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We’re all familiar with the saying that beggars can’t be choosers—if you desperately need or want something, then you should be willing to sit down and be humble. How often does that happen, though? Honestly? Not as often as it should. The world’s full of arrogant, privileged choosing beggars who think they’re royalty and throw a fit if someone can’t meet their unfair expectations.

The worst of the worst get shamed on r/ChoosingBeggars, a community of nearly 2.2 million people who call out people who are being way too picky when begging for things. If you’re ever in a situation where you’re unsure if what you’re doing is right or wrong, the ‘Choosing Beggars’ subreddit is your North Star on how not to behave.

Have a look through some of the most popular recent posts about choosing beggars, upvote the ones that infuriated you the most, and let us know if you’ve ever dealt with similar people in your lives, dear Pandas. Got the patience to stomach some more pretentious and privileged individuals? Check out Bored Panda’s most recent posts about r/ChoosingBeggars right here, here, and here.

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My Dad's A Photographer, This Is His Most Recent Client

My Dad's A Photographer, This Is His Most Recent Client

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Asking The Author Of The Book Where They Can Pirate It (I'm Not The Author, And The Book Is Not Coming From A Big-Time Publisher)

Asking The Author Of The Book Where They Can Pirate It (I'm Not The Author, And The Book Is Not Coming From A Big-Time Publisher)

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Many choosing beggars either want huge discounts for products that their hearts are set on or… they want things completely for free or exposure. Calling these people ‘cheap’ would do a disservice to just how impolite and demanding some of them truly are.

Rudeness and a false sense of entitlement are just the tip of the iceberg when it comes to choosing beggars. You see, they think they’re special and that the entire world has to dance to their tune because… well… just because!

#4

Local BBQ Place With Free Beer Calls Out Specific Yelper For Being A Cb. Love The Food And The Attitude At This Place

Local BBQ Place With Free Beer Calls Out Specific Yelper For Being A Cb. Love The Food And The Attitude At This Place

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A representative of the London-based Freelancer Club explained to me in a previous interview about saying ‘no’ to unpaid work. The organization aims to put a stop to exploitative unpaid work and late payments in the freelance sector.

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“We are working hard to change the culture around working for exposure, experience, prestige, and the promise of paid work in the future by educating new and aspiring freelancers. We highlight the impact it has on their career, show them how valuable they are, and work on their self-worth,” the representative told Bored Panda earlier. “On the company side, we show them how paying freelancers fairly is better for their bottom line as well as their long-term reputation. In addition, we are pressuring the government to change legislation that will provide more legal protection for freelancers who are clearly being exploited for their talent.”

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The Cheek Of Some People....

The Cheek Of Some People....

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Nixxy
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Poor artist. I hope the person who said that they were an idiot went to hell.

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Potential Client Doesn’t Think I Can Do Math Apparently

Potential Client Doesn’t Think I Can Do Math Apparently

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Bernd Herbert
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Funny how parents often cheap out on their babysitters. And by the way: "we want someone who isn't in just for the money!" What in the actual f**k? Those people need to be asked if they would to their job for half the money...

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Those people and companies that suggest to others that they should work for exposure instead of for money end up showing everyone how they view others and what they think they’re worth.

“Many see freelancers, particularly in the creative sector, as hobbyists and believe they can get away with ‘paying’ in exposure. They leverage their audience size, their brand name, or the allure of gaining recognition. This is why services in exchange for exposure is commonplace in glamourous sectors such as fashion, music, and film,” the rep from the Freelancer Club said.

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This Was On One Of My Mom Pages, I Couldn't Believe It Was Local And That These Kind Of People Actually Exist, It Makes Me Sick To Think About

This Was On One Of My Mom Pages, I Couldn't Believe It Was Local And That These Kind Of People Actually Exist, It Makes Me Sick To Think About

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Broke Boy

Broke Boy

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River Webb
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

you know you're a jerk when you complain about others when they are being nice

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“From a freelancer point of view, they are often told that working for exposure is a rite of passage or an essential part of building a portfolio by their teachers, college professors, and peers. This has created a culture of exploitation that we must address at both ends. At Freelancer Club, we take a hardline and suggest freelancers say ‘no.’ The issue is that some ‘freelancers’ are individuals with a passion who will freely give their work away for exposure whilst professionals rely on payment to survive. This muddies the water.”

#13

How Are My Kids Supposed To Live Without Juice?!

How Are My Kids Supposed To Live Without Juice?!

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River Webb
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

this is great! this food bank probably made many families' Christmas! f*** that lady though she's a jerk

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All These Teens Do Is Play Fortnite And Take Drugs! They Should Work For Me For Free!

All These Teens Do Is Play Fortnite And Take Drugs! They Should Work For Me For Free!

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KJ
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Ah poor person, imagine not being able to use teenagers as slaves when your doing it out of the goodness of your heart, lol!

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Andy Acceber
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Fined? He should be imprisoned. I don't get why wage theft is more acceptable than burglary. You're cheated out of your hard-earned work either way. We need to start balancing white collar and blue collar crimes, when the effect is the same.

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⚞ Katniss Everdeen ⚟
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Wage theft is actually worse in many cases than corporation shoplifting, because while taking $5 worth of something from a large chain will have little effect on the success of the corporation overall, wage theft can leave an entire family homeless and food insecure.

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Martha Meyer
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Hmm, a free summer to do what you want to do or a summer doing slave labour? Can't decide what I'd like better!

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River Webb
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

"I'm f****** pissed cause I lack basic empathy and humanity and can't see why people would need a living wage" there thats better

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Seabeast
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

And rants against "socialism" and "welfare queens"... while getting a stipend from the government.

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Bernd Herbert
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

So the only alternative for kids are Job vs. Crime & drugs. uh, well no

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Heather Menard
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

If all they do is play video games then they are already off the streets

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Seabeast
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

"A stipend from the government" = getting free money from the taxpayers. I bet this guy rails against "socialism", except when it's him getting it.

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Neil Bidle
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

"I am educating them out of my pocket", says the guy who literally just got fined for NOT PAYING HIS STAFF

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Jon Steensen
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

If you do not pay them but they work for free for you, then you are not hirering them! Volenteerng work can sometimes be a good thing, e.g. when done for a non profit organisation and the one doing the work enjoyt it, but what is proposed here is just plain exploitation, and you even expect the goverment to pay you for their work?

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JennyLaRue
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Not sure how much the kids would learn from someone who can't pay staff

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C.S.
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Because that's called slavery you complete waste of air dipshit.

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Sue Hazlewood
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

"hiring for free"? Look up the word hiring. Also "staff" implies they are paid by you doofus.

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CatWoman312
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Why can’t slavery be legal I’m keeping criminals off the street!!?? 🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️

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Shauna Voigt
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It appears he hired them for pay and then didn't pay them for the work they did. Hence the reason he was fined for wage theft.

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Grace and Lucy
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Nice try but your rationalized free offers are plain dumb. Motivation is not your strong suit.

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Lori T Wisconsin
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

As a kid I worked on local farms in exchange for veggies and eggs for the fam. Loved the work, learned a lot. The owners were not wealthy, just small family farms desperate to scratch out a living. They taught me all about organic gardening, canning produce and self sufficiency. They never expected anyone to work for free even though they didn't have much money, they respected everyone.

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GC Rovario-Cole
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I'm pretty sure hiring someone involves paying them. If they're not getting paid, they're volunteers.

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David carro
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

So you were fined for promoting slavery, and you are the pissed one? What about the people working for no money?

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tuzdayschild
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Because, since 1863, we've been frowning on that sort of thing.

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InfectedVoice
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Damn I wish the government would pay me for using modern-day slavery, is what I took from that.

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François Carré
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Coming up with the idea that ALL teenagers = drug addicts and criminals is kinda sad, since it tells that this person has had no occasion to actually talk to young people in a very, very long time.

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Faith Hurst
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I think is the guy who use to own a chicken place around here. Or the one Mexican restaurant. It's happened a few times around here. They figured kids would have any recourse. They were wrong and the entire community refused to support their businesses.

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Nikki Sevven
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Not only does this absolute garbage bag of a person expect free labor from teens, but also he expect the government to pay HIM for "hiring" them. There are times when I fear for my faith in humanity. This is one such time.

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AngelWingsYT
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Lets see...work for this d**k for free....or do something i enjoy for free.....hmmmmmm tough choice here

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Mazer
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Awwwww pissed off at getting caught. Happens to every low life

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PeachPossum
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

He must have skipped the day that management class discussed unpaid interns. Even that rankles me: unpaid intern = white-collar slave legal loophole

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Caro Caro
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

He can teach the kids to say f^%k! Hiring for free does not make you an employer.

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Lena Flising
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

How is it YOUR POCKET, when you don't pay them? Oh, and how do you keep crime rates down when you don't pay them so they can buy essentials?

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RedstonewolfX
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Stipend = a regular sum of payment. This person expects to be PAID to receive FREE LABOR

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Tom Spade
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Candidate campaigning for an ass-whooping there. I would elect his ass before he got 2 syllables out, lol. He used the word "stipend". That, and rationalizations and implied entitlement, indicate to me a possibility, if not a downright probability, that this crusty piece of feculence actually believes the s**t he said. F****n wow.

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Randy Klefbeck
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Those teens won't be staying off the street if you aren't paying them for work. And you want a stipend from the govt. also? Your business is not going to last very long, Scrooge.

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Celtic Pirate Queen
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2 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

"Me hiring them for free" is a complete contradiction, you moron. When you HIRE someone it is with the expectation that they will receive actual money - as in a wage, which does NOT MEAN FREE. Where do these douchebags come from? I tried to explain (repeatedly) to the GM at a former company that you could not switch someone to salary and then still expect them to work 60 hours week without compensation. I was the DoA/HR Manager and could basically recite WA State labor law in my sleep. An anonymous phone call to L&I took care of that little problem right quick.

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Me
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Plus hundreds of these kids make money in online video gaming tournaments. My son made $1100 in one tournament. Many gamers make much more.

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Vicky Zar
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Interesting how different countries work. I had 2 "apprenticeships" (we call them Praktikum) during my school years. They were mandatory and coordinated with the school. They were not payed in general but we still got some compensation. They were there, so we could see how it is to work and maybe find something what we would like to do in the future. What we call apprenticeship is a 3 year long dual schooling with 3 days at work and 2 days in school, where we learn our craft AND GET PAYED FOR IT!

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Vicky Zar
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Plus 25-30 days payed vacation, unlimited "sick days", christmas bonus and of course a proper health care (the employer pays half).

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Terry Tobias
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

If this person is an "employer" and wants to "hire" teens, doesn't that imply payment for services rendered?

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Lola
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

They sure as hell won’t be working for free. The nerve some people have.

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Seabeast
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2 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It's not necessarily a boomer. Why on earth would you assume that? Mostly it's the "influencer" generation who expects free stuff.

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Lex
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This person does realize that adults commit crimes, too?

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Tinder of the SkyWings
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I AM A SCUDDING TEEN AND I STILL WOULDN'T WORK FOR FREE. THE NERVE OF SOME PEOPLE.

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Christina Rosetti
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Unfortunately this kind of arrangement is also called an "internship", and it is still extremely common.

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Raven DeathShade
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Yeesh, I can't even find someone to hire me. Every website I go to is either "18 year olds and up only" or I apply and nothing happens.

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AA Matty
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

When this guy was a teenager, how would he feel working for a for profit business and not getting paid? Though I am not so sure that this guy ever worked a crap job as a kid considering that he was ready to screw over a bunch of kids.

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Robert Thompson
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

An employee's job is to make the boss money. If the employee can't do their job, they should be fired. This kind of relationship always makes sure there is enough money for payroll.

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Benjamin Tang
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

He has a right to offer a unpaid internship. The kids have a right to refuse.

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#16

Everyday Troubles Of Freelancers

Everyday Troubles Of Freelancers

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Owner Of Three Restaurants In The Suburbs Of Chicago Asks His Customers To Pay His Wait Staff A Better Wage

Owner Of Three Restaurants In The Suburbs Of Chicago Asks His Customers To Pay His Wait Staff A Better Wage

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#18

Hey Can I Steal Your Art For 7 Bucks ?

Hey Can I Steal Your Art For 7 Bucks ?

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Instagram Model Asks For Private Booth, 10 Free Guests And Bottle Service In Exchange For One Social Media Post

Instagram Model Asks For Private Booth, 10 Free Guests And Bottle Service In Exchange For One Social Media Post

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Bernd Herbert
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2 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

To me "I am an instagram model" sounds like "I'm a Madden Football Player"

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Looks Like My Artist Has Had Enough

Looks Like My Artist Has Had Enough

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My Favorite City To Visit Due By

My Favorite City To Visit Due By

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R L
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

And a man should refuse to date someone who spells so atrociously.

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Let Me Not Ask For Permission To Have My Wedding Here (God’s Plan)

Let Me Not Ask For Permission To Have My Wedding Here (God’s Plan)

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Wistiti
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

The moment the owners really appreciated have someone that guards the gate.

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How Many Likes For Free Shoes?

How Many Likes For Free Shoes?

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This Gem From 2018 | Severely Lowballing A Wedding Caterer

This Gem From 2018 | Severely Lowballing A Wedding Caterer

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Removing Plastic Drops $200 Off. Seems Legit

Removing Plastic Drops $200 Off. Seems Legit

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Yuki Li
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I love how 'what do you mean' is the automated response haha. Apt.

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This Happened To My Mother Today. She (Out Of The Goodness Of Her Heart) Offered Our House To An Acquaintance Of Hers So He Could Make A Short Film. The Man Went Overboard And Asked Us To Give Him Access To The Whole House (And Basically Move Out) For A Week

This Happened To My Mother Today. She (Out Of The Goodness Of Her Heart) Offered Our House To An Acquaintance Of Hers So He Could Make A Short Film. The Man Went Overboard And Asked Us To Give Him Access To The Whole House (And Basically Move Out) For A Week

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Oh The Hypocrisy

Oh The Hypocrisy

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rspanther
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

In other words everyone deserves a living wage, just not from us.

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Stranger Wants A Custom Order For Her Wedding, As A Gift

Stranger Wants A Custom Order For Her Wedding, As A Gift

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This Is Not A Babysitting Job

This Is Not A Babysitting Job

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cybermerlin2000
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Report them to the Job Centre and their base commander or whatever their highest ranking officer is

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I've Officially Dropped Out Of The Bridal Party. I'm A Size 12 With No Plans On Dropping To A Size 8 By December

I've Officially Dropped Out Of The Bridal Party. I'm A Size 12 With No Plans On Dropping To A Size 8 By December

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Male Seeking New Housemates For Free But Makes It Up With ‘Fun Cool Vibes’

Male Seeking New Housemates For Free But Makes It Up With ‘Fun Cool Vibes’

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My Mom Has A Little Free Library In Her Yard. Someone Left Her This Note The Other Day With A Crossed Out Smiley Face

My Mom Has A Little Free Library In Her Yard. Someone Left Her This Note The Other Day With A Crossed Out Smiley Face

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Actual Quote From An Influencer Who Wanted Me To Address 250 Wedding Invites And Save The Date Cards. If It's "Just Writing" Surely You Can Do It Yourself

Actual Quote From An Influencer Who Wanted Me To Address 250 Wedding Invites And Save The Date Cards. If It's "Just Writing" Surely You Can Do It Yourself

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#35

Guys, She Might Cry

Guys, She Might Cry

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