Lycar Lodya
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I dont know what I'm doing, but its gonna be an adventure anyways.
Lycar Lodya • upvoted 18 items 1 year ago
Hey Pandas, What Fandom Have You Been A Part Of But Aren't Anymore? Why?
I used to be really into the Avatar fandom, and I mostly stopped because I got into the Five Nights at Freddy’s Fandom. I am unable to escape the FNAF fandom, I am trapped in the lore.Remarkable_Language8 reply
Because I love being alone, I love silence, I love being relaxed, I love having time for myself, I love spoiling myself, I love that nobody’s life depends on me. I’d rather have a dog than a child. Dogs are better than humans.threadersam reply
pros: -cute -see how your partner and you mix -naming it -dressing it up cons: -money drain -stress faucet -climate change -overpopulation -pressure to not f***k over the kid -sharing -consideration -giving birth (i could go on a whole rant about that but let’s not) -potential strain on relationship with s/o -some people shouldn’t be allowed to be parents, i am one of those people -daily expenses/upkeep -special expenses (christmas, birthday, etc) -too much responsibility -forced to grow up/be mature/a role model -screaming -crying -fluids from child (spit up, vomit, feces, urine, blood, etc) -potential problems with health and to be responsible/parent them -children being brats -birds and bees talk -stubborn, horrible, insufferable children defying you -being cucked by your own horrid creation (possibility your son becomes a misogynistic, racist incel or frat bro, possibility your daughter is too naïve and stupidly thinks it’s a good idea to get groomed) -maid them/clean after them -listen to things you don’t want to listen to -loud, noisy -rowdy basically if i had to raise myself, i wouldn’t.huggybear0132 reply
How much time ya got? I've spent most of my life living for other people's dreams. I finally have some financial independence and the ability to pursue my own ideas. Why would I give that up to serve another person for two decades? The world does not need more people. The carbon footprint of bringing a human into this world is enormous. Kids are f*****g expensive. I can't afford to do it right. I deal with depression and frankly don't know that I would be an excellent parent. I don't like to do things if I don't think I can excel at them, especially not something as serious as raising another human. My folks f****d me up because despite being amazing people they had no clue how to be parents. I don't want to do the same. My partner and I are perfectly happy with two dogs and a cat. I don't like most people because they are generally selfish, shortsighted, and shitty. Kids are just this to the maximum. I fear I would dislike my kids on top of resenting them. Having kids is extremely narcissistic. It's a desire to see yourself remade and perpetuate your impact on the world beyond your death. To do so despite what it costs the world is ultimately selfish. The world doesn't need more humans. Humans are a cancer on the natural world. The World. Doesn't. Need. More. Humans. I reiterate this last bit because the drive to reproduce manifests everywhere in human culture. Religion, mother-worship, &c. It's so deep in us that I feel like people need to hear it multiple times to actually understand: the world does not need more humans.
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Lycar Lodya • upvoted 18 items 1 year ago
Hey Pandas, What Fandom Have You Been A Part Of But Aren't Anymore? Why?
I used to be really into the Avatar fandom, and I mostly stopped because I got into the Five Nights at Freddy’s Fandom. I am unable to escape the FNAF fandom, I am trapped in the lore.Remarkable_Language8 reply
Because I love being alone, I love silence, I love being relaxed, I love having time for myself, I love spoiling myself, I love that nobody’s life depends on me. I’d rather have a dog than a child. Dogs are better than humans.threadersam reply
pros: -cute -see how your partner and you mix -naming it -dressing it up cons: -money drain -stress faucet -climate change -overpopulation -pressure to not f***k over the kid -sharing -consideration -giving birth (i could go on a whole rant about that but let’s not) -potential strain on relationship with s/o -some people shouldn’t be allowed to be parents, i am one of those people -daily expenses/upkeep -special expenses (christmas, birthday, etc) -too much responsibility -forced to grow up/be mature/a role model -screaming -crying -fluids from child (spit up, vomit, feces, urine, blood, etc) -potential problems with health and to be responsible/parent them -children being brats -birds and bees talk -stubborn, horrible, insufferable children defying you -being cucked by your own horrid creation (possibility your son becomes a misogynistic, racist incel or frat bro, possibility your daughter is too naïve and stupidly thinks it’s a good idea to get groomed) -maid them/clean after them -listen to things you don’t want to listen to -loud, noisy -rowdy basically if i had to raise myself, i wouldn’t.
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I am physically disabled with a genetic circulation condition. I don't want to pass my condition onto others, and the physical aspects of raising children would be too much strain on me.huggybear0132 reply
How much time ya got? I've spent most of my life living for other people's dreams. I finally have some financial independence and the ability to pursue my own ideas. Why would I give that up to serve another person for two decades? The world does not need more people. The carbon footprint of bringing a human into this world is enormous. Kids are f*****g expensive. I can't afford to do it right. I deal with depression and frankly don't know that I would be an excellent parent. I don't like to do things if I don't think I can excel at them, especially not something as serious as raising another human. My folks f****d me up because despite being amazing people they had no clue how to be parents. I don't want to do the same. My partner and I are perfectly happy with two dogs and a cat. I don't like most people because they are generally selfish, shortsighted, and shitty. Kids are just this to the maximum. I fear I would dislike my kids on top of resenting them. Having kids is extremely narcissistic. It's a desire to see yourself remade and perpetuate your impact on the world beyond your death. To do so despite what it costs the world is ultimately selfish. The world doesn't need more humans. Humans are a cancer on the natural world. The World. Doesn't. Need. More. Humans. I reiterate this last bit because the drive to reproduce manifests everywhere in human culture. Religion, mother-worship, &c. It's so deep in us that I feel like people need to hear it multiple times to actually understand: the world does not need more humans.This Panda hasn't followed anyone yet
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