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We’re all familiar with the saying that beggars can’t be choosers—if you desperately need or want something, then you should be willing to sit down and be humble. How often does that happen, though? Honestly? Not as often as it should. The world’s full of arrogant, privileged choosing beggars who think they’re royalty and throw a fit if someone can’t meet their unfair expectations.

The worst of the worst get shamed on r/ChoosingBeggars, a community of nearly 2.2 million people who call out people who are being way too picky when begging for things. If you’re ever in a situation where you’re unsure if what you’re doing is right or wrong, the ‘Choosing Beggars’ subreddit is your North Star on how not to behave.

Have a look through some of the most popular recent posts about choosing beggars, upvote the ones that infuriated you the most, and let us know if you’ve ever dealt with similar people in your lives, dear Pandas. Got the patience to stomach some more pretentious and privileged individuals? Check out Bored Panda’s most recent posts about r/ChoosingBeggars right here, here, and here.

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My Dad's A Photographer, This Is His Most Recent Client

My Dad's A Photographer, This Is His Most Recent Client

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Asking The Author Of The Book Where They Can Pirate It (I'm Not The Author, And The Book Is Not Coming From A Big-Time Publisher)

Asking The Author Of The Book Where They Can Pirate It (I'm Not The Author, And The Book Is Not Coming From A Big-Time Publisher)

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Many choosing beggars either want huge discounts for products that their hearts are set on or… they want things completely for free or exposure. Calling these people ‘cheap’ would do a disservice to just how impolite and demanding some of them truly are.

Rudeness and a false sense of entitlement are just the tip of the iceberg when it comes to choosing beggars. You see, they think they’re special and that the entire world has to dance to their tune because… well… just because!

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Local BBQ Place With Free Beer Calls Out Specific Yelper For Being A Cb. Love The Food And The Attitude At This Place

Local BBQ Place With Free Beer Calls Out Specific Yelper For Being A Cb. Love The Food And The Attitude At This Place

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A representative of the London-based Freelancer Club explained to me in a previous interview about saying ‘no’ to unpaid work. The organization aims to put a stop to exploitative unpaid work and late payments in the freelance sector.

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“We are working hard to change the culture around working for exposure, experience, prestige, and the promise of paid work in the future by educating new and aspiring freelancers. We highlight the impact it has on their career, show them how valuable they are, and work on their self-worth,” the representative told Bored Panda earlier. “On the company side, we show them how paying freelancers fairly is better for their bottom line as well as their long-term reputation. In addition, we are pressuring the government to change legislation that will provide more legal protection for freelancers who are clearly being exploited for their talent.”

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How Ironic...

How Ironic...

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Rick Fitz
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2 years ago

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Communist, socialist, collectivist of all kinds are too stupid to understand irony. Socialism is evil, and anyone who embraces Socialism is unfit for civilized society and should be removed immediately. I hear that Cuba has a wonderful immigration program.

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Wilf
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

They might be a charity, but I will bet the CEO isn't doing their job for free. Unpaid internships are exploitative- full stop.

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Pat Bond
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I used to have to run the gauntlet of "chuggers" (charity muggers) most days at lunchtime. They were all young students from the nearby university. They were all paid for their time harassing the general public. I can quite handle a small one off donation, these snakes were after a monthly direct debit. The killer question was "What does your CEO earn? They looked back with confused expressions not knowing how to take it. I'd google it in front of them and without fail it was always a solid 6 figure salary from £200K upwards. I'm not giving my money to pay the running costs of some organistaion posing as a charity.

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Alexia
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Fight Against Slavery is looking for a slave, lol. I volunteered several times for charities, but never as a "personal assistant" of someone.

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Andy Acceber
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This has to be a joke. With a name like that, I can't believe any agency would be that daft.

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C A
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This is so common...I'm not even surprised anymore

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Ceri Buse
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Cannot believe the level of stupidity in the comments. All charities will often leverage off unpaid work, but at the end of the day, it is still *voluntary*. It's nothing like slavery, where people are bought and sold, and have no way out of their enforced predicament.

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Randy Klefbeck
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Personal Assistant is a job, not an internship. I would absolutely love to see the review of this organization from Charity Watch.

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Buzz Anderson
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

The most amazing thing is these idiots are too stupid to see their own irony.

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denzoren
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

"We work to fight the issues of Human Rights" says it all.

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Philippa Davies
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

As well as the irony, the bad grammar in this job post makes me want to steer clear

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Ella Blackwood
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Fight Against Slavery is a charity looking for a slave to operate as an unpaid Personal Assistant.

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Two_rolling_black_eyes
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Its another form of financial inequality to keep the wall up and a form of hazing for the elite. You have to be financially stable enough to go 3-12 months without a paycheck. The have-nots aren't going to be able to add a personal loan to their student loan to allow that to happen. The real purpose of the unpaid internships is a right of passage to show you are willing to make the sacrifices for the team and be "one of the guys". Its no coincidence they follow the same type of rules as a frat pledge week. If they truly valued you, they'd pay you.

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Mystery Egg
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I didn't think unpaid internships were legal in the UK? I mean, I know there is Work Experience but that can't be longer than two weeks.

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Mary Henry
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Ah lads, I think the British empire ,and our friend Cromwell got this one down

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Neil Bidle
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Never before seen an unpaid internship in the UK, pretty sure it's not legal.

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Leo Domitrix
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Just call it "volunteer without credit work" and get it over with.

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Evelyn Haskins
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Huh??? Who in their right minds EXPECTS payment for working for a charity?????| it is a charity for G...'s sake!

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Evelyn Haskins
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

NO. If you are working for a charity, you should be volunteering your time, NOT expecting others to donate so you can earn a salary/wage for begging from people.

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Jjiinnee
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Maybe they want their workers to experience the plight first hand for in depth knowledges.

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Two_rolling_black_eyes
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

If McDonalds has to pay me while I learn how to make french fries, you need to pay me while you make me go get coffee for the whole sales team. On the other hand, if you want me to do the same type as work as the sales team, you need to pay me as part of the sales team.

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Pascale Pierloot
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Depend on who's rights you want served? Everyone is intitled to work for free. 😉

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Franc Esca
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Unpaid internships in most of Europe are reimbursed nowadays though, but that's not the same as paid.

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The Cheek Of Some People....

The Cheek Of Some People....

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Poor artist. I hope the person who said that they were an idiot went to hell.

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#9

Potential Client Doesn’t Think I Can Do Math Apparently

Potential Client Doesn’t Think I Can Do Math Apparently

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Bernd Herbert
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Funny how parents often cheap out on their babysitters. And by the way: "we want someone who isn't in just for the money!" What in the actual f**k? Those people need to be asked if they would to their job for half the money...

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Those people and companies that suggest to others that they should work for exposure instead of for money end up showing everyone how they view others and what they think they’re worth.

“Many see freelancers, particularly in the creative sector, as hobbyists and believe they can get away with ‘paying’ in exposure. They leverage their audience size, their brand name, or the allure of gaining recognition. This is why services in exchange for exposure is commonplace in glamourous sectors such as fashion, music, and film,” the rep from the Freelancer Club said.

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#10

This Was On One Of My Mom Pages, I Couldn't Believe It Was Local And That These Kind Of People Actually Exist, It Makes Me Sick To Think About

This Was On One Of My Mom Pages, I Couldn't Believe It Was Local And That These Kind Of People Actually Exist, It Makes Me Sick To Think About

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Broke Boy

Broke Boy

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

you know you're a jerk when you complain about others when they are being nice

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“From a freelancer point of view, they are often told that working for exposure is a rite of passage or an essential part of building a portfolio by their teachers, college professors, and peers. This has created a culture of exploitation that we must address at both ends. At Freelancer Club, we take a hardline and suggest freelancers say ‘no.’ The issue is that some ‘freelancers’ are individuals with a passion who will freely give their work away for exposure whilst professionals rely on payment to survive. This muddies the water.”

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How Are My Kids Supposed To Live Without Juice?!

How Are My Kids Supposed To Live Without Juice?!

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River Webb
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

this is great! this food bank probably made many families' Christmas! f*** that lady though she's a jerk

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All These Teens Do Is Play Fortnite And Take Drugs! They Should Work For Me For Free!

All These Teens Do Is Play Fortnite And Take Drugs! They Should Work For Me For Free!

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KJ
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Ah poor person, imagine not being able to use teenagers as slaves when your doing it out of the goodness of your heart, lol!

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#16

Everyday Troubles Of Freelancers

Everyday Troubles Of Freelancers

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Owner Of Three Restaurants In The Suburbs Of Chicago Asks His Customers To Pay His Wait Staff A Better Wage

Owner Of Three Restaurants In The Suburbs Of Chicago Asks His Customers To Pay His Wait Staff A Better Wage

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#18

Hey Can I Steal Your Art For 7 Bucks ?

Hey Can I Steal Your Art For 7 Bucks ?

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Instagram Model Asks For Private Booth, 10 Free Guests And Bottle Service In Exchange For One Social Media Post

Instagram Model Asks For Private Booth, 10 Free Guests And Bottle Service In Exchange For One Social Media Post

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Bernd Herbert
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2 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

To me "I am an instagram model" sounds like "I'm a Madden Football Player"

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#20

Looks Like My Artist Has Had Enough

Looks Like My Artist Has Had Enough

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#21

My Favorite City To Visit Due By

My Favorite City To Visit Due By

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R L
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

And a man should refuse to date someone who spells so atrociously.

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Let Me Not Ask For Permission To Have My Wedding Here (God’s Plan)

Let Me Not Ask For Permission To Have My Wedding Here (God’s Plan)

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Wistiti
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

The moment the owners really appreciated have someone that guards the gate.

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#23

How Many Likes For Free Shoes?

How Many Likes For Free Shoes?

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#24

This Gem From 2018 | Severely Lowballing A Wedding Caterer

This Gem From 2018 | Severely Lowballing A Wedding Caterer

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#25

Removing Plastic Drops $200 Off. Seems Legit

Removing Plastic Drops $200 Off. Seems Legit

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I love how 'what do you mean' is the automated response haha. Apt.

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#26

This Happened To My Mother Today. She (Out Of The Goodness Of Her Heart) Offered Our House To An Acquaintance Of Hers So He Could Make A Short Film. The Man Went Overboard And Asked Us To Give Him Access To The Whole House (And Basically Move Out) For A Week

This Happened To My Mother Today. She (Out Of The Goodness Of Her Heart) Offered Our House To An Acquaintance Of Hers So He Could Make A Short Film. The Man Went Overboard And Asked Us To Give Him Access To The Whole House (And Basically Move Out) For A Week

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Oh The Hypocrisy

Oh The Hypocrisy

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rspanther
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

In other words everyone deserves a living wage, just not from us.

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#28

Stranger Wants A Custom Order For Her Wedding, As A Gift

Stranger Wants A Custom Order For Her Wedding, As A Gift

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#29

This Is Not A Babysitting Job

This Is Not A Babysitting Job

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Report them to the Job Centre and their base commander or whatever their highest ranking officer is

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I've Officially Dropped Out Of The Bridal Party. I'm A Size 12 With No Plans On Dropping To A Size 8 By December

I've Officially Dropped Out Of The Bridal Party. I'm A Size 12 With No Plans On Dropping To A Size 8 By December

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Male Seeking New Housemates For Free But Makes It Up With ‘Fun Cool Vibes’

Male Seeking New Housemates For Free But Makes It Up With ‘Fun Cool Vibes’

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My Mom Has A Little Free Library In Her Yard. Someone Left Her This Note The Other Day With A Crossed Out Smiley Face

My Mom Has A Little Free Library In Her Yard. Someone Left Her This Note The Other Day With A Crossed Out Smiley Face

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Actual Quote From An Influencer Who Wanted Me To Address 250 Wedding Invites And Save The Date Cards. If It's "Just Writing" Surely You Can Do It Yourself

Actual Quote From An Influencer Who Wanted Me To Address 250 Wedding Invites And Save The Date Cards. If It's "Just Writing" Surely You Can Do It Yourself

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#35

Guys, She Might Cry

Guys, She Might Cry

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