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We’re all familiar with the saying that beggars can’t be choosers—if you desperately need or want something, then you should be willing to sit down and be humble. How often does that happen, though? Honestly? Not as often as it should. The world’s full of arrogant, privileged choosing beggars who think they’re royalty and throw a fit if someone can’t meet their unfair expectations.

The worst of the worst get shamed on r/ChoosingBeggars, a community of nearly 2.2 million people who call out people who are being way too picky when begging for things. If you’re ever in a situation where you’re unsure if what you’re doing is right or wrong, the ‘Choosing Beggars’ subreddit is your North Star on how not to behave.

Have a look through some of the most popular recent posts about choosing beggars, upvote the ones that infuriated you the most, and let us know if you’ve ever dealt with similar people in your lives, dear Pandas. Got the patience to stomach some more pretentious and privileged individuals? Check out Bored Panda’s most recent posts about r/ChoosingBeggars right here, here, and here.

#1

My Dad's A Photographer, This Is His Most Recent Client

My Dad's A Photographer, This Is His Most Recent Client

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Asking The Author Of The Book Where They Can Pirate It (I'm Not The Author, And The Book Is Not Coming From A Big-Time Publisher)

Asking The Author Of The Book Where They Can Pirate It (I'm Not The Author, And The Book Is Not Coming From A Big-Time Publisher)

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Many choosing beggars either want huge discounts for products that their hearts are set on or… they want things completely for free or exposure. Calling these people ‘cheap’ would do a disservice to just how impolite and demanding some of them truly are.

Rudeness and a false sense of entitlement are just the tip of the iceberg when it comes to choosing beggars. You see, they think they’re special and that the entire world has to dance to their tune because… well… just because!

#4

Local BBQ Place With Free Beer Calls Out Specific Yelper For Being A Cb. Love The Food And The Attitude At This Place

Local BBQ Place With Free Beer Calls Out Specific Yelper For Being A Cb. Love The Food And The Attitude At This Place

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A representative of the London-based Freelancer Club explained to me in a previous interview about saying ‘no’ to unpaid work. The organization aims to put a stop to exploitative unpaid work and late payments in the freelance sector.

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“We are working hard to change the culture around working for exposure, experience, prestige, and the promise of paid work in the future by educating new and aspiring freelancers. We highlight the impact it has on their career, show them how valuable they are, and work on their self-worth,” the representative told Bored Panda earlier. “On the company side, we show them how paying freelancers fairly is better for their bottom line as well as their long-term reputation. In addition, we are pressuring the government to change legislation that will provide more legal protection for freelancers who are clearly being exploited for their talent.”

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The Cheek Of Some People....

The Cheek Of Some People....

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Nixxy
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Poor artist. I hope the person who said that they were an idiot went to hell.

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#9

Potential Client Doesn’t Think I Can Do Math Apparently

Potential Client Doesn’t Think I Can Do Math Apparently

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Bernd Herbert
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Funny how parents often cheap out on their babysitters. And by the way: "we want someone who isn't in just for the money!" What in the actual f**k? Those people need to be asked if they would to their job for half the money...

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Those people and companies that suggest to others that they should work for exposure instead of for money end up showing everyone how they view others and what they think they’re worth.

“Many see freelancers, particularly in the creative sector, as hobbyists and believe they can get away with ‘paying’ in exposure. They leverage their audience size, their brand name, or the allure of gaining recognition. This is why services in exchange for exposure is commonplace in glamourous sectors such as fashion, music, and film,” the rep from the Freelancer Club said.

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#10

This Was On One Of My Mom Pages, I Couldn't Believe It Was Local And That These Kind Of People Actually Exist, It Makes Me Sick To Think About

This Was On One Of My Mom Pages, I Couldn't Believe It Was Local And That These Kind Of People Actually Exist, It Makes Me Sick To Think About

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#11

Broke Boy

Broke Boy

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River Webb
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

you know you're a jerk when you complain about others when they are being nice

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“From a freelancer point of view, they are often told that working for exposure is a rite of passage or an essential part of building a portfolio by their teachers, college professors, and peers. This has created a culture of exploitation that we must address at both ends. At Freelancer Club, we take a hardline and suggest freelancers say ‘no.’ The issue is that some ‘freelancers’ are individuals with a passion who will freely give their work away for exposure whilst professionals rely on payment to survive. This muddies the water.”

#13

How Are My Kids Supposed To Live Without Juice?!

How Are My Kids Supposed To Live Without Juice?!

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River Webb
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

this is great! this food bank probably made many families' Christmas! f*** that lady though she's a jerk

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#15

All These Teens Do Is Play Fortnite And Take Drugs! They Should Work For Me For Free!

All These Teens Do Is Play Fortnite And Take Drugs! They Should Work For Me For Free!

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KJ
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Ah poor person, imagine not being able to use teenagers as slaves when your doing it out of the goodness of your heart, lol!

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#16

Everyday Troubles Of Freelancers

Everyday Troubles Of Freelancers

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#17

Owner Of Three Restaurants In The Suburbs Of Chicago Asks His Customers To Pay His Wait Staff A Better Wage

Owner Of Three Restaurants In The Suburbs Of Chicago Asks His Customers To Pay His Wait Staff A Better Wage

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#18

Hey Can I Steal Your Art For 7 Bucks ?

Hey Can I Steal Your Art For 7 Bucks ?

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#19

Instagram Model Asks For Private Booth, 10 Free Guests And Bottle Service In Exchange For One Social Media Post

Instagram Model Asks For Private Booth, 10 Free Guests And Bottle Service In Exchange For One Social Media Post

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Bernd Herbert
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2 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

To me "I am an instagram model" sounds like "I'm a Madden Football Player"

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#20

Looks Like My Artist Has Had Enough

Looks Like My Artist Has Had Enough

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#21

My Favorite City To Visit Due By

My Favorite City To Visit Due By

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R L
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

And a man should refuse to date someone who spells so atrociously.

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#22

Let Me Not Ask For Permission To Have My Wedding Here (God’s Plan)

Let Me Not Ask For Permission To Have My Wedding Here (God’s Plan)

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Wistiti
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

The moment the owners really appreciated have someone that guards the gate.

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#23

How Many Likes For Free Shoes?

How Many Likes For Free Shoes?

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#24

This Gem From 2018 | Severely Lowballing A Wedding Caterer

This Gem From 2018 | Severely Lowballing A Wedding Caterer

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#25

Removing Plastic Drops $200 Off. Seems Legit

Removing Plastic Drops $200 Off. Seems Legit

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Yuki Li
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I love how 'what do you mean' is the automated response haha. Apt.

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#26

This Happened To My Mother Today. She (Out Of The Goodness Of Her Heart) Offered Our House To An Acquaintance Of Hers So He Could Make A Short Film. The Man Went Overboard And Asked Us To Give Him Access To The Whole House (And Basically Move Out) For A Week

This Happened To My Mother Today. She (Out Of The Goodness Of Her Heart) Offered Our House To An Acquaintance Of Hers So He Could Make A Short Film. The Man Went Overboard And Asked Us To Give Him Access To The Whole House (And Basically Move Out) For A Week

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#27

Oh The Hypocrisy

Oh The Hypocrisy

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rspanther
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

In other words everyone deserves a living wage, just not from us.

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#28

Stranger Wants A Custom Order For Her Wedding, As A Gift

Stranger Wants A Custom Order For Her Wedding, As A Gift

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#29

This Is Not A Babysitting Job

This Is Not A Babysitting Job

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cybermerlin2000
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Report them to the Job Centre and their base commander or whatever their highest ranking officer is

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I've Officially Dropped Out Of The Bridal Party. I'm A Size 12 With No Plans On Dropping To A Size 8 By December

I've Officially Dropped Out Of The Bridal Party. I'm A Size 12 With No Plans On Dropping To A Size 8 By December

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I I
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

one wedding i'd be glad to miss , $500 towards their honeymoon , yeah fck right off

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Sum Guy
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

What bothered me the most is when she said, the only child who will be at the wedding will be the flower girl. she will only be present to throw the flowers then her parents will take her home... so, not only the child not invited, the parents also are basically not invited to the wedding since they have to take a child home after the 1st bit of the wedding

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LH25
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It's another sign she sees her wedding like a play/production. And not a celebration with family and friends of marrying someone she loves

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There Is No Planet B
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Icing on the cake: I read this story before, and the reason why her supposed "best friend" is not in the wedding party is because...drumroll please... she's a person of color, and that would clash with her vision, that she dreamed since she was in diaper!!! You know, the aesthetics of the whole production! You thought you couldn't despise her anymore than you did, didn't you?!?!

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K. Anderson
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

WOW!! I was thinking she was over weight. I do NOT understand why people think any of this matters? I would rather have a happy marriage than a wedding. I literally ONE DAY of your life. Imagine caring that someone skin color didn’t match.., NO ONE ELSE CARES

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Scagsy
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2 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Some poor sod is gonna marry that. Let's all take a moment to send him thoughts and prayers.

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Babsevs
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Assuming he is not also as bad as her..... Could be facilitating the whole dreadful mission go keep this bridezilla happy :|

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Seabeast
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

"I planned this since I was in diapers". So it doesn't matter who the groom is, any male with a pulse will do?

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Leo Domitrix
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I hope the groom fled at high speed. With the size 12. Which is, at many heights, perfectly respectable and within healthy range, thank you very much.

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Ty Stratton-Quirk
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

"No offense to anyone but I have had this planned since I was in diapers and want it perfect. So someone needs to find a unicorn and some clouds that rain full sized Snickers bars; I don't want any of that bitesize s**t."

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Christina L
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

She's got some nerve. I feel sorry for her friends, family and her inevitable ex husband.

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Jenny Rosbach
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I'm so embarrassed for this bride, very out of touch. The clincher was the $500 honeymoon donation!

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Sarah Tate
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Anyone who says the can't wait to be a "wifey" should be permanently banned from ever getting married! That word makes me want to vomit.

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K. Anderson
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Why do people care so much about their wedding? No one else does- trust me. I have stopped going to them. I think they are stupid & indulgent

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Michelle Rutherford
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I'd donate money to the groom to help him run far away from this grotesque degenerate.

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Luna
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

OK winter is usually cold af and miserable. Big winds too.

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Gwyn
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Is being a "wifey" code for mooching off some pitiful dude who is supposed to make sure everything revolves around you for the rest of your life? Hope he got out.

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François Carré
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

"I have had this planned since I was in diapers and want it perfect" sounds like the core of all nightmares to me.

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Pascale Pierloot
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Do tell me who's the sucker you are going to make so miserable, dear?

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Marco Conti
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

If I were the commander of an alien starship and read this, I would use the death ray without a moment of doubt or regret. Turn the entire planet to cinder.

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Id row
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

"But it's my DREAM to make ridiculous demands and fleece all of you to pay for my entitled extravagance!" gtfoh with that.

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IcarusOfTheSkywings
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

People in diapers are generally not very realistic about wedding plans.

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Good girl wanna be.
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This is incredibly sad and hysterically funny at the same time. Got my laugh on for the day!

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RedstonewolfX
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Sh... She wants people to conform to the party she made as a child and to donate $500...

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elfin
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

There is nothing "perfect" about treating your bridesmaids like Barbie dolls. This woman should still be in diapers 'cause she's full of it.

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Buzz Anderson
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

WOW, pay for her honeymoon as well? Hope no one becomes a bridesmaid.

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Philly Bob Squires
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

If I was the groom, I'd nope the hell outta there faster than lightspeed...

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猫Rose
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

December, Oklahoma, 70°, and Sunny? What Alternate universe is this lady living in?

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Brandi VanSteenwyk
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I thought I have finally heard it all.... Until I got to that last paragraph.

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Sarah
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I hope if she did have that wedding in some form, it was 19F with a wind chill of -27F. Which, yes, can totally happen in Oklahoma in December.

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InfectedVoice
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

How long was she in diapers for if she remembers planning this, I definitely have no recollection of my time spent in nappies.

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Oskar vanZandt
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Who would ever want to be friends with such a person in the first place? Crazy sh*t!

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Jay Tesst
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

What's not to love about volunteering for someone else's dream wedding, going on a strict diet and paying 500 bucks for the privilege. Oh wait, that's right, there is nothing to love about this.

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Jaguarundi
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

She'll be lucky to make it to Hawai'i before he dumps her.

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lith
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

reading this felt the same as watching a horror movie.. truly the stuff of nightmares

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#32

Male Seeking New Housemates For Free But Makes It Up With ‘Fun Cool Vibes’

Male Seeking New Housemates For Free But Makes It Up With ‘Fun Cool Vibes’

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My Mom Has A Little Free Library In Her Yard. Someone Left Her This Note The Other Day With A Crossed Out Smiley Face

My Mom Has A Little Free Library In Her Yard. Someone Left Her This Note The Other Day With A Crossed Out Smiley Face

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Actual Quote From An Influencer Who Wanted Me To Address 250 Wedding Invites And Save The Date Cards. If It's "Just Writing" Surely You Can Do It Yourself

Actual Quote From An Influencer Who Wanted Me To Address 250 Wedding Invites And Save The Date Cards. If It's "Just Writing" Surely You Can Do It Yourself

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Guys, She Might Cry

Guys, She Might Cry

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