stung Twice, Once On My Forehead And Once On The Top Of My Ear
My Dad’s Phone. Left It To Charge Overnight, Woke Up And Saw This
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Today I was hopping down the stairs on my right leg because I've hurt my knee on my left leg and I misstepped and sprained my ankle and both legs are stuffed and every step is painful. I also have a multi hour cadets thing that i have to be standing for on the weekend .
I had pretty bad week this year in February. I had covid and heating in my house stopped working. I couldn't fix it, no one else could go to my house, it was -20 °C outside. I had little portable heater, but it wasn't enough.
Hope things are better for you. Currently waiting for insurance adjuster because... well... my heater went out and my portable unit set fire to the electrical socket. Fortunately it's not -20°C! I applaud your stamina, friend. That's a rough temp to endure without heat.
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I sleepwalk when I’m stressed and ever since the start of covid I wake up at least twice a week outside or crammed in a tight space. ( my neighbor once woke me up when I fell asleep in her garden..)
We had a couple of bad months a year ago when pretty much every single appliance in the house broke… it started with the refrigerator, the same one that’s broken like six times before but unless it breaks three times in the exact same way the warranty doesn’t cover a replacement, just fixes it. This time it broke completely and wasn’t fixable, we ordered a new one but warranty compensation wasn’t working very smoothly so we had to pay out of pocket at first, fortunately they also paid for a rental (which had the same compensation headache), we put it in the garage because it was supposed to be only a month or so. And then it was delayed, and delayed, and delayed, and eventually we got a bigger rental and put it in the house, because apparently the new fridge wasn’t going to come for months. It was on the slow boat from China. And the US didn’t really like China at that point. And that whole clogged ports/Suez Canal/pandemic thing. So we didn’t get a new fridge for about six months.
During which time the toilet broke, we fixed it and it broke again, several printers broke, the other toilet broke, the vacuum broke a few times, the heater broke, I think the water heater broke too, the washing machine started leaking once or twice, and I was placing my bets on the kitchen sink going next. (Of course it’s still holding on while everything else collapses.) Oh, and to top it all off, our septic tank started leaching into our chicken coop. Not fun. But the best part is, it just started up again, and this time it’s not leaking slowly, it’s bubbling up and we think there’s actually a broken pipe underground. Oh, and our grill broke. So I wouldn’t say it’s been a bad day, but fall has not been a good season for our house.
Load More Replies... Today I was hopping down the stairs on my right leg because I've hurt my knee on my left leg and I misstepped and sprained my ankle and both legs are stuffed and every step is painful. I also have a multi hour cadets thing that i have to be standing for on the weekend .
I had pretty bad week this year in February. I had covid and heating in my house stopped working. I couldn't fix it, no one else could go to my house, it was -20 °C outside. I had little portable heater, but it wasn't enough.
Hope things are better for you. Currently waiting for insurance adjuster because... well... my heater went out and my portable unit set fire to the electrical socket. Fortunately it's not -20°C! I applaud your stamina, friend. That's a rough temp to endure without heat.
Load More Replies... I sleepwalk when I’m stressed and ever since the start of covid I wake up at least twice a week outside or crammed in a tight space. ( my neighbor once woke me up when I fell asleep in her garden..)
We had a couple of bad months a year ago when pretty much every single appliance in the house broke… it started with the refrigerator, the same one that’s broken like six times before but unless it breaks three times in the exact same way the warranty doesn’t cover a replacement, just fixes it. This time it broke completely and wasn’t fixable, we ordered a new one but warranty compensation wasn’t working very smoothly so we had to pay out of pocket at first, fortunately they also paid for a rental (which had the same compensation headache), we put it in the garage because it was supposed to be only a month or so. And then it was delayed, and delayed, and delayed, and eventually we got a bigger rental and put it in the house, because apparently the new fridge wasn’t going to come for months. It was on the slow boat from China. And the US didn’t really like China at that point. And that whole clogged ports/Suez Canal/pandemic thing. So we didn’t get a new fridge for about six months.
During which time the toilet broke, we fixed it and it broke again, several printers broke, the other toilet broke, the vacuum broke a few times, the heater broke, I think the water heater broke too, the washing machine started leaking once or twice, and I was placing my bets on the kitchen sink going next. (Of course it’s still holding on while everything else collapses.) Oh, and to top it all off, our septic tank started leaching into our chicken coop. Not fun. But the best part is, it just started up again, and this time it’s not leaking slowly, it’s bubbling up and we think there’s actually a broken pipe underground. Oh, and our grill broke. So I wouldn’t say it’s been a bad day, but fall has not been a good season for our house.
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