Broken 55 y/f, disabled, losing her soulmate of 40 yrs, told me "I don't want to live in your world any more." No warning, no counseling, no hope of a 2nd chance. Looking at 25ish years of broken-hearted hopelessness. But I do have a garden, chickens, cats, dogs, and 2 disabled adult sons, so I'm not totally alone. Oh, and one grumpy gander, too. That's something, I guess.