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We’re all familiar with the saying that beggars can’t be choosers—if you desperately need or want something, then you should be willing to sit down and be humble. How often does that happen, though? Honestly? Not as often as it should. The world’s full of arrogant, privileged choosing beggars who think they’re royalty and throw a fit if someone can’t meet their unfair expectations.

The worst of the worst get shamed on r/ChoosingBeggars, a community of nearly 2.2 million people who call out people who are being way too picky when begging for things. If you’re ever in a situation where you’re unsure if what you’re doing is right or wrong, the ‘Choosing Beggars’ subreddit is your North Star on how not to behave.

Have a look through some of the most popular recent posts about choosing beggars, upvote the ones that infuriated you the most, and let us know if you’ve ever dealt with similar people in your lives, dear Pandas. Got the patience to stomach some more pretentious and privileged individuals? Check out Bored Panda’s most recent posts about r/ChoosingBeggars right here, here, and here.

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My Dad's A Photographer, This Is His Most Recent Client

My Dad's A Photographer, This Is His Most Recent Client

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Asking The Author Of The Book Where They Can Pirate It (I'm Not The Author, And The Book Is Not Coming From A Big-Time Publisher)

Asking The Author Of The Book Where They Can Pirate It (I'm Not The Author, And The Book Is Not Coming From A Big-Time Publisher)

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Many choosing beggars either want huge discounts for products that their hearts are set on or… they want things completely for free or exposure. Calling these people ‘cheap’ would do a disservice to just how impolite and demanding some of them truly are.

Rudeness and a false sense of entitlement are just the tip of the iceberg when it comes to choosing beggars. You see, they think they’re special and that the entire world has to dance to their tune because… well… just because!

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Local BBQ Place With Free Beer Calls Out Specific Yelper For Being A Cb. Love The Food And The Attitude At This Place

Local BBQ Place With Free Beer Calls Out Specific Yelper For Being A Cb. Love The Food And The Attitude At This Place

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Cbs Push A Man Too Far

Cbs Push A Man Too Far

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Id row
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

The idiots on that site make you feel all warm and stabby inside. It's an entire Mad Hatter community waiting to pounce on anyone who lists anything.

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Imitating
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I've never understood the expectation that the seller needs to deliver it (unless they've offered).

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Ozacoter
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Same here in Belgium. I offered many things online for free since we didnt need them (like our older hamster cage) or an office chair. I got so many idiots demanding that I drive to the other side of the country to deliver it. For a f*****g thing that I am giving away for free! I hate people.

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Heather Menard
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This is what pissed me off. I was giving a kitten away and they are like can you deliver it.

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Mazer
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Sad to read that people who are trying to do good get abused

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Yort
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Here’s what you do - list it on Craigslist, leave it on the porch, first come first served, take the ad down once it’s gone.

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V Martinez
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I've lived in a couple of places where you don't even need to place an ad. Put the free stuff out front by the curb and it'll disappear so fast! Some ppl will go around the night before trash pick-up and take stuff. Saves the hassle of putting up and taking down an ad and dealing with these idiots. Lol!

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Zophra
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

We have only met super nice people using Craigslist. We have bought a bedroom set, a bicycle, patio set, recliner, refrigerator, marble bathroom sink.... so many things that we wouldn't be able to afford at full price. Not all potential buyers are aholes. :)

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Rod Egret
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Next time, create a fake account and tell them you will deliver. Wait a couple hours and enjoy the furious comments...

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This is exactly where I am at with the entirety of society. It simply doesn't matter which particular social media platform you name anymore. People have taken the asshole attitude provided by the anonymity of the internet into every aspect of their lives. There are exactly three people in this world that I care about.

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Bex
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Lmao. I live here and I saw this!!!! Guy was beyond pissed, and I don't blame him!

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Nayeli Ortiz
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I get the statement they’re trying to make, but noo not the dumpster! Find a place you can recycle and drop off old electronics, much of it can be collected and turned into new materials

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Buzz Anderson
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Another incident (this is a continuation of the below post) my gardening crew brought me about 2 tons of trees they had cut down and I said just put it in the back lot and I'll advertise it for free firewood. I said I do NOT have a pickup so I cannot deliver. Anyway this is FREE. I shot several pictures to show they are not cut up (I would not do that for free anyway) and they branches and trunks from 1 to 3 feet across so bring help and a pickup or trailer. Same thing as below. One guy said he would come get some for his fireplace and I said sure come on down. He showed up and was pissed because it had not all been cut up in small firewood sized pieces. I said did you not see the pictures and read the ad? Another guy said he would take it if I PAID HIM to remove it all. Another woman also was ticked off it had not been already all cut up. I said did you look at the pictures? I did help her pick out some small branches and whatnot but she was not happy.

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Buzz Anderson
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I had something similar happen. My landscape crew got too much red and white rock for my front yard. So I said FREE red and white rock. NOT gravel but it is all about small fist size to large fist size. FREE, if you want it come and get it. IN the front corner of the yard about five hundred pounds of each color. I do NOT have a pickup and cannot deliver so please do not ask. It is free so come get it. One guy said he does not haul rocks for free but would take it all for 200 bucks. Another apparent dumbass wanted to know why I could not use my trunk to deliver it as he was vet and I should bring it to him for his service. What is wrong with people?

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Jonathan English
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Where do you dump your trash.? Just asking for a friend who needs a telly

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Dorothy Cloud
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Love his response. Thanks for covering the swearing. But, I understand why he said it!

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Peter Kovak
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

For an entitled moron red lines don't exist, everything is possible.

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elfin
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

These responders sound like my brother. He needed a new refrigerator once and was offered an almost-new one. He tried to get his roommate to pick it up for him. When she refused, he just didn't bother.

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alexandra laurita
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Thank you for expressing so vividly and truthfully what everyone who ever sold anything on Craigslist feels. Lol. I could have written a comic novella from one couch listing.

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EP
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

“ seriously f you all” made me laugh so hard. Too hard!

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Steffen Rehm
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I once tried to get rid of an okay, but old couch, for nothing. Here lives a lot of students and i had the throughts someone could safe want it. One downside was, i lived at that time in the 5. floor without a elevator. had a lot of interest as expected, but endet up in recycling center, because nobody wanted that thing not that bad.

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Shane S
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Gotta love it when people want free sh*t delivered….

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Calypso poet
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I have a storage garage full of s**t I need to sell and this is why I am terrified to try. I also have brand new clothes, tags on but people are so shady!

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Christina Rosetti
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

We have something called Freegle in the UK. If you don't show up 3 times to get something you told the giver you wanted, you get removed from the website.

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2 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

FYI, Freegle was invented by a USian - it used to be called Freecycle in the UK as it is in the US, but the person who came up with it decided to sue the UK FC community for using that name, so it had to be renamed. That's why the UK now has Freegle and Greencycle, respectively - both offshoots of Freecycle. Also, that may be the policy on your local group, but it isn't applicable UK-wide.

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Rench
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I tried to sell a chest freezer. Small but working. I put it up for $80. Half of new. Everyone that replied asked if I'd take less without even coming to look at it. I gave up and gave it to charity.

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A representative of the London-based Freelancer Club explained to me in a previous interview about saying ‘no’ to unpaid work. The organization aims to put a stop to exploitative unpaid work and late payments in the freelance sector.

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“We are working hard to change the culture around working for exposure, experience, prestige, and the promise of paid work in the future by educating new and aspiring freelancers. We highlight the impact it has on their career, show them how valuable they are, and work on their self-worth,” the representative told Bored Panda earlier. “On the company side, we show them how paying freelancers fairly is better for their bottom line as well as their long-term reputation. In addition, we are pressuring the government to change legislation that will provide more legal protection for freelancers who are clearly being exploited for their talent.”

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The Cheek Of Some People....

The Cheek Of Some People....

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Poor artist. I hope the person who said that they were an idiot went to hell.

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Potential Client Doesn’t Think I Can Do Math Apparently

Potential Client Doesn’t Think I Can Do Math Apparently

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Funny how parents often cheap out on their babysitters. And by the way: "we want someone who isn't in just for the money!" What in the actual f**k? Those people need to be asked if they would to their job for half the money...

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Those people and companies that suggest to others that they should work for exposure instead of for money end up showing everyone how they view others and what they think they’re worth.

“Many see freelancers, particularly in the creative sector, as hobbyists and believe they can get away with ‘paying’ in exposure. They leverage their audience size, their brand name, or the allure of gaining recognition. This is why services in exchange for exposure is commonplace in glamourous sectors such as fashion, music, and film,” the rep from the Freelancer Club said.

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This Was On One Of My Mom Pages, I Couldn't Believe It Was Local And That These Kind Of People Actually Exist, It Makes Me Sick To Think About

This Was On One Of My Mom Pages, I Couldn't Believe It Was Local And That These Kind Of People Actually Exist, It Makes Me Sick To Think About

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Broke Boy

Broke Boy

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

you know you're a jerk when you complain about others when they are being nice

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“From a freelancer point of view, they are often told that working for exposure is a rite of passage or an essential part of building a portfolio by their teachers, college professors, and peers. This has created a culture of exploitation that we must address at both ends. At Freelancer Club, we take a hardline and suggest freelancers say ‘no.’ The issue is that some ‘freelancers’ are individuals with a passion who will freely give their work away for exposure whilst professionals rely on payment to survive. This muddies the water.”

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How Are My Kids Supposed To Live Without Juice?!

How Are My Kids Supposed To Live Without Juice?!

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

this is great! this food bank probably made many families' Christmas! f*** that lady though she's a jerk

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All These Teens Do Is Play Fortnite And Take Drugs! They Should Work For Me For Free!

All These Teens Do Is Play Fortnite And Take Drugs! They Should Work For Me For Free!

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Ah poor person, imagine not being able to use teenagers as slaves when your doing it out of the goodness of your heart, lol!

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Everyday Troubles Of Freelancers

Everyday Troubles Of Freelancers

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Owner Of Three Restaurants In The Suburbs Of Chicago Asks His Customers To Pay His Wait Staff A Better Wage

Owner Of Three Restaurants In The Suburbs Of Chicago Asks His Customers To Pay His Wait Staff A Better Wage

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#18

Hey Can I Steal Your Art For 7 Bucks ?

Hey Can I Steal Your Art For 7 Bucks ?

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Instagram Model Asks For Private Booth, 10 Free Guests And Bottle Service In Exchange For One Social Media Post

Instagram Model Asks For Private Booth, 10 Free Guests And Bottle Service In Exchange For One Social Media Post

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Bernd Herbert
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2 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

To me "I am an instagram model" sounds like "I'm a Madden Football Player"

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Looks Like My Artist Has Had Enough

Looks Like My Artist Has Had Enough

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My Favorite City To Visit Due By

My Favorite City To Visit Due By

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

And a man should refuse to date someone who spells so atrociously.

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Let Me Not Ask For Permission To Have My Wedding Here (God’s Plan)

Let Me Not Ask For Permission To Have My Wedding Here (God’s Plan)

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

The moment the owners really appreciated have someone that guards the gate.

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#23

How Many Likes For Free Shoes?

How Many Likes For Free Shoes?

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This Gem From 2018 | Severely Lowballing A Wedding Caterer

This Gem From 2018 | Severely Lowballing A Wedding Caterer

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Removing Plastic Drops $200 Off. Seems Legit

Removing Plastic Drops $200 Off. Seems Legit

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I love how 'what do you mean' is the automated response haha. Apt.

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This Happened To My Mother Today. She (Out Of The Goodness Of Her Heart) Offered Our House To An Acquaintance Of Hers So He Could Make A Short Film. The Man Went Overboard And Asked Us To Give Him Access To The Whole House (And Basically Move Out) For A Week

This Happened To My Mother Today. She (Out Of The Goodness Of Her Heart) Offered Our House To An Acquaintance Of Hers So He Could Make A Short Film. The Man Went Overboard And Asked Us To Give Him Access To The Whole House (And Basically Move Out) For A Week

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Oh The Hypocrisy

Oh The Hypocrisy

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

In other words everyone deserves a living wage, just not from us.

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Stranger Wants A Custom Order For Her Wedding, As A Gift

Stranger Wants A Custom Order For Her Wedding, As A Gift

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This Is Not A Babysitting Job

This Is Not A Babysitting Job

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Report them to the Job Centre and their base commander or whatever their highest ranking officer is

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I've Officially Dropped Out Of The Bridal Party. I'm A Size 12 With No Plans On Dropping To A Size 8 By December

I've Officially Dropped Out Of The Bridal Party. I'm A Size 12 With No Plans On Dropping To A Size 8 By December

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Male Seeking New Housemates For Free But Makes It Up With ‘Fun Cool Vibes’

Male Seeking New Housemates For Free But Makes It Up With ‘Fun Cool Vibes’

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My Mom Has A Little Free Library In Her Yard. Someone Left Her This Note The Other Day With A Crossed Out Smiley Face

My Mom Has A Little Free Library In Her Yard. Someone Left Her This Note The Other Day With A Crossed Out Smiley Face

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Actual Quote From An Influencer Who Wanted Me To Address 250 Wedding Invites And Save The Date Cards. If It's "Just Writing" Surely You Can Do It Yourself

Actual Quote From An Influencer Who Wanted Me To Address 250 Wedding Invites And Save The Date Cards. If It's "Just Writing" Surely You Can Do It Yourself

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Guys, She Might Cry

Guys, She Might Cry

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