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Guy Shares What It's Like Living With 27 Moms And 150 Siblings

Our home planet is important, but I'm more concerned with the fact he was the one with so many wives, but were they free to have multiple husbands as well?

30 Times Friendships Ended Because People Realized They Were Fake, Shared By Folks Online

This happens like 90% of the time in that situation.

Guy Shares What It's Like Living With 27 Moms And 150 Siblings

Our home planet is important, but I'm more concerned with the fact he was the one with so many wives, but were they free to have multiple husbands as well?

30 Times Friendships Ended Because People Realized They Were Fake, Shared By Folks Online

This happens like 90% of the time in that situation.

Guy Shares What It's Like Living With 27 Moms And 150 Siblings

In the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints (main stream Mormons), we are taught that there are many souls in heaven waiting to come to earth and that is why some of us have lots of children, We are also taught that the earth has all the resources we will need and we are taught to be good stewards of all we are given. As for most polygamist sects, it is a case of "power" & "control". In the history of the LDS church polygamy was practiced as a way to take care of the widows (I'm responsible for taking care of my brothers wife if he passes), it was not about multiple sexual partners.

30 Times Friendships Ended Because People Realized They Were Fake, Shared By Folks Online

Find friends that appreciate you. Those are using you for laughs. Cruel and then some.

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Shortly realized after quitting cocaine that a majority of my "friends" only kept me around so they could feel better about their own cocaine habits. I was heavily addicted and setting myself down a path I never once thought I could or would take. Stopped for my own benefit and health, and was treated like a selfish piece of s*** for doing so. The next months ensued and not one of them checked in to see how I was doing, but instead my high school best friend started sleeping with my ex highschool girlfriend (I was with her for 5 years and actually thought I was going to marry her at one point) who dumped me for doing cocaine and is now an honorary member of the group I was cast out of. Replaced with the person who partially fueled my substance abuse, who dumped me for substance abuse, by the group that didn't like me stopping my substance abuse, so they could all abuse substances together. It's now been over a year since I quit, and honestly couldnt be happier. Got rid of a cocaine addiction and about 1000lbs of dead weight. But it was an eye opener to say the least.

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They would invite each other to places in front of me and not include me in the slightest. When I ditched them they didn't know how to take it, lol.

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When you try to open up and try to share a genuine conversation about something going on in your life and all they can do it crack jokes and try to get you to go out drinking with them. Made me realize how surface level many “friendships” really are. Then you have the opposite of that - 3 guys I’ve known since I was a freshman in high school. Been friends for over 15 years. Have stayed in touch through all of us getting married, having kids, and moving to completely separate areas or the country. Yet whenever we’re within an hour of each other we always make a point to get breakfast and catch up (this usually turns into 3+ hour conversations). This may only happen once or twice a year, but I consider those guys my best friends. That’s real friendship and I’m fortunate to have them.

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Happened to me on my 21st birthday- all my "friends" made up excuses why they couldn't come. Then the 3 friends that did met some guys and we went back to their house and awkwardly sat around. Happened again for my 25th birthday- I had moved across the country and found new friends, but they all bailed at the last minute. I called my roommate at the time who came out when he got off work, and he called some of his friends who came out and I had the best night ever. Those guys are now my real friends, and I married that roommate

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Once high school ended, I heard about all the rumors they made up about me.

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After my divorce. We were couples friends not individually.

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I wouldn't say I have fake friends but I am definitely the periphery friend. The majority of the time if there isn't enough tickets or space in the car for everyone to go do something, I'm the one who gets cut out. It doesn't bother me much but I wish they would be more mindful when talking to me about "things we have done." "Remember when we went to see XXX? Wasn't that fun?" Well, no because I wasn't invited. In those situations it usually gets awkward or they say "Hey, we would have invited you if we had the tickets, space, etc."

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I was invited to the bachelorette party for one of the friends in this group. While at the party, I figured out that I was the only person not invited to the wedding. I had been invited to the party because they needed another person to chip in for expenses.