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As the #youknowme movement takes off, I'm reminded of my project that I created with Jennifer Baumgardner more than ten years ago, about women activists who had abortions. This photo series is still relevant today as many find abortion a taboo subject, and won't talk about their experiences.

I wanted the series to be straightforward so that the simplicity of the women's portraits would standout. This is not a faceless issue. I wanted the viewer to see these women's incredible stories behind the t-shirt. Among the portraits is one of my own mother. The goal is to spark discussion and debate, and not just between people that already hold similar views. This is an issue that is a part of us all. And by speaking up, and telling our stories, we make abortion a less confrontational topic in American society.

Please share your stories and let's start talking.

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Florence Rice

Florence Rice

Florence Rice, 86 (at the time the photo was taken), was raised in the foster care system in NYC. She saw her mother only a handful of times throughout her childhood. When she got pregnant as a young single woman in the 1930’s she decided to have the baby. A few years later as a working single mother, she found herself pregnant again and knew that she didn’t want to be like her mother, unable to take care of the child, so she had an abortion. She got a serious infection afterwards from her illegal, unclean abortion. In 1969 when feminists began speaking out about their abortions, Florence was one of the first to do so. Her story underscored a class divide: richer women got safer abortions, poorer women were more likely to end up at a butcher.

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Liberty Aldrich And Joe Saunders

Liberty Aldrich And Joe Saunders

Liberty Aldrich and Joe Saunders with their sons. Liberty and Joe had an abortion together early in their relationship, stayed together and eventually had two sons when their lives were better equipped to have children.

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Mewton’s Third Paw
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Makes perfect sense. Not every abortion is a scary story about an abusive relationship or strict family or medical emergency. Sometimes you’re just not ready, and will get to it later.

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Jenny Egan

Jenny Egan

Jenny Egan, 25 (at the time the photo was taken), was raised in a rural Oregan town in a Morman family. When she was 16 she got pregnant by her boyfriend from sex that was not totally consensual. After the abortion, which she had without telling her family, her parents received a letter from a group called the Brotherhood informing them of her procedure. Her mother was horrified and ordered her to leave the house.

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Sarcastic Cow
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I hope the ´Brotherhood´ rot in hell they have invented.

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Ani-87
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I hope the mom is miserable because of what she did, you don’t kick your 16 year old child on the streets

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Aunt Messy
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

“Not totally consensual” is rape. We need to stop allowing people to use mealy mouthed euphemisms for a felony.

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WillemPenn
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Exactly. It either is consensual or it is not. If it is not, it is rape. And if you use undue influence like extortion or blackmail ("I'll tell everyone we slept together anyway," "I'll break up with you," "I'll tell your parents you smoke weed," etc.), guess what a**hat? That is psychological violence and the sex is not consensual even if you changed that "no" to a "yes." Congrats, you are still a rapist.

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lephiro
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Who the hell is the Brotherhood and how did they get information about her procedure?

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Scott
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

There are informants in certain communities, especially Mormon. I would have suggested she sue because it violates her rights under HIPA.

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Hans
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

"not totally consensual"? I think this phrasing is verz problematic. There is "yes" and there is "no". Anything in between is also "no", and so is a later change from "yes" to "no".

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Zenozenobee
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I think it depends on who used this phrasing. If it' the person who wrote the article then, this is problematic, because "not totally consensual" is an euphemism for "rape" and this should be written that way. Yet, if it's Jenny Egan that used this phrasing, it's perfectly legit. It's not that simple to recognise yourself as a victime, it sometimes easier deal with it by not naming it....

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Christina Sersif
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

disgusting. You daughter was raped, that part doesn't horrify you? It doesn't horrify you that your daughter was too afraid to tell you? This is sad all around. You're so strong Jenny.

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Ang.stl
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I agree Jenny is extremely strong. And I promise I'm not saying her mother was right by any means, because she wasn't, but I'm sure "The Brotherhood" didn't tell the mother or parents about the rape. Cute how "The Brotherhood" has such a woman friendly name, right? Not misogynistic at all. Jerks.

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Aileen White
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Well another lovely caring mother who puts religion before her own daughter who desperately needed her mother's love and support.

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Alethea Fletcher
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Sadly, I bet that her mother would have ordered her to leave the house had she told her she was pregnant. Toxic and evil mother. I truly hope that Jenny has thrived since, and knows she is a valued and cherished woman, despite how her mother treated her.

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BusLady
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Awful that her mother reacted that way. A teen girl on the streets is at great risk. The BF should have been arrested.

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Susie McDonagh
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

omg how dare they. Brotherhood will meet their makers I'm sure. Jenny I hope that life is good for you. No one deserves to be treated that way. <3

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Lora Blankenship
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Sorry, Ben, but it's still a woman's body and her choice as to what grows in it.

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Taryn Wallace
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

WTF!!!!! What about HIPPA laws how the hell did this Brotherhood get her private medical information!!!!! Aaaggghhhh this is such a hot button topic for me!!!! We have the right to choose what we do with our bodies and we especially have that right when we were raped by pieces of s**t who we trusted!!!

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Wendy Brown
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I'll gladly be your mom since yours wasn't. Being a parent you love unconditionally.

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Kim Lorton
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

People . You vote them in, and if they don’t help you as they say they will, you can vote them out. Guard your power fiercely! Make yourselves heard. Stand up for the rights, and don’t let all the women who fought hard to win women the vote, for better health care, better baby care. Stand up, and be counted!

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Monika Soffronow
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

True. True. True. VOTE, people, VOTE! You can also vote with your money, as in boycotting products and services from the states that are trying to make abortion illegal, by not going there as a tourist, by not attending college or university in those states, etc, etc, etc. If I lived there, i would even think of moving to some other state, in protest.

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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Women need to wake up and take our power back! Nothing good comes from having men in control of what we do with our bodies! Nothing! Those women who think it’s ok, don’t fully understand what this means to women everywhere! They want women to not have abortions, but there are no bills to identify the extreme need for better adoption and foster services! Whois going to take care of these babies!? Not them men apparently. Nor the women who feel it’s ok to let men decide what they can do with their bodies. THINK, LADIES AND GIRLS! Get out and vote! Petition your lawmakers to make better and safer. Notices for women. If they don’t, vote them out. When the men take the ability for us to decide what happens to our bodies, they will take back even more... working, firing and hiring of women, and eventually, the right to vote. If you want to live like this, with no say so about your own lives, go ahead and remain silent. If you don’t, then get smart here, and vote, talk to your political .

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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It's spelled "Oregon" and that's really bothering me. But the Mormon family thing I can relate to, if I ever had an abortion I would certainly be disowned.

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Kathy
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Wait a second here. What’s the brotherhood? Isn’t there laws protecting ones privacy? How would these people find out?

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Juan Alcorta
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

What is "not totally consensual" sex? Did she or did she not want to have sex?

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Monika Soffronow
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I too would be sorry if spelling mistakes was all I saw worthy of commenting on ... By the way, "Texan" is an adjective and I suppose the writer mimicked that use.

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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I am a Morman (Member of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints) and I assure you that Jenny Egan didn't follow the Gospel or have a real testimony. If she did she would have understood tat she murdered a child of God, and broke the law of chastity. She could have talked to her Bishop and handled the situation better then murdering the fetus.

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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

kinda remind me this: "That's what we are: ghosts. Waiting for you in the dark. You can't see us, but we see you. No matter whose cloak you wear: Lannister, Stark, Baratheon, you prey on the weak, the Brotherhood Without Banners will hunt you down."

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How does a 16 year get such an invasive procedure with parental consent? Parents have to give consent if the child goes on a field trip or gets a physical. A 16 year old does not have the mental capacity to make such a major decision.

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Ang.stl
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Each state has their own age limit, and if you believe the post on my mom's Facebook feed, 11 year olds are raped then married to their abusers, so why can't a 16 year old understand the consequences of her actions?

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why not use birth control ? I don't understand the need to kill a baby when you can be responsible and take a damn pull everyday or other form of birth control

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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Abortion of a fetus is NOT “killing a baby.” She was 16 - do you think it would have been so easy for her to get a prescription to “take a pill everyday”? And - perhaps most importantly - did you miss the part where the sex was not consensual? Is every girl or woman supposed to take hormonal birth control daily to guard against pregnancies caused by rape?

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Ang.stl
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Do I have this to look forward to with each new person on the list? Did you catch the "not consensual" part in her story? Or are you even bothering to read anything that might open that closed off, stagnant brain of yours to something new? Something that might just save lives.

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That sex "wasn't totally consensual" .... sigh. Choose LIFE!

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#4

Sebastiana Correa

Sebastiana Correa

Sebastiana Correa, 28 (at the time the photo was taken), got pregnant as a foreign exchange grad student in Connecticut. Signficantly Sebasitan’s mother is an ardent pro-life activist who runs an orphanage for the children of unwed mothers in Brazil. As scared as Sebastiana was, her first thought when she found out she was pregnant, was “thank God I’m in America where I can have a legal abortion”.

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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I like how they don’t give an excuse or reason. She just wanted one so she got one. Even this highly educated woman who is clearly smart still wanted an abortion.

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Holly Fritz

Holly Fritz

Holly Fritz, 35 (at the time the photo was taken), got pregnant living at home as a high school student in Buffalo, NY. She just assumed that she should get married to her boyfriend and embark on a life not unlike her mother’s who also had gotten pregnant by her high school sweetheart, got married, and had Holly. When Holly turned to her mother for advice, she was surprised that her mother urged her to have an abortion, rather than a shotgun wedding. Holly is now a high school teacher in NYC, married, and is the mother of a toddler, Zoe, pictured in the photograph with her.

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Barbara Ehrenreich

Barbara Ehrenreich

Barbara, 64 (at the time the photo was taken), has had two abortions and two children. She is a grandmother, best selling author and columinist. Her column “Owning Up To Abortion”, published last summer in the NY Times op-ed section was part of the idea that sparked my project. In the article, she writes: “Honesty begins at home, so I should acknowledge that I had two abortions during my all-too-fertile years…Choice can be easy, as it was in my case, or truly agonizing…But assuming the fetal position is not an appropriate response. Sartre called this “bad faith,” meaning something worse than duplicity: a fundamental denial of freedom and the responsibility that it entails. Time to take your thumbs out of your mouths, ladies, and speak up for your rights. The freedoms that we exercise but do not acknowledge are easily taken away.”

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Gloria Steinem

Gloria Steinem

Gloria Steinem, 71 (at the time the photo was taken), entered the feminist movement the day she covered Red Stockings abortion speak-out for New York magazine, and finally owned the abortion she had had several years earlier. She describes her abortion as the first time she acted in her own life, rather than let things happen to her. She had her abortion when she was 22. Gloria went on to found several pro-choice organizations, including Voters for Choice and Ms. Magazine and considers reproductive freedom to be the most significant contribution of the 2nd wave

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A’yen Tran

A’yen Tran

A’yen Tran, 25 (at the time the photo was taken), was raised by a single mother in a progressive NYC household. During her teenage years she had a “radical” boyfriend who was emotionally and sexually abusive, and isolated A’yen from her community. She got pregnant, and began waking up to how bad her relationship was. She had a methotrexate abortion and a few days later spoke publicly about it at a Judson Church event emulating the 1969 speak-outs. Even though she is a self-identified abortion activist, she was surprised by how hard it was to talk in personal terms about abortion.

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Jennifer And Gillian

Jennifer And Gillian

Jennifer and Gillian –Jennifer, 35 (at the time the photo was taken), left, journalist and activist, has written about abortion for more than a decade. She was frustrated that all the reporting on the issue, including her own, devovled into a “debate” between pro-life and pro-choice forces. She felt that what was being lost were the voices and faces of people that had abortions. In 2003 she started making t-shirts, resource cards, and working on a film that put the spotlight back on the women. Gillian and Jennifer have been close friends since they lived together in Boluder, CO in 1992. Gillian, 36, had an abortion in 2000 with the man who was to later become her husband and with whom she now has a daughter. She is also a film maker, and Jennifer asked her to direct a film on women’s abortions stories from the campagin. They collaborated, and the result is “Speak out: I had an abortion” film.

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D-m Keilman
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Dana that is an InfoWars video. And it was filmed in Austin. That's about as close to being an Onion video without being an actual Onion video.

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Rosalyn Baxandall

Rosalyn Baxandall

Rosalyn Baxandall, 65 (at the time the photo was taken), had an abortion in the 1960s and then again when she thought she was in menopause. She was the first speaker at the famed Redstockings abortion speakout in 1969.

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D-m Keilman
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Depending on what you consider abstinent, one can still get pregnant if ejaculation occurs even without penetration. Nothing is 100%.

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Loretta Ross

Loretta Ross

Loretta Ross, 51 (at the time the photo was taken), is a major figure in the reproductive justice movement. She is the co-author of Undivided Rights and organized women of color for the 2004 March for Women’s Lives in Washington, D.C., an event that brought unprecedented support from communities of color. She got pregnant in high school and had the son, losing a scholarship to Radcliffe in the process. At a student at Howard University in 1970 she found herself pregnant again. In D.C., abortion was legal, but Loretta needed her mother’s signature in order to have the procedure. Her mother refused and Loretta ended up forging her signature and having a very late term abortion.

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Christine Meadows
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Why add negative comments. If you dont like this story, move on. This is an awareness piece not something everyone can be judgemental on.

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Dawn Martin

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Roberta Todras

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Beverly Ferrel
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

So glad Colin is here to mansplain everything to us women who don't know anything...

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Amy Richards

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Brandy Flanagan
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It’s real easy to sit back and judge others. Just throw “Cause God said so” in there and somehow that just makes your point of view valid. That’s weak sauce.

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