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We’re constantly bombarded by messages that we should seize the day, live life to the fullest, and that we can do and be absolutely anything that we want. It’s either empowering or emotionally exhausting depending on your point of view. One of the problems that lie at the core of this ‘go-gettism’ philosophy is that there often isn’t much guidance behind the energetic urging to not waste a single moment more and embrace an adrenaline-filled, happy-go-lucky lifestyle.

That means that it’s up to every single person to try and figure out what they really want to do, whether it’s professionally or during their spare time. And that can lead to some very naive mistakes. Maybe you realized that bungee jumping really isn’t for you. Perhaps you learned the hard way that camping isn’t all that it’s cracked up to be if you don’t have a tiny Aragorn living inside your heart. Or maybe you got burned after trusting your colleagues too much.

Reddit users opened up about their worst experiences and mistakes in a brutally honest thread full of worldly wisdom. Scroll down for the anti-bucket list of things that people will never ever do again.

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30 People Share Their "Anti-Bucket" List Of Things They Would Never Do Again Work in a covid unit. It was worth it in the beginning when I felt like I was trying to rescue victims of an unknown enemy while risking my life to buy precious time for a game-changing miracle. However, parts of me have died over the last two years. The patients that come into my ER now days have turned up their noses at a vaccine that many have died in my presence waiting for. The ones dying of covid are shouting at me, hitting me, threatening me, and trying to pull the PPE off of my face because they don't think that covid is real. I've had to drive past protesters on my way home from a shift where I had to take an eight year old off of life support because her unvaccinated parents gave the virus to her. I don't even feel sad anymore when a patient passes because now I have a ventilator open for at least one of the next three patients circling the drain.

I'm tired of getting yelled at by antivaxers and their families. I'm tired of risking my life for people who won't do the bare minimum, like taking a jab, to live.

I've spent my life trying to help people, but no one is worth it anymore. You win. I'm done. I regret it all. Everything I ever stood for is dead. The only thing that matters to me is my dog. She will never understand why I never came home, but she has widespread cancer, so that won't be long either.

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jamie1707
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

He is not the only medical professional who feels that way. It's awful what these men and woman have gone through. I'm not a medico, but I volunteer at the hospital, I've seen how utterly exhausted these saints are.

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Leo Domitrix
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I could've written this, minus the dog. Two more days and I'm done. I am not renewing my license to practice medicine. I am *out*, back to the reseaerch, and away from .... all he described.

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Jessica Bertram
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

again, sending you hugs, Leo. It has been incredibly traumatic for you medical personnel. i don't blame you in the least for wanting to be done with patient care. 💔💕

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Caro Caro
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Fu*king hell, this story is horrible and sad. I'm sorry you have to deal with this. The saddest is not the unvaccinated adults dying. The saddest is children dying and your doggie too. Maaaan, this sucks.

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Jaguarundi
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It has been a brutal 2 years for people in healthcare. We've gone from heroes to the enemy in such a short time because "internet research" is so much more "factual" than actual education and experience.

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Leo Domitrix
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Yes, the years of medical school were apparently all part of the Covid scam.... Ugh. I feel you.

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Sum Guy
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

That got dark real fast... 1st post and I don't feel like continuing anymore

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SuperChicken
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This is very distressing. I am truly sorry that you have to deal with rude anti-vaxxers and anti-masks. The reason why we, who believe that COVID is real, are not in the ER is because we know how to take care of ourselves. Hang in there. There is still hope in life.

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Lisa Henry
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They believe covid is real. It's just not as bad as our gov made it out to be. As well as the vaccine not even working. Most statistics are screwed for money anyways. What really happened in the hospitals is overworked, underpaid, under appreciated. Its always been patients vs. Hospital administration vs. Medical staff. Only thing covid did was shed light on a already growing problem in our hospitals.

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Tina Hugh
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Hey, what do you mean why you never came home? Please don’t harm yourself.

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Leo Domitrix
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

He means what we all mean ----- we're on shift 72 hours straight sometimes. Yes, that's how bad it is. I'm done in another 72 hours, by choice. I'm not renewing my license to practice medicine. I did my time as a volunteer support personnel, then as an MD, and I've had two toddlers taken off life support to die b/c of their parents in the last 9 months. We don't go home. At the start, we were camping in the parking garage in tents to be sure we didn't contaminate anyone. He may self-harm, but he's still talking about his pain, so hopefully, he won't.

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phoebe julien
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This is so sad, i hope ur getting better or are better now. Medical people go through so much, this isnt fair for what people do to people in medical similar to you!!! hope ur doing okay though!!!

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jessica r
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I am so sorry. Please know that there’s still plenty of people who are very grateful for medical help.

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Jaekry
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This must feel so pointless, exhausting... Im so soo sorry... ( As in sorry this is happening to you.) This person needs help asap.... And time off work. Gut wrenching post

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Heather Lambie
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Please, please know that MOST people are on your side and do everything they can to prevent the spread etc. I cannot imagine the utter pain you are in…☹️ Hug your dog, hug your family snd most importantly hug yourself!! I am so sorry for all that uou have gone through…. SO sorry. Take care of YOURSELF now, ( and go gif beautiful walks with your doggie)❤️

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Iapetos
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Ouch! What's wrong with people?! Esp the yelling at you and abuse part?!

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Nonya Bidness
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

To be honest, I was in this dark place, too. Working at the hospital during COVID was an eye opener. I quit in October. I moved home to take care of my mom who is only 65 and is in the later stages of early onset dementia. At least I'm with people who love me. Hospital administration are horrid. They have no idea what it's like. Patients kept getting worse & worse. While I miss working, I'm so glad I left.

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Pamela Blue
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Many medical staff feel the way you do. I know here in Canada, we've had way too many medical professionals simply walk away. Our provincial government is desperately staff hunting because the nurses and docs (esp. ER and ICU) just don't want to deal with it anymore. As you said, they went from being heros to being castigated by anti-vaxxers outside the hospital exits and near emergency entrances. I mean - how ill-bred and ignorant can you get?

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1 year ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I know it will never be enough, but big hugs to you and all those who fight unreasonable fights to keep the rest of us alive. I don't think any one of us living in this nightmare are really sane anymore, but my heart breaks a little to hear your story. I'm a minister, and I have buried the dead ones. I still think you are all heroes, and for every single simpleton out there being mean, evil and dangerous, not to say patronising as hell, there are ten, hundred, thousand of reasonable people, who cheer on for you and your coworkers. We love you, stay safe! ❤️

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No you can't have my name
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Once this pandemic is done, there's going to be a shortage of medical professionals worse than the teacher shortage of the last two decades. And we will have only brought it upon ourselves.

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De Gueb
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Don't know if it help, but thank you for everything you've done.

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Tracy Wallick
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I'm so sorry that you had to go through all of that, but I hope you know that for all of those people, there are many who see you as a hero.

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S. Mi
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Recognizing that health care workers are human beings seem to be lost in all this. We need to do a better job of both protecting them and giving them sage spaces to work through what is happening.

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Lara Verne
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I'm so sorry you had to go through this. It must be incredibly frustrating to see what covid can do and still have antivaxxers shouting at you.

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Oh my god I'm so sorry. I hope you find the true light of life soon. And don't worry, your dog will love you to the fullest while she is with you! Now I don't think the person will see this tho :(

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Michael Searer
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

We can all thank that loathsome, insidious, warped, and delusionally narcissistic orange blob of syphilitic pus for brainwashing so many people, or at least being the catalyst that led to their brainwashing.

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Jeremy Bode
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Please know that you are dealing with the bottom of the bottom of the barrel at this point. A vast majority of us owe our lives to your hard work. We’ve heeded your warnings - done the things you’ve told us to do… and in doing so don’t NEED to end up in your care. WE… are eternally grateful for your hard work and sacrifice… even if THEY are not. I’m so sorry - heros should not be treated this way.

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MJLstrd
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Please hold on. There are those of us who have taken all precautions. We have seen loved ones -- masked, isolated, vaccinated but older & vulnerable because of other health issues. Some of them loved, some didn't. But they all had a chance because of people like you. Thank you

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Laura Dorn
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I feel your pain. I'm a nurse in long term care & I can't begin to explain what we have to go thru at this end of the spectrum. Hang in there it is getting better.

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Lisa Intally
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Just to say again that, for everyone who doesn't think mass media matters, it's part of the root of this distrust of sound medical advice. If anyone tries to dismiss our governance as "politics" and the garbage opinion media channels pretending they are "fair," this is what happens when propaganda meets a serious problem. I cannot believe that anyone votes for a party that promotes death by brainwashing their people into thinking the pandemic was "fake," masks don't work and the vaccine are poison. But, here we are and the sad and inexplicable fact is that the Republicans are leading the polls. Why? How on Earth can people be so dumb as to vote for the people who brought us into this mess?

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Paula McNeely
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

And the anti vaxers believe because their list in chief told them so. Hah! The jokes on them. He not only got the jab but the booster too. Don't believe everything some small minded person tells you & that includes your self.

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Munchkin
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

oh no... my heart is broken you're probably a really nice person too...

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Tobias Reaper
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

the people that think its not real are dumb if it was a conspiracy then every doctor in the world every scientist every world leader thats millions of people that many people part of a secret conspiracy theory plus all the people that have lost loved ones would have to be in on it that many people part of a secret plot wouldn't ever be able to stay secret

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Patti Vance
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

and this is why there is a shortage of healthcare workers. i feel for them. they were abused by people for not getting seen fast enough or getting the treatment they thought they needed pre covid but now they have to witness how selfish ignorant people keep those who did everything they were supposed to do get sick and not have access to things such as a ventilator. in the beginning of all this my son went on a rant that every person who refused to get vaccinated and/or wear a mask or stay home and got sick needed to either be denied medical care or, as they did in other countries, make them the ones that became the people who had to transport and bury those who had died; maybe even work menial job in covid ward. i thought that was harsh. now, i don't.

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Jessica N
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Every single worker at every hospital feels the same. Its pretty much your choice to get ill and strain healthcare resources now. The vaccinated who get covid generally aren't hospitalized.

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This person needs immediate help. If anybody knows them, please call a suicide hotline. Please reach out. This person has saved so many lives and now it's our turn to help them. The suicide rate for healthcare workers is the highest it's ever been. Please please be there for the ones in your life. They need us now more then ever, and we owe the. So much.

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Katinka Min
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Quit. Just go and quit and work somewhere else. We as a society have failed you so there is no need for you to stick around and rescue us. Go and live a happy life!

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DDmaybeandor
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

You sound like a cop I know. When you’re doing a job to save and protect people but all you get is abuse.

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Matthew Ryan
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

That's a suicide note if ever I read one... Hope someone is checking in on this person because it sounds like they've given everything for everyone else

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Linda James
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This is how a huge number of healthcare workers feel on a daily basis dealing with the pandemic. They are quitting in droves!

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I totally get it. And it is terrible how ignorant people have personally affected you, your life, your career. There are people out there who get it. I am sorry for what you have been through. I get angry watching this kind of stuff on the news; I can't imagine being the one going through it as part of my job (that you USED to love)

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Mark Karol-Chik
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

My heart aches for all those in the medical profession, emergency workers, and those with immune deficiencies..

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Nancy Bania
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I'm so sorry so many people are selfish , ignorant jerks. We need people who care, like this person.

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LH25
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Wow, how sad. I want to find this person and get them help. I was recently in the hospital (not COVID) and felt so bad for the nurses. They work so hard to keep their patients safe and heck, alive. To get treated like this is terrible.

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Sapna Sarfare
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This is the saddest thing i have heard... if you cannot have sympathy for such saviours or those that have died due to Covid, stop calling yourself human beings..

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Gaby Almodovar
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I wouldn't make a good doctor or nurse. Not because I'm dumb for it, but I wouldn't freaking do even the bare minimum from stupid people: the sooner their genetics are wiped out from the face of the Earth, the better for humanity.

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Celsius
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I'm sorry you too, became a victim. I work on the same front line, had covid 2x,almost killing me BEFORE the vax came out. I'm vaccinated and still on the front line..but not sick or worried any more. The foolish/selfish unvaxxed people do evil with their disregard, but forgive them for they don't know they're stupid. Find a therapist to offload your grief with. Best money you'll ever spend. Peace.

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Jp@nda
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Wait? No, are you okay?? Whatever you're thinking of doing please don't do it. The world needs you here and you absolutely have made a difference. I know you're burnt out but humanity is worth it. Please talk to someone

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Lisa Banks
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I'm a nurse, and while I agree with the sentiment, the author is misguided in the idea that this vaccine will prevent transmission. It's a logical fallacy that the WHO, the CDC and the various governments of the world have sold us. It prevents serious illness - not transmission. It doesn't kill the virus. It stops us from getting sicker. That's because it's a Covid, just like the flu or the common cold. We will never be able to prevent it's transmission or mutation. That's why we have flu vaccines annually. Mutations happen. Covid is here to stay. The good news is that the Spanish flu managed to mutate itself into what we consider a cold. There is light at the end of the tunnel and it's not an oncoming train.

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Adrian
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

You did your best, for people and your dog. People suck. Dogs mostly don't...

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Monica Leigh
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Any patient or customer that heaps abuse on a worker should be banned forever no matter where it is.

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Random Anon
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I have a lot of respect for people doing the right thing for society standing firm on their ideals. God knows I've lost that since coming to terms with how ugly the world is as a child. I wish these people who still have these ideals would never have to turn out this way. But alas, 'tis not that kind of world we live in.

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JJ Moore
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Similar boat and disillusioned beyond belief. I walked away, bc I couldn’t handle it any longer.

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Clarissa
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I was an emergency room nurse for many years. I quit Dec 2021. Couldn't do it any more.

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

More than anything, I'm heartbroken for the dog.

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Lynne Stankard
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This is the most heartbreaking thing I've read for a long time. xxx

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Stijn Kraft
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This is why I am not ashamed to live in my bubble most of the time. I only have 80-90 years on this planet if I'm lucky. Not going to spend my time with asswipes.

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Wednesday
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I hope you choose to live. Get of the COVID unit, or get out of medicine, for a while or forever... But know you did what you could.

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Misty Carmen-Persnickety
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This is so heartbreaking. This man has gone through the wringer. I don't get how some people are so foolish enough to not want to vaccinate themselves.

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Elaine Mattingly
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I did take the vaccine but was admitted for another reason, you saved my life. I didn't get a chance to thank you.

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Jimmy Crackcorn
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Hey, so I’m concerned here OP. When you say your dog won’t understand why you never came home, I hope that doesn’t mean because you’re thinking of escaping this madness by harming yourself. If I got the wrong end of the stick that’s terrific. If not though please PLEASE stay here. Reach out! 800-273-8255 https://www.google.com/search?q=national+suicide+hotline&rlz=1CDGOYI_enUS643US643&oq=national+suicide+hotline&aqs=chrome..69i57.9200j0j4&hl=en-US&sourceid=chrome-mobile&ie=UTF-8#

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caron macisaac
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

You are a hero. Sometimes heroes end up with broken hearts. When you are ready, go get another pup from the pound. They need heroes too. Bless you.

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weatherwitch
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I'm so incredibly sorry for what this person has experienced. They have done a phenomenal job, protecting and saving people and the actions of complete arseholes have destroyed them. It's just heartbreaking 😢

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Hannah Mae Jensen
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Why do I read these posts? They're too depressing. Also sorry you feel like your life sucks right now man. Feel better maybe your dog will live who knows.

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Suzanne
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I feel very sad for your loss ... not all anti-vaxers are cruel and thoughtless, and not all those who are vaxed are blaming others for their condition, and not only unvaxed can pass on to others this illness, but also the vaxed can ... I can only hope and pray you will find a place soon that does not drain the life and love within you, even if it is buried so deep it seems to have disappeared completely, and that could reflourish under the right circumstances - I truly hope you find that ... GOD bless

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Rad Roxxy
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Thank you to all doctors and nurses, clinicians, grocery store workers, delivery folks, and everyone else who helped us all stay sane and afloat, healthy, or helped us recover from more than just COVID during these tough times...I'm sorry for these kinda stories 😔

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Yolanda DeJesus
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Please don’t give up on us. I know that most of us are so grateful for all of your hard work and commitment. Please give yourself the time to regroup whilst knowing that you ARE both needed and appreciated. Take a minute to be kind to yourself. Sending you prayers

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Pamela McInnis
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Covid has caused the burnout of far too many medical personnel. To have the ignorant make their lives that much more difficult borders on the criminal.

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Benjamin Brogan
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I Completely Understand. I Completely Understand Every Word of what this Individual has been Thinking, Feeling and Living. People with "Attitudes of Entitlement" and "Lack of Common Sense" have become quite Abusive towards Retail, Hospitality and Medical workers. Shameful Behavior really.

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Tom Wilson
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Please try to remember most people tried to do the right thing and we truly appreciate everything you did I'm sorry you had to put up with the idiots

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Jill Taylor
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I hope this person reads the messages of support by the people with common sense. We are forever grateful to you.

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Missi Boness
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Omg I'm so very sorry for EVERYTHING you've experienced and for your dog. Please hang in there. YOU ARE VALUED.

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Miss.Information🤔
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Oh, how these 2 years must have been like a horrormovie for the medicalpersonel! I do understand why, people Are stupid, I myself did not get vaccinated, before I got Covid, so then I just needed 1 and a booster once in a while! But getting the decease Really gave me immunity! It is like I cant get the virus nomore? And people have it multiple times! Why?

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H.L.Lewis
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Those of us who wear masks, and have been vaccinated, thank-you for your work. Take care of your sweet dog. Make her as happy as possible in the time she has left. And take care of yourself. You deserve better.

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MJ
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Thank you for sharing the hard facts from your side. I hope your point of view as a health care worker helps others make better decisions. Thank you for everything you and others have done to not only help covid patients but all of the everyday things that still happen day to day.

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Sharon Brown
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Some of us appreciate your work and some of us are worth it. Thank you. My prays and Thought a for your best friend

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Uh huh
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This is absolutely heartbreaking. My heart is broken for you and your dog.

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Laura Brown
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

My tears are unstoppable right now...for this Frontline worker and every other one, I am so very grateful for the work you have done, for the lives you save and the sacrifice you make.

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I hate society right now. This is what it is doing to people who actually give a f**k

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Herman Trowser
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

The floor nurses and doctors suffer and the admins get million dollars bonuses. Capitalism at work

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Lijo Kim
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I genuinely hope they are alright and maybe consider getting the opinion of a therapist. All of this sounds so traumatizing and exhausting

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Aditi Singh
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I'm a med student and this post honestly make me feel just soooo sad for this noble profession. It's disheartening to see a doc lose hope like this nd at times I wonder if this would happen to me in the future as well. I would still be rooting for him so pls cheer up....

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Liza Wolf
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

... you are in my heart. I'm sorry. My dad used to work in the ER, 30 years as a doc. He and his nurses and the parastaff were and still are my heroes. I now work in veterinary medicine because I love medicine that much. It breaks my heart to pieces to see how hard you've struggled against the very people you're trying to save. Heaven help you all.

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This hurts to read. Since Covid started, people have become incredibly entitled and aggressive, and I'm lost as to why. Everyone just kinda formed an opinion, stuck to it, and now we're left in shambles when maybe nothing was every okay all along. I stopped talking about Covid and the Pandemic and formed such a negative train of thought for the same reason this doctor is regretting ever being a doctor - what the hell is wrong with people?

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Erin Mandrusiak
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

'no one is worth it anymore', definitely how I feel as well. In a world where 'doing the right thing' gets you abuse, it's hard to feel like anything or anyone is worth it.

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CammyCat
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

That is the downside to “freedom”. People have the choice to b idi*ts. It’s just sad that others have to suffer because of them and their choices

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Steven Glover
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This is the saddest feeling I've had ever. When u get to that point u need a huge vacation an to remember why u r doing what ur doing in the first place. Been there had to take years off of being there for others except my family. My heart goes out to u. It will get better.

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Frances Lee
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Find some joy somewhere...and don't let the idiots win. You are stronger than that.

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Ashley Lyford
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This poster needs a friend right now more than ever. I'm scared that they're reaching out like pre-suicide reach-out...

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Aside from those who are medically unable to take the vaccine hospitals should be allowed to triage anti-vaxxers on space available status.

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Linda Riebel
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Wish I could be psychic and send you really good eraser vibes.... (I mean erasing bad memories)

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

At times I feel that way about people who come in for other reasons that are often based on their choices in life. It helps me sometimes to reflect on how I'm not always making the best choices for my life either and that often there are reasons why people have done to themselves what they've done.

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Rachel Hamrick
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

If this person truly cared then they'd stay. He/she signed an oath.

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Rachel Hamrick
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

So opinionated. The vaccine nearly killed me. Having Covid was enough and I should have just stopped with that.

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Honestly, for a big part, this is how it should be. There should be some worldwide awareness that not all lives are worth saving, based on character traits. Though i do respect medical personel, i will never understand what brings people to try and save people diagnosed with ASPD from anything, drug users from an OD if they got a history of OD'ing and saving Antivaxxers from avoidable diseases there are vaccins for, let alone anyone acting entitled or physically agressive for no medical reason, except just being a pain in the butt. The sooner this is realized, the faster we can look forward to a brighter future.

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

And people that don’t trust the “vaccine” are tired of getting yelled at by people that do.

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Someone hasn't been paying attention to the vaccine it would seem

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I feel bad about the dog.... The rest, well he literally signed up for the job knowing that can happen. Can't feel sorry for him there

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

We didn't sign up to be stalked, threatened, harassed, given death threats, from organized groups of people, sometimes armed, who'd even follow us home and leave little presents on our doorsteps of bags of dogshit or worse. So, y'know, no, we did not sign on knowing all this would happen.

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30 People Share Their "Anti-Bucket" List Of Things They Would Never Do Again Facebook. Deleted the account, never going back. I don’t miss it at all.

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

FB was okay during the first few years... but lately it is a toxic cesspool.

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30 People Share Their "Anti-Bucket" List Of Things They Would Never Do Again Vote Republican. I was a lifelong R until they picked Trump. My eyes were opened to what they were and I'll never donate another cent or vote R for any position ever again. I love when I get the calls from them, begging for money. I get to explain why the money they used to get is now going to their opponents.

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I've decided as long as there are starving children and pets in this world, no political party is getting a cent of my money.

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The anti-bucket list is the complete opposite of the bucket list, a list of all the things that a person hopes to do in life.

They say that the best teacher is cold, hard experience. And there’s no denying that trying out a whole bunch of different activities can quickly help you filter out what you actually enjoy doing and what sounds great on paper but is horrible in real life.

However, things aren’t so easy when you deal with underlying assumptions like trusting everyone, not just leisure activities. If the fundamental ideas that make up your life get shaken, you can be in for a rude awakening. And with a lot to think about while you’re sitting there, angry, ashamed, embarrassed.

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30 People Share Their "Anti-Bucket" List Of Things They Would Never Do Again Buy clothes that don’t fit well in hopes that “someday” I’ll lose weight and be comfortable in them. Just size up, damn it, and be comfortable now!

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I had a stack of clothes that I'd bought too small, but by the time I finally lost the weight, they were completely out of style xD

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30 People Share Their "Anti-Bucket" List Of Things They Would Never Do Again Settling for a relationship knowing you are not really happy.
Never. Again.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

"good enough" is not good enough when it comes to relationships. It's much better being single than slowly growing to resent each other.

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30 People Share Their "Anti-Bucket" List Of Things They Would Never Do Again Attempt [to end my life].
After maybe three of four days after the attempt I experienced what I think is called epiphany. Started everything all over. Loved myself, finished therapy etc. No matter what bulls**t life throws at me I will never do it again.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I am still waiting for an epiphany. I am fed up of my mind, and I do not know how to change it for the better.

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Something that we all have to remind ourselves of from time to time is that it’s all right to make mistakes. Nobody’s perfect. And, heck, you could argue that perfection is overrated. What really matters is learning to embrace the mistakes that we make and learning the lessons that are there to be learned, without regret.

Vanessa Bohns, an Associate Professor of Organizational Behavior at Cornell University, explained to us earlier about embracing mistakes, dealing with our embarrassment, and why hiding our mistakes isn’t healthy for us.

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"We spend a lot of time and effort presenting an ideal version of ourselves to other people. When something happens that contrasts with the image we’ve been projecting—when we say or do something that shows we actually aren’t as graceful or as smart as we’d like people to believe—we feel embarrassed," Vanessa told Bored Panda during an earlier interview that many of us want to seem perfect.

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30 People Share Their "Anti-Bucket" List Of Things They Would Never Do Again Now I always pee before cutting jalapeno peppers. The other way around, never again.

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30 People Share Their "Anti-Bucket" List Of Things They Would Never Do Again Assume that every co worker is a friend.
I truly believed most of my colleagues were friends in a place I used too work, to the point I’d go above and beyond to help them. Even if it was rarely if ever reciprocated. Yet whenever I needed help they were nowhere to be found or were ‘busy’. If I got in trouble they were quick to throw me under the bus without hesitation and would lie to my face about doing so.

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2 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I thought some of my co workers were friends and even invited them to my engagement party. They did RSVP yet none of them showed up.

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"Discovering you were wrong about something most everyone else around you has long known to be true is one of those moments. In that moment we learn, 'Wait a minute, maybe I haven’t been presenting the image of being smart or worldly that I thought I was presenting all this time,' which is embarrassing,” she explained how embarrassment works.

“One thing that’s interesting about embarrassment is that, for as much as we might experience it as painful in the moment, it’s actually very socially adaptive. Being embarrassed signals to other people that you care about what they think. And that actually draws people in to you,” the expert pointed out that when we admit to our mistakes openly, we become better liked.

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30 People Share Their "Anti-Bucket" List Of Things They Would Never Do Again I refuse to ever do retail again, people are literally such a**holes and don’t realize your trying to help them and still get their job done.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

But…. Everyone should work in retail or food services for a while. To appreciate the crap work and how vital it is. And to appreciate where you’ve been and where you’re going.

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30 People Share Their "Anti-Bucket" List Of Things They Would Never Do Again Smoke. Did it for 14 years. I feel so much better having quit. Been about 10 years since and the amount of money saved and the smell and the cough.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I used to smoke. Not chain smoke but smoke I did. I quit many years ago and will NEVER be a smoker again. The lungs are better, smell, taste and health. Jeeees, there is not a single positive thing to say about smoking.

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Having sex without wanting to. I was in a relationship with someone who'd frequently pressure me into having sex, and I'm definitely never ever doing that again.

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“So blushing, burying your head in your hands, laughing, acknowledging how embarrassing something was, are all totally healthy ways to react.”

On the flip side, when we try to hide our mistakes and embarrassment, we’re shooting ourselves in the foot, socially speaking. In other words, it’s not only cathartic, it’s also socially useful for us to admit to the times we utterly embarrassed ourselves or messed up beyond all belief.

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30 People Share Their "Anti-Bucket" List Of Things They Would Never Do Again Work as a bartender.

I know, I know, the money is good. But getting home at 4am or later, the booze and drug scene, surviving on Red Bull and pedialyte, and getting grabassed by strangers while trying to pay my bills is not the life for me.

787 days sober and I’ll never look back. Got my degree and working as a design specialist/content developer for a museum now and I LOVE MY JOB. Also started my own small business and it’s going really well so far. I have an art show coming up soon and I’m really excited for it.

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30 People Share Their "Anti-Bucket" List Of Things They Would Never Do Again Stay at a job I’m unhappy at.

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I've been gruelling at a job that hasn't fit my values and personality for a decade. I have an interview at a place I've always wanted to work at this week. Hope I get it.

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Trying to be liked by everybody by always being nice and never saying no. Never again.

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“The unhealthy way to react is to pretend you’re not embarrassed, that you didn’t make a mistake, or to get angry. Those things undo the positive effect of embarrassment typically has on other people by conveying insincerity and pushing people away rather than drawing them in,” Vanessa said.

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Sharing too much.

I used to tell people my life goals and plans, and upload everything on social media as well: what I was doing, who I was dating or in a relationship with, where I was... all that.

Now I realise there is so much more peace and happiness in living a low-key life. I high-key enjoy that s**t.

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Grunt. I lost a job because I had too much stuff on social media. During covid, somebody with nothing better to do traced me back to the company and complained about it.

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30 People Share Their "Anti-Bucket" List Of Things They Would Never Do Again Camping. Never again will I leave my perfectly comfortable house for a weekend to sleep on the ground and share a disgusting bathroom with 150 strangers.

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Loan a friend money with the expectation of getting it back. Haven’t loaned money since and if I ever do, it’s a gift.

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1 year ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I’m aware that this might come across as slightly arsey, but I’ve stopped loaning anything at all. (Ie not money, but books, CDs, clothes, household items, etc.) I’ve grown tired of being the one who keeps pushing to get my stuff back, and then, when I do finally get it back, it’s usually in a pretty bad condition.

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30 People Share Their "Anti-Bucket" List Of Things They Would Never Do Again Being obese.

I didn’t realize how much it negatively affected everything in my life until I lost 80 pounds. Then I was like “oh THIS is how I’m supposed to feel.”

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I've lost 30kg, but honestly I don't feel any different. Everyone keeps telling me I must feel so much better, but I don't - I feel exactly the same. Except a bit cheated - where is all this energy I was promised?

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Go to Disneyland or Disney World.
Paid waaaaay too much money to stand in waaaay too many lines, fighting crowds of waaaay too many people.
Disney parks are not a fun way to spend a day.

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

i went to hershey park a few years ago with my family. i havent been to disneyland/world, but they have a lot of the same things, less long lines, and CHOCOLATE

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30 People Share Their "Anti-Bucket" List Of Things They Would Never Do Again Keep putting everyone else’s needs over my own.

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Forgive a cheater.

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

If it happened once, it can happen again. Also, it happened for a reason, maybe they wouldn't admit it or you wouldn't believe it but something was the precursor.

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30 People Share Their "Anti-Bucket" List Of Things They Would Never Do Again Bungee jump.. as soon as my feet left the edge all I could think was "well that was stupid"...

It was exciting and probably safe enough.. but it was enough for me to know I will never willingly do that again.

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30 People Share Their "Anti-Bucket" List Of Things They Would Never Do Again Childbirth and the postpartum period. Love my daughter to death. One and done.

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Yep. I had my daughter and went through so much anxiety and was told it wasn't real that I did not have another child even though I wanted one. I just couldn't imagine going through that again. Now people talk about it more so I would be able to get help but 19 yrs ago doctors got frustrated if you complained about anything to do w mental health after pregnancy. Plus I was afraid they'd take her from me if they knew how axioms I was. To the point I held her for a year straight. I couldn't put her down I was so scared. I would sleep for a few hours a night as long as my husband held her while I slept.

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Allow my mood to get tethered to someone else's.

With my ex, I was only ever happy when she was happy and if she woke up in a bad mood, my day was ruined. I need to live my own life without clinging onto someone else's.

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Ah, emotional vampires. My mom is like this. I'm not allowed my own feelings. Every emotion she dictates. Now I don't know if I'm a strong empath or just can't deflect others emotions.

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Working in academia - left two years ago and never looking back. F**k that noise.
Soon as the business folk became in charge of the institution instead of the professors, it was all over. Changing the model from " how can we best teach and research knowledge" to "how can we make more money to expand" destroyed the core philosophy.

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1 year ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This is already coming back to bite us in the collective behind. Never before have I encountered so many bachelor degrees with high hopes, high work ethos and just very little knowledge of anything other than their very insular topics.

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Have a relationship with someone with children, thus finding myself in the stepfamily situation with never fully feeling accepted, the ex being omnipresent, and always being the one to adjust because… those poor children. And it’s true: they cannot help their situation. But I aint doing it ever again.

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Pulling an all nighter. Age is catching up on me.

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Attempted to pull a late night this weekend for the sake of having a social life and ended up going home early the next day to take a nap. I think I'm officially old now.

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30 People Share Their "Anti-Bucket" List Of Things They Would Never Do Again Birthing without an epidural. I had laughing gas instead. Made me high as a kite. I screamed in pain while I was dissociating into space.

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Pregnant woman in the Netherlands here. There is now ay in hell I wouldn't want to choose giving birth without the epidural... Why to choose suffering? Hell nah, if I can, I will chose the less painful option to havea beautiful birth experience, hell with "it not natural" who cares? Also wearing shoes is not natural 😂 but hey... My respects to all women who choose to feel what our ancestors did before we had a painless option... Not for me!

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30 People Share Their "Anti-Bucket" List Of Things They Would Never Do Again Go to a strip club. I've never felt so awkward in my entire life.

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I went once in my early 20s. Got a lap dance. Felt like a third wheel the whole time, like she was TRYING to give my wallet a lapdance and I was in the way.

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