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Do Not Post Group Pics Unless Everyone Approves
Do not post group pictures on social media with friends unless everyone involved knows & approves of said pic.
Everyone Is Friends In The Bar Bathroom
Everyone is friends in the bar bathroom after 11, no matter what.
Carry Some Extra Pain Killers
Also added to sanitary products, pain killers!! If you got em handy, help a b***h out!
Once You Have Any Sort Of Link To A Guy, He’s Off-Limits To All Friends
Stupid or not, the original Girl Code is that once you have any sort of sexual/romantic link to a guy (even just saying you like him) he is 100% off-limits to all friends. (This rule is more nuanced when the object of desire is another woman.)
Always Wait To Be Confided In
There is an almost imperceptible line between intrusive prurience and interest in the sex lives of your friends that's defined by their inclination to share rather than you inquiring or making insinuations. Many friends will discuss sex candidly, others will use discretion, and some will resent the intrusion; always wait to be confided in rather than commit an indiscretion. There are weird assumptions about the 'sisterhood' that we talk about penis sizes etc without reserve. This is untrue.
If Someone’s Being Harassed, You Link Up And Walk With Them
If their strap is twisted, untwist it. Always carry extra feminine products, and extra hair Ties. And if she’s being harassed, you just link up and walk with her, no questions asked. Also, my daughters have a literal code... if they ever text me the secret code, I will drop everything I’m doing and call them immediately, make up a major crisis and demand to come get them immediately. Make it 100% my fault, but give them an immediate out to any situation they don’t feel able to simply walk away from.
You Always Pretend To Know Each Other When A Guy Is Being A Jerk
You always pretend that you know each other when a guy is being a jerk and you (or they) need a way out of a conversation.
Keep An Eye On Other Girls’ Drinks When You’re At The Bar
My personal unspoken rule is keep an eye on other girls drinks when you are at the bar. Even if I don't know them. I have asked random strangers to keep an eye on mine and they are always like, "GIRL YES we have to look out for each other!"
Tell Her When You See Him Cheating
Tell her when you see him cheating, snap a pic for proof if you can. I've lost friends for this but I'll still do it every time.
“Human Wall” A Girl If The Only Option Is To Pee In Public
Human wall any girl if the only option is to pee in public
Protect Each Other
- Protect each other. Don't care if it's your sister or a complete stranger. - text your friends to check if they got home safe - stay with them while their uber or taxi etc comes - Check over that message she is going to send to the guy she likes to see if it sounds okay. Some communications require a group effort - Sanitary items to all vaginal having humans who need.
If It Can Be Fixed In 5 Minutes Or Less, Tell Her; If It Can’t, Then There’s No Need To Say Anything
The 5-minute rule. If it can be fixed in 5 minutes or less tell her! If it can't (bloat situation etc..) then there's no need to say anything because it will literally only make her feel bad.
No Woman Gets Left Behind At The Club
No women left behind at the club. You look out for and take care of your girls and don’t let random men drag them away without their explicit permission.
If She’s Dating An Abuser, Make Sure She Knows She’s Welcome Anytime
If she's dating a known abuser, take turns getting her out of the house. Play cards, shop for shoes, ask her to help you lay out the garden, make pie. Never broach the subject yourself - just make sure she knows she's welcome any time, day or night, with or without advance notice.
When You See “The Look,” You Step In
As far as I've ever seen, every girl knows 'the look'. 'The look' is a look a girl gets on her face when she is in a situation that she doesn't want to be in, it's part 'help me' and part 'get me out of here'. When you see this look, you step in. Doesn't matter if you know the girl or not.
If You Walk Into The Bathroom And Someone’s Being Quiet, You Do Your Business And Leave Quickly
If you walk into the bathroom and the girl in there is being quiet, you do your business and leave as quickly as you can. Girl is trying to poop!
If Someone Says They Love Something You’re Wearing, You Always Tell Them Where You Bought It From
This could be a trend across genders too but when a girl says they love something you are wearing you always tell her where you bought it and how much it was and ESPECIALLY if you got it for a discount.
When Your Friend Gets Back With Her Ex, You Support Her, But You Also Tell Her The Truth
If your friend gets back with her s***ty ex you always support your friend but you also tell her the truth and say if the relationship is toxic.
If Your Friend Starts To Puke, You Always Hold Her Hair Back
if friend drinks too much and starts to puke, always hold her hair back for her
If You See A Girl Doing Something She Might Regret The Next Day, You Go Over And Ask If She’s Okay
This one especially applies to college girls. If you're at a party and you see a girl doing something she might regret the next day due to drinking WAY too much, you go over there and make sure shes okay.
Always Give A Hair Tie If Someone Asks For It
if you're wearing a hair tie on your wrist and someone asks for a hair tie, you give it to them (and accept that you likely will never see it again)
If There’s Lipstick On Their Teeth, You Let Them Know Without Making A Huge Deal About It
Lipstick on their teeth, eyeliner in the corner of their eye, skirt tucked into pantyhose. You let them know without making a huge deal about it.
If You Get Breast Cancer, Let As Many People As Possible Feel Your Lump
If you get breast cancer, let as many people as possible feel your lump so they know what they are looking for! Before my mastectomy, my breast made a lot of new friends—early detection can mean the difference between life and death.
You Help Other Women Who Seem To Be In Trouble
You help other women who seem to be in trouble. When I was a teenager my mom and I went to Walmart to get groceries. We split up to save time and a man started stalking me through the aisles. I finally got out to a main area and saw a lady with two kids. Walked right up to her and stood as close as possible. She was confused but when I made a motion at the guy, she understood. She loudly thanked me for getting the milk and called me honey. Also referred to her son as my brother. Once the guy left she stayed with me until I saw my mom, and then stayed where she was until I got to my mom and motioned that I was okay. That lady deserves an award for helping me that day.
Always Give Out Feminine Hygiene Products If Needed
Always give each other tampons and pads when needed.
The Pic On The Left Was Exactly 3 Years Ago. When I Was The Best Man At My Buddy’s Wedding. I Was Close To 600 Lbs. Around 230 Lbs Now
Water Is The Way To Go. Always
Drink water instead of pretty much anything else. Except coffee. I'm not a monster.
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Always Wait To Be Confided In
There is an almost imperceptible line between intrusive prurience and interest in the sex lives of your friends that's defined by their inclination to share rather than you inquiring or making insinuations. Many friends will discuss sex candidly, others will use discretion, and some will resent the intrusion; always wait to be confided in rather than commit an indiscretion. There are weird assumptions about the 'sisterhood' that we talk about penis sizes etc without reserve. This is untrue.If It Can Be Fixed In 5 Minutes Or Less, Tell Her; If It Can’t, Then There’s No Need To Say Anything
The 5-minute rule. If it can be fixed in 5 minutes or less tell her! If it can't (bloat situation etc..) then there's no need to say anything because it will literally only make her feel bad.Once You Have Any Sort Of Link To A Guy, He’s Off-Limits To All Friends
Stupid or not, the original Girl Code is that once you have any sort of sexual/romantic link to a guy (even just saying you like him) he is 100% off-limits to all friends. (This rule is more nuanced when the object of desire is another woman.)Carry Some Extra Pain Killers
Also added to sanitary products, pain killers!! If you got em handy, help a b***h out!Always Give A Hair Tie If Someone Asks For It
if you're wearing a hair tie on your wrist and someone asks for a hair tie, you give it to them (and accept that you likely will never see it again)You Always Pretend To Know Each Other When A Guy Is Being A Jerk
You always pretend that you know each other when a guy is being a jerk and you (or they) need a way out of a conversation.If You See A Girl Doing Something She Might Regret The Next Day, You Go Over And Ask If She’s Okay
This one especially applies to college girls. If you're at a party and you see a girl doing something she might regret the next day due to drinking WAY too much, you go over there and make sure shes okay.If Your Friend Starts To Puke, You Always Hold Her Hair Back
if friend drinks too much and starts to puke, always hold her hair back for herWhen Your Friend Gets Back With Her Ex, You Support Her, But You Also Tell Her The Truth
If your friend gets back with her s***ty ex you always support your friend but you also tell her the truth and say if the relationship is toxic.“Human Wall” A Girl If The Only Option Is To Pee In Public
Human wall any girl if the only option is to pee in publicIf You Get Breast Cancer, Let As Many People As Possible Feel Your Lump
If you get breast cancer, let as many people as possible feel your lump so they know what they are looking for! Before my mastectomy, my breast made a lot of new friends—early detection can mean the difference between life and death.Protect Each Other
- Protect each other. Don't care if it's your sister or a complete stranger. - text your friends to check if they got home safe - stay with them while their uber or taxi etc comes - Check over that message she is going to send to the guy she likes to see if it sounds okay. Some communications require a group effort - Sanitary items to all vaginal having humans who need.If There’s Lipstick On Their Teeth, You Let Them Know Without Making A Huge Deal About It
Lipstick on their teeth, eyeliner in the corner of their eye, skirt tucked into pantyhose. You let them know without making a huge deal about it.If Someone Says They Love Something You’re Wearing, You Always Tell Them Where You Bought It From
This could be a trend across genders too but when a girl says they love something you are wearing you always tell her where you bought it and how much it was and ESPECIALLY if you got it for a discount.Everyone Is Friends In The Bar Bathroom
Everyone is friends in the bar bathroom after 11, no matter what.Tell Her When You See Him Cheating
Tell her when you see him cheating, snap a pic for proof if you can. I've lost friends for this but I'll still do it every time.This Panda hasn't followed anyone yet
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