Mom Is Tired Of Calls From School Demanding She Bring Her Daughter To Class Because They Don’t Believe She’s Actually Sick, So She Maliciously Complies
Children try to avoid school for various reasons. So when Reddit user kissmegoodbi had missed class for an entire month, the main office got suspicious.
Even her mom, who repeatedly reassured them that her daughter was, in fact, ill couldn’t convince anyone.
So when the administrator threatened the family with social services, the woman decided that enough was enough, put a mask on her child, and took her to school with a highly contagious disease. She didn’t think anything else would suffice.
Years later, kissmegoodbi remembered the story and recently told it to the subreddit r/MaliciousCompliance. Here’s how the entire thing played out.
After a month of absence, her school didn’t believe this girl was actually sick and threatened her mom with social services
Image credits: Kelly Sikkema (Not the actual photo)
So the woman took the child to class with a highly contagious disease to prove it
According to Mayo Clinic, whooping cough (pertussis) is a respiratory tract infection—in many people, it’s marked by a severe hacking cough followed by a high-pitched intake of breath that sounds like “whoop.”
Before the vaccine was developed, whooping cough was considered a childhood disease, but now it primarily affects children too young to have completed the full course of vaccinations as well as teenagers and adults whose immunity has faded.
Deaths associated with the disease are rare and most commonly occur in infants. (That’s why it’s so important for pregnant women and other people who will have close contact with an infant to be vaccinated against whooping cough.)
Image credits: Kelly Sikkema (Not the actual photo)
Image credits: kissmegoodbi
As absurd as this particular case sounds, absenteeism is an issue in many schools.
“Students who are chronically absent—meaning they miss at least 15 days of school in a year—are at serious risk of falling behind,” the U.S. Department of Education said.
The numbers for the Civil Rights Data Collection (CRDC) were drawn from nearly every public school in the country and revealed that over 7 million students missed 15 or more days of school in 2015–16. (That’s 16 percent of the student population—or about 1 in 6 students.)
Although “unacceptable levels” of chronic absenteeism were found among all students, compared to their white peers, American Indian and Pacific Islander students were over 50 percent more likely to lose three weeks of school or more, while black students were 40 percent more likely, and Hispanic students were 17 percent more likely.
“Research suggests the reasons for chronic absenteeism are as varied as the challenges our students and families face—including poor health, limited transportation, and a lack of safety — which can be particularly acute in disadvantaged communities and areas of poverty,” the U.S. Department of Education added.
Different countries tackle this problem in different ways. Parents in England, for example, are being hit with an increasing number of fines as schools try to discourage children from missing school.
The number of non-attendance fines being handed out dropped off during the pandemic, as self-isolation rules and lockdowns led to millions of children learning at home, but there has been growing concern since it was revealed that almost 1.8 million children regularly missed school in the first term of this academic year.
As part of a mission to tackle this, parents have been fined £3.7M ($4.4m) for the school year so far, according to figures obtained by the BBC.
People had a lot to say about this ordeal and many of them shared similar stories of their own
As for whooping cough, we are still trying to eradicate it.
In fact, UK scientists are offering to pay people £3,775 ($4,500) to get infected with it as part of a vaccine trial.
Britons are being urged to take part in the study that would see them deliberately exposed to the bacterial infection after receiving the jab—they will then be monitored in a hotel room for 16 nights, where all their meals will be provided, to see how their condition develops.
The University Hospital Southampton are recruiting healthy 18 to 50-year-olds who live in the city to test the new nasal spray vaccine called BPZE1.
Even though a shot for whooping cough already exists, it cannot stop upper airway infections and does not prevent people from spreading it to others.
Your mom should have send you directly to talk with the admin lady and cough on her. No need for the extra steps, but i apreciate your moms effort to fight stupid assholes.
A friend's kid broke his ankle in gym class at the start of the day. Because he had a reputation for disturbances, they refused to believe him. Made him finish out the gym class (happened in the first half of class), and walk around on it all day. When he came home, she went ballistic. The school and involved teachers tried to make excuses, and then when the Complaint was made, they all stated he had not made any claims. At least 4 people whom should never be allowed around kids anymore, and nothing done, because they lied through their teeth, and used his history as a shield.
I had a similar experience but for the opposite reason. Broke my arm while playing tag at school during the morning break. Bone was visibly misaligned but all they did was give me an ice pack cause I guess I didn’t complain enough. My mom wasn’t too pleased with the school either when I came home… I feel really sorry for your friend’s kid though, an experience like that can really harm your trust in others (I was fine, just remember having to do the Macarena with one bent arm. My personal issues stem from other experiences 😄)
Load More Replies...When I had chicken pox at 16 or 17 I was home for over a month. We got a doctors notice and gave it to my mentor (teacher "in charge" of me) and thought that was it. When I came back all other teachers and my class mates were amazed, they thought I'd dropped out since he hadn't informed anyone. Somehow this was my fault as I should've known he wasn't reliable and should have expected home work.
A person can be ill for *years*, so.... yeah, screw that administrator. They're not a doctor. Epstein-Barr virus (mono) can lay a person flat for six weeks; measles with complications, ditto; flu with complications, same; Covid, same; I can go on for another ten illnesses. And that doesn't count ones that cause diarrhea as a primary symptom. Let doctors and patients decide medical care; leave admin and lawyers out of it!
Wait, medical care should start with medical professionals? Burn the heretic! /s (Seriously though, yes, seems sort of obvious)
Load More Replies...When I was a kid, the schools allowed parents to parent. If they called a child in sick, they were sick with no questions asked. They also sent school work home for the kid to do while they were sick. I was out of school for about a month in 3rd grade. My sister brought my school work home for me and my parents tutored me as needed. This was in 1963 or so. Now, with my grandkids, the school administration acts like the SS. They are the bosses and the parents are idiots. It is totally backward!
Where I live they still don’t ask anything if the kid is sick.
Load More Replies...Went through this with my son this year and him getting strep. I have letters threatening to take me to court even though I complied with the school and health boards new regulations with covid. Covid tests, Dr Apts and notes each and every time. I would get a letter a couple days after he went back threatening court! It's unbelievable. Do you want me to send my child that has a fever and is highly contagious back to class? Like come on people!
Mom to admin:"Are you a doctor?" Admin: "No" Mom to admin: "STFU, MYOB"
I had a really bad reaction to the whooping cough vaccine as a baby, so my mother was too afraid to let my younger sister get it. Lil Sis got whooping cough when she was in middle school, which caused a small outbreak in the school. The CDC had to be officially notified and the school shut down for like 2 weeks.
My son, who is now 27, fell in PE at age 12 while running sprints BACKWARDS as required by the teacher. The nurse called me and said he MIGHT have hurt his right wrist but it wasn't swollen. I took him to the ER and BOTH wrists were broken. This was on a Friday and they had to make him come back that Monday to set them. Fast forward 3 months later after completely being recovered for weeks and he and his best friend almost are attacked by a neighbor's dog. He falls running. The next day he says his arm is numb and goes to the nurse. I take him to his orthopedic doctor and his elbow AND wrist are fractured. I was questioned for nearly an hour and was threatened with DHR. Turns out he was in puberty, had a long growth plate and very high tolerance for pain. He recovered with no further injuries, became a Marine and now is married with a son and baby on the way.
When I was in high school, mom had to be in the hospital. Naturally, I came down with something so bad my hair hurt. Dad's shift started at 6 am, so when he got home he called and said said Mom was in hospital, I'd be out sick for the rest of the week, and not to disturb me. School said that would be fine. The next day, school called. I told them Dad had called and and I'd be out sick, not to disturb me, and was told that was fine, they could call him at work to confirm, and they weren't to disturb me again. The next day they called again. In my fever induced delirium, (not quite high enough for professional attention) I repeated what I'd said the day before in probably a scary voice, and told them I wouldn't want to be them if I told Dad they'd disturbed me with what felt like being headfirst in a trash can with people beating it wit baseball bats. They didn't call again, and I didn't tell Dad because he'd be very upset indeed.
Your mom should have send you directly to talk with the admin lady and cough on her. No need for the extra steps, but i apreciate your moms effort to fight stupid assholes.
A friend's kid broke his ankle in gym class at the start of the day. Because he had a reputation for disturbances, they refused to believe him. Made him finish out the gym class (happened in the first half of class), and walk around on it all day. When he came home, she went ballistic. The school and involved teachers tried to make excuses, and then when the Complaint was made, they all stated he had not made any claims. At least 4 people whom should never be allowed around kids anymore, and nothing done, because they lied through their teeth, and used his history as a shield.
I had a similar experience but for the opposite reason. Broke my arm while playing tag at school during the morning break. Bone was visibly misaligned but all they did was give me an ice pack cause I guess I didn’t complain enough. My mom wasn’t too pleased with the school either when I came home… I feel really sorry for your friend’s kid though, an experience like that can really harm your trust in others (I was fine, just remember having to do the Macarena with one bent arm. My personal issues stem from other experiences 😄)
Load More Replies...When I had chicken pox at 16 or 17 I was home for over a month. We got a doctors notice and gave it to my mentor (teacher "in charge" of me) and thought that was it. When I came back all other teachers and my class mates were amazed, they thought I'd dropped out since he hadn't informed anyone. Somehow this was my fault as I should've known he wasn't reliable and should have expected home work.
A person can be ill for *years*, so.... yeah, screw that administrator. They're not a doctor. Epstein-Barr virus (mono) can lay a person flat for six weeks; measles with complications, ditto; flu with complications, same; Covid, same; I can go on for another ten illnesses. And that doesn't count ones that cause diarrhea as a primary symptom. Let doctors and patients decide medical care; leave admin and lawyers out of it!
Wait, medical care should start with medical professionals? Burn the heretic! /s (Seriously though, yes, seems sort of obvious)
Load More Replies...When I was a kid, the schools allowed parents to parent. If they called a child in sick, they were sick with no questions asked. They also sent school work home for the kid to do while they were sick. I was out of school for about a month in 3rd grade. My sister brought my school work home for me and my parents tutored me as needed. This was in 1963 or so. Now, with my grandkids, the school administration acts like the SS. They are the bosses and the parents are idiots. It is totally backward!
Where I live they still don’t ask anything if the kid is sick.
Load More Replies...Went through this with my son this year and him getting strep. I have letters threatening to take me to court even though I complied with the school and health boards new regulations with covid. Covid tests, Dr Apts and notes each and every time. I would get a letter a couple days after he went back threatening court! It's unbelievable. Do you want me to send my child that has a fever and is highly contagious back to class? Like come on people!
Mom to admin:"Are you a doctor?" Admin: "No" Mom to admin: "STFU, MYOB"
I had a really bad reaction to the whooping cough vaccine as a baby, so my mother was too afraid to let my younger sister get it. Lil Sis got whooping cough when she was in middle school, which caused a small outbreak in the school. The CDC had to be officially notified and the school shut down for like 2 weeks.
My son, who is now 27, fell in PE at age 12 while running sprints BACKWARDS as required by the teacher. The nurse called me and said he MIGHT have hurt his right wrist but it wasn't swollen. I took him to the ER and BOTH wrists were broken. This was on a Friday and they had to make him come back that Monday to set them. Fast forward 3 months later after completely being recovered for weeks and he and his best friend almost are attacked by a neighbor's dog. He falls running. The next day he says his arm is numb and goes to the nurse. I take him to his orthopedic doctor and his elbow AND wrist are fractured. I was questioned for nearly an hour and was threatened with DHR. Turns out he was in puberty, had a long growth plate and very high tolerance for pain. He recovered with no further injuries, became a Marine and now is married with a son and baby on the way.
When I was in high school, mom had to be in the hospital. Naturally, I came down with something so bad my hair hurt. Dad's shift started at 6 am, so when he got home he called and said said Mom was in hospital, I'd be out sick for the rest of the week, and not to disturb me. School said that would be fine. The next day, school called. I told them Dad had called and and I'd be out sick, not to disturb me, and was told that was fine, they could call him at work to confirm, and they weren't to disturb me again. The next day they called again. In my fever induced delirium, (not quite high enough for professional attention) I repeated what I'd said the day before in probably a scary voice, and told them I wouldn't want to be them if I told Dad they'd disturbed me with what felt like being headfirst in a trash can with people beating it wit baseball bats. They didn't call again, and I didn't tell Dad because he'd be very upset indeed.
































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